How To Make a Girl Horny in 3 Easy Steps (Pictures)

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Hey, how’s it going? It’s Craig Miller here.

If you’re looking to make a girl horny, then you’ve definitely come to the right place. This is my complete, ultimate “black book” guide that I’ve been using for years and have shared with hundreds of my clients.

It is highly effective, and while I’ve shared this with my personal coaching clients paying me thousands of dollars, today I’m going to share it with you for free.

This is a very specific, three-step method I’ve been perfecting over the years. It works like this…

Step 1: Get her horny using words and “pickup lines”…

Step 2: Get her horny using physical touch…

Finally, Step 3: Get her horny using more advanced “dirty talk” and sexual come-ons…

In this guide, I’m going to break down each step of the process for you. It'll be so easy and simple, that there is no way you can possibly screw it up.

This is probably the fastest and most powerful method you can use to get a girl turned on fast.

I’ve taught this to guys who are, in my opinion, pretty unattractive and had a lot of disadvantages when it comes to dating… and they’ve used this to get some extremely attractive girls.

I’ve also shared this with guys who are in their 60’s and going bald and they’ve used it successfully.

This is my personalized, specific method and you will not find this anywhere else. Not on YouTube, Google or in any magazine — you will ONLY find it on my blog right here.

Before We Jump Into This…

Just before we jump in, I want to give you a little background on myself so that this all makes sense.

I didn’t even kiss a girl until my mid 20’s. I just did not understand how dating and women worked.

I’d see my friends all hooking up and getting girls, and I was literally at home every Friday night doing nothing.

Thanks in part to this method I’m about to teach you, I was able to turn my life around pretty quickly.

Now, I feel I can get a girlfriend or a hookup whenever I want. And this gives me a ton of confidence and really makes me feel liberated.

I’ve also taught this method to hundreds of guys in one-on-one coaching, at seminars and over the internet.  And trust me — it works, even if you have ZERO experience.

I was the worst guy I knew with women, and it worked for me!

So let's jump right into step number one:

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This pick up line is perfect for making almost any woman horny…

Step 1: How to Make a Girl Horny Using Words & Pickup Lines

Now, I’m assuming that this girl is either a complete stranger…

An acquaintance…

A co-worker…

Or a friend who you’d like to turn into something more.

Assuming this is true, you need to lay some groundwork to get her horny.

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This initial phase is very basic and we could even call it “innocent.” You are not coming in with any heavily sexual language. You are being careful, respectful, and most importantly, friendly.

In fact, I would go as far as to say that there should be ZERO conversation about sex at all here.

If you’re really advanced at flirting you could try for a few sexual innuendos, but if you’re not experienced at getting women in a horny mood, then hold off on that.

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Try complimenting her like this..

PRO TIP: Compliment Her

Now, this might sound cheesy, but a good compliment can really make a girl blush. It can also get the conversation headed in the right direction for her to eventually end up very horny.

And my best compliment of all time is… “I like your style.”

I like this because it can be used in any situation and can mean many different things. It's very versatile and so you can use it almost without thinking about it.

I’ve also had good success complimenting her shoes, dress, makeup and hair… anything to let her know you like the way she looks and the decisions she made to make herself look beautiful.

However, DO NOT compliment her legs, butt, etc. Some women find this crude. On top of that, it's not something she feels she deserves credit for. These are genetics.

Her clothing, hair, and makeup are decisions she made. People like their decisions to be recognized and appreciated.

So if you notice this, you will usually score some big points.

Plus, no one has ever gotten rejected by giving someone an honest compliment — it’s almost foolproof!

What Are Some More Ways to Keep the Conversation Going?

Here are a few other great ways to keep the conversation going in step 1:

  • Ask her how her day or week is going. It’s basic, but it shows you care and can be very effective…
  • Ask her about something you discussed previously. For example, “How’s your dog doing?” This shows you remember your past conversations…
  • Ask basic “getting to know you” questions. These include things like what part of town she lives, if she likes it, etc.

Again, these might sound very, very basic, but in a way, you’re just getting her comfortable here.

You’re also testing the waters. Remember, she may have a boyfriend (here's what to do if she DOES have a boyfriend) or just not be in the mood to flirt. If either of these situations is the case, it will be very hard to get her horny. 

This does NOT mean you “failed” or are a failure — it just means this particular girl is not ready right now.

It's like asking someone if they want to grab some ice cream. Sometimes they’re in the mood. Sometimes they’re not. It's nothing personal.

Just keep trying until you find someone who wants to get “ice cream” with you!

So that's step 1 — now let's move on to step 2. This is exactly what you want to start doing next, as soon as step 1 has been successfully completed.

