Experimenting with kink can be a lot of fun. However, if you've never tried it before, it can feel scary or intimidating too.
These days, thanks to the explosive popularity of erotic romance novels (like Fifty Shades of Grey) and other sex acts that were previously deemed as “taboo,” more and more women are opening up about their secret kinky fantasies.
However, when put in an erotic context, blindfolding can add an interesting, thrilling element to your sexual escapades.
Blindfolding relies on blocking out one of your senses — in this case, your sight.
This is the main reason why some women like to be blindfolded during sex:
It creates excitement and surprise, not to mention the sensory deprivation can make her feel everything else that much more intensely.
Even better, blindfolding is a pretty low-commitment introduction to kink.
But how exactly do you go about introducing blindfolding in the bedroom? After all, it might not be the best idea to just break one out mid-session and try to put it on her without explaining what you're doing.
With the right atmosphere, though, blindfolding can be a great way to make sex way hotter — for both of you.
So if this sounds like something you'd be interested in trying, just follow these 4 steps:
1) Find a Blindfold (Or Get Creative)
Getting started with blindfolding is pretty easy! All you really need is a blindfold and a willing partner.
The first step is to find a blindfold — and keep in mind that it doesn't literally have to be a blindfold.
Sure, you could spend money on a specialty blindfold from a sex store, but you could also use a scarf…
Then she's probably really enjoying what you're doing. 😉
One of the best parts of using blindfolds during sex is that it can make her orgasms that much more powerful. And we all know that if you can give a woman a powerful orgasm, then chances are she'll be dying to sleep with you again.
So here's how to do that:
He Covered My Eyes & Tied Me to The Bed…
“Time to try a little something new,” he said, climbing on top of me…
My pulse quickened & I felt shivers go down my spine… did he buy some special lube?
Or maybe he got a vibrator… (I did mention to him once that I was a fan of the Hitachi)…
But oh. My. god. What he did was SO much better than that.
When he entered me, I felt him do this “pulsing” move every few seconds… the pressure sent wave after wave of pleasure throughout my entire body… which built into an EXPLOSIVE orgasm after only like 5 minutes (lol).
Obviously, I couldn’t see what he was doing with the blindfold on… so afterward, I had to know:
“That orgasm was AMAZING… where’d you learn how to do that thing?”
Roleplay is an awesome and easy way to make sex, well, sexy, every time.
It adds an element of excitement and mystery to the bedroom–which is a surefire way to keep a woman coming back to you for more.
Plus, it's one of the easiest ways to spice up your sex life if things have seemed “boring” or “stale” lately.
And that’s because roleplay engages your imagination and creativity, allowing you to safely act out fantasies as another person or character.
It’s a fun way to experiment and explore new territory with your partner.
The only problem is, if you’re new to roleplay, it can seem a little intimidating (or let’s face it, awkward).
How do you get into character without laughing?
How do you make sure she’s enjoying it?
Do you need costumes or props?
There are a lot of questions surrounding roleplay, so using our best resources–including advice from our experts and scientifically proven tips–we compiled these 7 simple “roleplay rules” to have the hottest, steamiest roleplay sex ever. 😉
1) Get On the Same Page
There’s nothing worse than not being on the same page in the bedroom.
Trying out a new move or trick can go badly if your partner either isn’t into it or simply doesn’t catch on to what you’re doing.
Talking about role play before diving into it can help you establish ground rules and figure out what type of roleplay action you want to try out.
You can determine if there will be a dominant partner taking control of the situation or if you’d rather just play it by ear and see where the moment takes you.
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