How To Get a Girl to Send You Nudes, Even If You've Never Met Her Or She Said “No” in The Past…
Many men assume that the only girls who “sext” are college-aged girls, or millennials.
And generally a lot pickier than older, more mature women.
But what if that wasn't really the case?
In fact, what if more women are sending nudes than you ever imagined… which would mean that the odds of getting a woman to send you naked pictures are actually in your favor?
According to one recent survey, this is exactly what's happening.
The survey asked 2,000 American & European men and women about their sexting habits… and the results were pretty shocking.
In fact, more women are sending naked pictures than ever before–and that means that getting a woman to send you a naked picture is probably a lot easier than you think.
According to McAfee 96 percent of people use their phones to take pictures, and 49 percent send or receive sexual content via video, photo, e-mail, or messaging.
While the majority of sexters, 77 percent, send this racy content to their significant others, 16 percent send it to complete strangers.
The most popular sexting group is 18 to 24-year-olds — 70 percent of people in this age group receive sexually suggestive photos and messages.
So that's what I want to show you today. I'll touch on the kind of picture you should ask for… how to ask for it… and exactly what message you should send to give yourself the best chances of success. 😉
If you want to see this post in video format… with some sexy pics of some hot girls… click on the video below:
What Kind of Picture Should You Ask For?
According to the survey, women overwhelmingly prefer to send pictures of their breasts or chest.
Here's the breakdown so you can see it for yourself:
55% of American women have sent pictures of their breasts or chest…
17% have sent photos of their butts…
And just 9% sent pictures of their fully naked bodies.
So, if you want a woman to send you a naked picture… chances are she'll be most comfortable if you ask for a picture of her breasts, rather than her butt or a full body shot.
But how exactly do you ask her for these kinds of photos without freaking her out, or offending her?
I'll show you:
How to Ask Her For Nudes / Nude Pics (Highest Success Rate)
When it comes to asking a woman to send you naked pics, it's a bit of a delicate process.
However, if you know the right steps, then it doesn't have to be super complicated or confusing.
First, let me show you what not to do.
Do not, under any circumstances:
- Randomly say, “Show me your t*ts!”…
- Send her an unsolicited d**k pic and hope she'll return the favor…
- Tell her you'd like some material for your “spank bank”…
- Say that you'd like to add her pics to the collection of ones from your exes…
These are probably all pretty obvious, but it's good to remind yourself of what to avoid from time to time.
So how should you ask for a naked picture?
The key to getting her to say yes is to make her feel:
a) Like you won't share what she sends you with anybody (it's your own private secret), and…
b) Physically desirable.
That first one is really important. 17% of all people who receive sexts share them with others.
And of those, 55% share them with more than one person.
If you're sexting with an attractive woman… those odds probably go way up.
So she needs a little reassurance that you're not going to be one of “those guys.”
And when I say “Make her feel physically desirable”…
That does NOT mean text her “Damn! Look at them t!tt!es!” haha.
It's a fine line to walk really…
Between being crude…
And being a weak guy who's “begging” for nude pics.
You don't want to do either.
Instead, use the simple copy-paste line below to do these things for you:
The #1 Copy-Paste Question That Eases Her Into Sending You Nudes
First, you want to put her in the right mindset–she should feel a little turned on before you ask her. That way, she's less likely to say “no,” and more likely to initiate the sexting herself.
Something that's worked on a few of my friends is to text her late at night and say:
“Hey, I was just thinking about our last time in bed together… that was so hot. What are you doing right now?”
If she responds quickly and isn't busy, then you can say:
“Well, I have kind of a strange question for you… have you ever sexted before?”
If she says “Yes” or seems enthusiastic, then she's definitely into it. And if she says “no,” then you can simply ask, “Would you want to try?”
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And remember, there are different kinds of sexting. Some women prefer to sext by typing out a long storyline or scenario that ends in you having sex.
Other women, on the other hand, prefer to just send pictures. So if you want her to send you pictures, to get the ball rolling you could say, “What are you wearing right now? ;-)”
Because you've already primed her by talking about sexting, this isn't nearly as creepy as if you sent it to her out of the blue.
And when things do escalate, remember–ask for a picture of her upper body or chest, and don't ask her to include her face (the study mentioned that most women recoil at the thought of their naked body and their face being in the picture together).
HOW TO TEXT HER FOR SEX: 5 Copy-Paste Texts You Can Use Tonight…
Don’t “Steal Her Thunder”
Again, you don’t want the “insecurity sext” or the “disempowerment sext.” You want the sext that is purely meant to turn you on, and if anything, boosts the woman’s confidence.
To support this cause, do not suggest that you are interested in any other girls. This can cause complications in trust and that kills a woman’s sex drive.
She will KNOW if you are in-demand–don’t make comments to highlight your desirability.
I once dated a man who I found outrageously sexy. He showed a lot of confidence, and I was certain he had quite a few women in his sex life.
The thing is, he NEVER, not ONCE alluded to any other women. Without ever being dishonest he created the impression that I was the only one on his mind, and this made me feel more comfortable getting close to him.
I didn’t want to think about other girls he was intimate with, and he didn’t make me. So yes, maybe you guessed it–I sent him plenty of sexts.