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This simple touch is perfect to turn her on

Step 2: Using Physical Touch To Get Her Horny…

This builds on what we were talking about in step 1. Again, just to be totally clear, you absolutely MUST complete step 1 before moving on to this step.

Whatever you do, DO NOT skip step 1. If you skipped step 1, then go back and read it now.

So for step 2, you want to start to get physical.

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For this step, I want to give you some awesome tips that my mentor Magic Leone reveals in his awesome course Silent Seduction.

He is the master of getting a girl turned on using touch, and almost everything I know about touching women I learned from him.

You absolutely MUST get physical with a girl in order to get her horny.

Magic provides a very simple and straightforward way to do this, step-by-step, so there is almost ZERO chance of rejection.

I don’t want to give away his entire method, but I will give you one of this best tricks. It's called the “10 Second Seductive Handshake.”

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This seduction handshake is perfect to turn her on…

PRO TIP: The 10 Second Seduction Handshake

This happens when you first meet a girl, or perhaps when you meet her for the second time.

You’ll introduce yourself, maybe give her a compliment and ask her a follow-up question to get the conversation started.

When you introduce yourself, go to shake her hand. Take her hand in yours lightly — NOT like you’re doing a business deal with another guy.  

Then just let her hand sit in your hand while you look into her eyes and continue talking. If she wants to move her hand away, fine, but let it continue to sit there.

This extended contact communicates to her on a subconscious level that your relationship is a sexual one.

It may also get her hornier on the spot. If she’s getting horny, you may notice her start to smile and blush. She may also playfully touch your shoulder, arm or hand (see below for more signs).

In my 10+ years of learning about dating from experts, reading tons of books and teaching hundreds of men, there is NO better tip I’ve discovered to get a woman horny quickly and easily than this Seductive Handshake technique.

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“Do THIS and She'll Get More and More Turned On…”

If you get stuck in the “friend zone” or are tired of your conversations with women going nowhere, then I highly recommend you start using this.

Even if you are meeting women for first dates off of Tinder, Match.com or other online sites, you have to do this when you meet a woman. It sets the tone that things are going to be sexual and that it will NOT be just a friendship.

After you’ve used the Seductive Handshake technique, you should try out some more “touching” techniques to continue to get her more and more turned on… these include:

  • Get closer to her as you’re talking. You can pretend like you’re having a hard time hearing her or are trying to talk closely into her ear. This works great in bars and clubs…
  • Sit next to her on a couch or somewhere where your legs can touch. Then put your arm around her when the time is right. This also allows you to kiss easily and without obstructions like a dinner table, etc…
  • Massage her shoulders. This should only happen if she’s shown you that she’s OK sitting side-by-side and is interested in talking to you. This is THE technique that will get a girl to relax and become horny. Often for women, relaxation = more horniness. A good way to get this started is just to ask if she’s stressed out at work/school/whatever and use it as a technique to relieve stress…

There are a lot more ways to do this, but these are the absolute best that I recommend to all my clients. They typically flow in the order you see above over the course of one or two hours after meeting (assuming that there are no interruptions, of course).

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Now, if all is going well, then you are ready for the next step.

What is it?

It's all about getting even more sexualized with your language:

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If you're wondering how to make her horny try using one of these tips…

Step 3: Using Advanced Dirty Talk And Sexual Come-Ons…

This is probably the most difficult part, in my opinion. It’s not 100% necessary to do this, but you can really take things up a notch and make her extra horny if you do.

There are three key areas in which you can get her horny with more explicit words…

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1) X-Rated Compliments

These might not really be that X-rated, but basically, give her compliments for any type of physical or sexual behavior.

If she is touching you, tell her the way she touches you feels really good and she’s got really good hands.

If you’re kissing, tell her she’s got great lips and is a great kisser.

These types of compliments make a girl feel great and will steer things in a more sexual direction. They will also encourage her to get hornier around you and really let herself go.

2) Sexual Innuendos

This one requires some give and take.

You're going to want to get her mind on a sexual situation… but without actually telling her, “I want to have sex with you right now.”

For example, if the two of you are out to dinner and you're having chocolate-covered strawberries for dessert, you could say:

“Have you ever eaten chocolate-covered strawberries naked? They taste WAY better that way, don't you think?”

Or if you happen to walk by someone getting arrested, you could mention how you're into handcuffs… but not in public.

The key is to be subtle, while still making it clear that what you're talking about is sex.

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3) Dirty Talk

This is probably the highest-risk of the techniques you can use in step 3. A quick word of warning:

Because women can be super “shy” and timid about dirty talk (even when they're feeling really horny!), it's important to tread lightly with this advanced dirty talk. Do NOT attempt it if you don't feel completely comfortable with the technique.

