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I’m guessing you’ve heard about the mysterious dominatrix at some point in your life.
Unless you’re already into pretty kinky stuff, you might be unsure what a dominatrix is.
Maybe you’re looking for a way to add something new to your sex life.
Whether you’re part of a couple or just looking for fun new things to try in bed, some BDSM and domination play may be just the thing you’re looking for.
Even if a dominatrix isn’t part of your fantasy, you can still learn some really useful sex info from the pros!
We gathered 5 of the kinkiest, most useful sex secrets from real dominatrices all over the country.
Want your curiosity satisfied, and your bedroom moves expanded? Just read on.
1) The One Rule You Don’t Want To Skip
The most important rule, according to a dominatrix?
Have a safe word.
When it comes to trying out kinky sex stuff and going to new depths, a safe word basically means, “Stop!”
You and your partner set up a safe word in advance. It can be simple, like “Nope!” Or silly, like “Cotton candy!”
Professional dominatrices recommend a safe word. If you know you can easily stop an activity immediately without an awkward conversation, you’ll be more likely to explore.
(And so will the women you sleep with.)
The more you explore, the sooner you’ll find something new and wild you never knew you’d love.
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2) Make A Fantasy “Wish List”
This one is even more fun than Christmas!
Professional dominatrices really know how to get things revved up in the bedroom. To get things started, get together with your lady and make a list.
Time to break out the magic markers! Of course you don’t have to. 😉
But what you should do, is color code your list like this:
Green: Whatever bedroom activities you can’t wait to try!
Yellow: Wild stuff you might be into, but are still a little unsure about.
Red: Anything you think you definitely don’t want to do.
First, try making your own lists in private, and then compare. You might be surprised at how much your lists overlap!
You can then have a conversation about what to try first.
Eventually, pro dominatrices say, you may blow all the way through your yellow list, and start exploring the reds.
(Just make sure not to send your list to Santa. I mean, unless that’s your thing.)
3) Talk About Sex (But Not When You Think)
Dominatrices say: Talk about sex with your partner!
Not just in bed either–all the time!
Talk about sex at home and in private.
Talk about sex on the elevator. (Politely and discreetly, of course.)
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Talk about sex over brunch.
Talk about sex during church. (What!? Well, OK, maybe not then…)
Basically, the more you talk about sex, the more open you will feel in the bedroom.
If sex is a normal part of your daily conversation, you’ll feel more open suggesting new activities, or saying what you especially like.
You’re also likely to do the deed more often!
Think about it:
If you and your partner were constantly talking about ice cream, don’t you think you’d eat more ice cream??
Probably. 🙂
So the more sex talk becomes a normal, everyday part of your daily patterns, the more sex you get to have.
4) Dodge The Happy Ending
Wait, what!?
Am I telling you to fool around without having an orgasm?
No–I’m not.
But a professional dominatrix is.
Try this:
Mess around with your partner and get each other really close to the edge.
But don’t finish.
Try all sorts of different things that don’t get you all the way there.
This will prolong your session, break you out of any habits you may have, and lead you to new places.
Remember: The journey is the real destination.
You might have read that on a travel blog, but it applies to your sex life, too.
So enjoy the ride. It’s supposed to be fun–and with a little BDSM thrown in, it can be even more fun that you realize.
Here are a few more things you can try that will both help you experiment and prolong your pleasure:
You could try shaking things up with some roleplay…
Maybe one night she handcuffs you, ties on the blindfold and takes charge…
Then the next night, switch positions!
You’ll both get to explore different sides of your personalities and get to know each other in a new way.
Not to mention, sex will be explosive and exciting, like nothing you’ve experienced before.
Which brings me to the final dominatrix-approved tip for hotter sex right away…
5) If You Want to Experiment With “Rough” Sex Or Get Her to Unleash Her Kinkier Side…
… then I’ve got good news:
Universally, almost all women like sex to be at least a LITTLE rough (myself included)…
And there are some rough moves, which are on the safer side, that give women extraordinary pleasure… without really risking going too far.
Deep down, almost all women CRAVE these rough sex moves…
… though because we don’t want to be “judged” or come off as a “sl*t”…
… we usually won’t open up about it, until the man takes the initiative and gets a little rough with us first. 😉
Just click the move you want to know more about below:
P.S. This is embarrassing to admit, but I came in like 2 minutes the last time a guy did this to me lol… would you try it?