The key is creating a space where sexual expression feels safe and fun, and where the point is to build sexual tension.
If you can clear out motivations related to insecurity, you will ultimately have a more fun and sexy experience.
You can send her flirty texts to let her know what’s on your mind, too.
If you keep it light and don’t push it, chances are she’ll soon be flirting back. I can also tell you, as a woman, it’s super fun to be the ones to escalate things from sexy messages to nude pics–so don’t steal her thunder!
Hold back enough to give her time to make that power move.
Because if you do… you might be surprised by what happens next. 😉
I don't just mean more sexts… and more dirty photos coming your way… I mean she might show up practically naked at your doorstep that same night if you play your cards right!
Take it Slow… In Order to Turn up the Heat
So let’s say things are going smoothly while chatting with a lady and…
You’re starting to wonder whether she’s ready to start sexting.
Right now, the timing is crucial.
Whatever you do, don’t rush.
Remember that Seinfeld episode where Elaine is mad at Jerry for trying to get her to rush with a new guy?
She says something like, “It’s like I’m trying to get a little squirrel to come over to me here. I can’t make any big, sudden movements!”
Now, I’m not accusing you of trying to date a squirrel. But this is really good advice when it comes to getting women to send you nudes.
Nothing makes a woman run for the hills (or climb up a tree) faster than thinking you are too into her, before she’s had a chance to figure out how she feels about you.
So much of the “getting to know ya” stuff happens through text these days (and, soon enough, through sext…).
It’s so important to have good pacing here.
What am I talking about?
Well, for example, to ease her into feeling safe sending you nudes, start by exchanging family-friendly, G-rated selfies.
You can start: Send her a pic of you at the gym, a little video of part of your workout, yourself on a pretty walk, maybe making a funny face.
Do your best to send something that will appeal to her taste or her sense of humor.
More than likely, she’ll respond by sending you a selfie, too.
If you can get comfortable sending each other pictures of your faces…you know what’s next!
You can slowly start ramping up the heat.
Women love to help, so try sending her a pic of an outfit and ask for her opinion.
Tell her you think she has great style and you could use advice…
Maybe your band is playing a show. Or you have an interview or an important day at work.
You can get the flirty ball rolling—and show your confidence, which is super hot—by sending her a pic in a swimsuit, or with a towel around your waist after a shower.
You don’t want to send her an unsolicited dick pic, but these lighter, flirty pics could be just what she’s waiting for.
After all, there’s nothing hotter than acting confident about your own appearance—and encouraging her to do the same.
This is a great way to open the door to getting full-body pics — first with clothes, and later, well, you know….
From there, maybe she sends you a pic of her latest purchase of cute panties, or a favorite bra, or maybe a shot of her in a bikini.
Ease her into it, and she’s bound to get comfortable and send you the real deal before you know it.
What to Do When She Doesn't Want to Send You Nude Pics…
There are plenty of girls out there who will either teasingly put up a fight when you ask for nude pics…
Or who will outright refuse.
This is normal–especially if you barely know her.
There are a few different ways you can go if this happens… and many of them end in her sending nude pics over to you.
The first is to build more comfort with her.
Talk a little more about other topics… especially ones that make her emotional.
If she's feeling emotional, chances are she'll disregard what her “logical brain” is telling her… and give in to what she feels she wants to do (send you a nude pic).
Even topics that seem weird (think “where were you on 9/11”–but adjusted for her age) can be huge emotional topics for girls… that in a weird way bring her closer to you… and make her feel more comfortable with you.
If you need some good examples of questions to text her… I highly recommend this free deck of cards that has 52 “Fast, Deep Connection” questions on it.
The other possibility (that ends in her sending you nudes) is that she's “sh*t testing” you.
“Sh*t testing” happens when she says something outrageous or rude to try to get a reaction out of you.
Here's an example:
You: “Great bod! Can I see more?”
Her: “I don't think my boyfriend would like that very much ;-)”
Does she have a boyfriend? Or is she messing with you?
There's only one way to tell… and then to use that to get her to send you nudes (or even to hookup with you):
(^^^This is a REALLY good resource!)
Once you do that… you'll know if she's just “teasing” you… or if she's really a “hard no.”
Once you've figured that out… I have something that can help you go “beyond nudes”… to getting her to come over to your place solely to hookup (sound good)?
That's what I want to show you next:
Naked Pics Are Great… But You Know What’s Even Better?
A naked girl in bed next to you. 😉
And most guys don’t know this, but just like certain words and phrases can get a girl to take off her top and snap a sexy photo for you…
… there are certain words and phrases that can get a girl to drop everything and come over to your place too.
Even if you haven’t slept with this girl before… even if you haven’t met her in real life at all… and even if it’s 3 in the freaking morning…
… these texts will work to make her feel like she *has* to meet up with you, no matter what.
(And what’s great is that most of the time, these texts make it so she wants to jump into bed with you as soon as she gets there. Hell yeah!)
We compiled all 5 of these texts into a handy copy & paste list for you–click the link below to check it out:
P.S. Last time a guy texted me this… I got so turned on I Ubered over to his place NAKED (except for a coat lol). Click Here to See What It Is…
[Note: This post was updated by Gotham Club on November 10, 2020.]