This is best to use after you've successfully completed step 1 and step 2, and you're in a place where you can whisper to her, or talk to her where nobody else can hear.

When she gets up to use the bathroom, do this when she comes back:

Lean over and whisper, “Are you teasing me on purpose? Watching you walk away in that [whatever she's wearing]… you have no idea what you're doing to me right now.”

Another line that seems to work fairly well — ONLY do this if she's already all over you and is clearly physically attracted — takes it one step further. If you're sitting next to each other, let your lips touch her ear and whisper:

“You know, it's too bad we're in public… because all I want to do is push you up against that wall and taste you.”

You'll get an immediate response — and right away, you'll know whether or not it worked. Trust me.

So those are the three major tools you have to get her “really horny.” Most of the guys I know who are really good with women use these advanced words.

But again, be careful. Proper timing is needed to make sure they work effectively!

If you’ve completed all of step 1 and step 2, then I would say you have the “green light” to start using more sexualized language around her that we are discussing here in step 3.

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Don't believe these lies about women's sex drive…

The 3 Big Lies Men Are Told About Women’s Sex Drive…

Now before I move on, I want to cover a few of the big lies men are told when it comes to turning a girl on and getting her horny…

These are lies that may have been told to you by women, other men or are just plain wrong assumptions you’ve made in life. And they are holding you back from the success that you should be having.

In my experience, these are the three biggest lies men fall for — here's what they are, plus the real truth about women and what turns them on quickly…

1) Women Are Just Like Men

The first and single biggest lie men are told (or just assume) about a woman’s sex drive is that women are just like men. As a result, a lot of guys assume that what turns women on is the same as what turns men on.

This could not be further from the truth.

Women like a lot of foreplay. If you've ever watched a romance movie or adult film aimed at women, there is a lot of foreplay going on and things move very slowly.

For a lot of men, the ideal scenario would be a quick, hot and sweaty hookup in the bar bathroom. We know this because this is what men want to see happening in porn movies.

Women want the exact opposite.

They want a guy who is going to slowly build up the mood throughout the night. He won’t rush things, but he also won’t move too slowly either. He will try to move things forward and pay close attention to her reactions.

Every woman is different, so it's hard to give any set rules here about how much time is required. That said, it’s usually not going to happen within 1-2 hours of meeting.

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2) Women Get Physically Turned On

The second lie men are told (or assume) is that women get turned on physically.

While I do believe strongly that physical touch can turn a woman on in very powerful ways, a lot of getting turned on for a woman is psychological… it's in her MIND.

So what you say and do is turning her mind on… not just “down there” like it does for men.

That’s why foreplay is so important. It engages her MIND.

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3) Horny Women Give Off the Same Signs as Horny Men

Unlike men, women can be very quiet and secretive about when they are turned on. 

They often don’t feel comfortable expressing themselves around a new man because they are worried he might judge them as “easy” or a slut.

If they like you, they want you to like them back. And so they are worried you might only be looking for a “good girl.”

This is why it's so important that you compliment her for sexual actions (see the X-Rated Compliment section) and do everything you can to let her know you love it when a girl lets out her sexual side.

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This is a great way to make her horny fast…

PRO TIP: Share a Story That Shows You're Open-Minded

I have a friend who’s quite good with women. Usually, he likes to tell a story to new women he meets about how he thinks it's unfair that men and women have a double standard when it comes to sex:

Men can go out and sleep with whoever they want and not be judged for it, and so he thinks women should be able to do the same thing. He makes sure to tell the woman he's with this sentiment.

This story sends a powerful message that he is an open-minded guy who will love it if his girl lets loose and goes wild in the bedroom. So she understands that she does not need to try to keep up a “good girl” image to make him happy.

How Do I Know If She’s Getting Horny?

I figured it would be helpful to know what the signs are that a girl is getting horny.

After all, my main “system” that I teach guys is called the Sexual Decoder System. It's all about how to tell if a girl is interested in you or just interested in hooking up or meeting a guy in general.

I find that these signs are the single biggest thing guys miss.

Again, women communicate some very weird signals. As much as we want them to be upfront and just tell us, “Hey, I think you’re a hot guy, I want to take you home with me right now!”…

The truth is most women will never do this!

Again, it all goes back to being judged as “easy” or as a slut.

They are worried they will be judged negatively by their friends, family, and coworkers.

But more importantly, they are worried that they will be judged negatively by you!

They think that they will seem “cheap” or like a girl that any guy can get with using little or no effort.

My Personal Opinion…

Personally, I love a girl who is cool with getting physical quick.

I like a girl without inhibitions and a girl who is attracted enough to me that she wants to get physical quickly. I also think a girl who gets physical quickly is going to be more fun in bed, and it’s a sign that we have real chemistry — perhaps not always, but very likely.

All of my best and longest relationships have gotten physical quickly.

That said, to stay on track, here are the key signs you want to look for that a girl is getting turned on.

And I’m going to limit these to circumstances in which you are already talking to her and have already applied some or all of the three steps above.

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These are the tops signs she's ready to go…

The Key  Signs That She's Turned On & May Want to Start Getting More Physical…

Here are a few major tip-offs that the girl you're with is starting to get horny…

  • Her face is red, she’s blushing a lot and perhaps is shyly looking away from you…
  • She’s laughing at everything you say, even if it’s not really that funny…
  • She’s lightly touching your arm, shoulder or chest without you prompting her to do it…

Now, there are more obvious signs too, like she’s grabbing your head and kissing you… or if she literally says to you, “Let's get out of here and go back to my place”…

But I’m going to assume those are pretty obvious signs.

By the way, shameless plug here… if you’re looking for more signs that a girl is either out looking to hook up, looking for a boyfriend or is horny and wants to go home you… then I highly recommend you check out this free video about my Sexual Decoder System.

I worked for 10 years to build this system and have taught it to hundreds of guys. I think it's awesome and it’d be a damn shame if you didn’t at least check out the free video. And I think it will really get you a lot more hot women and will basically eliminate your chances of rejection from now on!

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NEW Bonus Section: What Women Secretly Say When They Are Horny & Trying to “Tip a Guy Off”…

About a year ago, I did an undercover project where I had another girl interview a bunch of hot women at a bar about what secretly turned them on.

I pulled some of the best tips and quotes from actual hot women about what the signs are that they are horny and what they might do to signal to a guy that they are ready to go home with him…

According to one woman:

If I'm alone at a bar and I'm looking to hookup, usually I'll try and make a lot of eye contact. Maybe I'll bite my lip… look at you for a few seconds (like 2-3)… and then look away. Then I'll glance back again a few seconds later.”

Another woman, Ashley, says: 

I'll flirt with the nearest guy if I'm horny — this shows other guys around me that I'm single, fun, and open to meeting new people. It'll be casual flirting, but obvious enough for everyone around me to tell that I'm a fun girl who can hold a conversation with anyone.”

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Once she is in the mood try doing this…

What Do I Do Next Once I Know She’s Horny?

OK, so this is the million-dollar question.

By now, you've probably spent hours going through all the three steps above. You’ve seen the signs that she’s horny, and so you think now is probably the time to make your move.

So what should you do next so you don’t completely blow things?

Really, at this point, you’ve got to consider a few important questions:

  • How horny is she?
  • Are you guys making out a lot?
  • Are you touching each other a lot?
  • Is she touching your thighs? Is she letting you touch hers? (I mention this area because it’s a very sexual spot as far as leading towards sex — much more sexual than the back or arms or shoulders.)

If she’s really horny, then you definitely want to go somewhere private where things can progress (like your home or her home).

If that’s not an option, then it's up to you to get creative! Plenty of sex has gone down in bathrooms, stairwells and other nooks and crannies.

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If she’s not “really horny,” then I suggest spending more time together.

If you’re out drinking, for example, then go to another bar to keep the mood up and prevent things from getting stale at the same place.

Find somewhere fun with dim lighting and good music to keep the mood going where you can both sit closely and continue to get physical.

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Keep scrolling for how to make her horny fast and get her back to your place…

My #1 Tip to Get Her Back to Your Place…

Honestly, my absolute best tip for getting her back to your place is either one of these two options:

1) Just say “Hey, let's get out of here,” and proceed back to your place…. or:

2) You can stop by your place “on the way” to somewhere else just to pick something up, drop something off, or walk the dog. Then once you're there, maybe things get a little more serious.

Obviously, this is just the tip of the iceberg as far as making a girl horny and reading the signs that she wants to hookup…

Your Next Steps…

There are two key resources I recommend you check out next…

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First, if you want to make a girl horny quickly using touch, I recommend watching the free video about using “Silent Seduction” to turn a girl on.

This is great for shy or quieter guys who don’t want to talk a lot is and hands-down the fastest way to get a girl horny.

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Second, and again, shameless plug, I recommend the free video about the “Decoder System.” 

This system tells you which girls at a bar, party or even just walking around on the street are eagerly looking for a boyfriend or a guy to hookup with. 

This is a game-changer, because you will almost instantly know which women are looking for a guy and will never risk rejection approaching a girl who’s just going to say “No.”

This is the biggest thing that has completely changed my life.

Your friend,

Craig Miller

[Note: This post was updated by Gotham Club on March 11, 2020.]

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