You Won’t Believe How Easy It Is To Get Her to Text Back…
What if I could boil all the dating advice you’ve ever been given into one simple sentence?
Seriously, there’s only one thing you need to know, one thing you need to have.
Even if she thinks she wants money, or a buff gym rat, or to be chased, or for you to fall at her feet, worshipping her, and offering her things…
That’s all a lie.
She might want it in the moment, but none of that will keep her happy past a date or two.
Here’s all you need to know:
Never lose your self respect.
She might be playing games, or acting hard to get. And you might be thinking, “She’s so f’ing hot. I should tell her how much I like her. I should send her flowers. I should offer her my heart on a plate…”
You should not do any of those things.
You should keep your self respect.
In this video below, I’m going to tell you exactly how you should act (what you should say, do and even text her) to make her drop that act… and her panties…:
Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…
So this morning, I had a very interesting conversation with one of my clients…
This guy was interested in a woman. He’d been trying to get her to come on a date by sending her messages, but she would ignore him and wouldn't get back to him until days later.
Sometimes she would disappear, then come back to just keep it going on and on and on…
This guy was trying so hard.
He would send her jokes and love messages. He would let her know how much he cares about her and how much he wants to see her because he thought he needed to show sincerity.
He thought by doing all of this he would prove to her that he really does care for her and he is not just some player that wants to sleep with her.
He's someone who is genuinely interested in her and wants to build a romantic, lasting relationship with her.
Well, That Didn’t Work. This Did…
Well, here's the thing:
When a woman is playing hard to get, and you try to convince her, the only thing you're showing her is that you're needy, you're desperate, you're putting way too much value in her.
That doesn't work.
That doesn't work for anyone on this planet.
I tell you one thing, and this one thing you should really remember, not just in the area of dating, but in everything you do in your life:
Don’t sacrifice your self respect for anyone or anything.
There is no person, no job, no money, no car, no position, no power, nothing on this planet that's worth sacrificing your self respect.
And never be with someone who does not want you as much as you want them.
That's the very first rule of a relationship.
Let's say you persist, you chase after this woman, you convince her to be with you.
Well guess what's going to happen? This theme is going to continue for the rest of your life…
You're going to first have to convince her to come out on a date, then you're going to have to convince to have sex. You’re going to have to convince her to get into a committed relationship or marry you…
It's just going to go on and on and on…
Sometimes You Just Gotta Take a Break…
The more you chase her, the more you will lose respect in her eyes. The more she would see you as less, the less likely you both will actually end up together.
If you want a relationship with someone, they should want you as much as you want them, if not want you more than you want them. That's very, very important.
So when you see a woman is giving you a hard time, the first thing you need to do is take some time off.
I'm not being vindictive. I'm not being an asshole. All I'm saying is, the first thing you need to do is defend your self respect.
If she doesn't have time for you then she doesn't want to be with you. No problem.
Don't get angry. Don't send her nasty messages. Don't call her anything mean. Don't show anger, don't show any emotions. Just cut her off.
Here’s Where You Trap Her…
If she sends you a message down the road, ignore it, maybe respond after a day or two.
Here's something that happens when you ignore a woman: women can't handle that.
Now she wonders what happened? Why are you not chasing her? She thought you were going to chase her and what often happens is, no matter how good you are, women oftentimes get this wrong message in their head…
You might be the most confident guy out there. You might be the best guy for her. She feels amazing around you, but sometimes she still doesn’t know if you are right for her.
She might think: Is he being honest? Is he being real?
And all those feelings can make them build this defensive wall.
Once they do that they're trying to test the relationship. They're trying to see if this is real. If you are real, is this really happening…
So they consciously and subconsciously play this game.
And if you take part in that game, and if you start chasing her and you start convincing her, logically it should work…
We are all emotional beings, and that does not work for her.
So instead, when you take a step back, she starts to see, wow, this guy doesn't care for me. He's not chasing me.
And that makes her want to come after you more.
Now, She’s Going to Chase YOU
At that point, you can engage her again, but this time she has learned her lesson that if she needs to be with you, she needs to do it on equal terms.
And this is very important that when a woman is not interested you take a step back. Then if she comes back to you, you lead her.
So she respects you as an equal…
And she will, when you remember these 3 words…
He Didn’t Think He Had a Chance With Her. Days After I Gave My Student THIS Advice…She Raced To His Apartment For Sex
I said 3 little words:
“Give her space.”
So when my student gave this woman space for a couple of days, guess what?
She was texting him, saying things like, “Hey, haven’t heard from you in a while, how are you?” and “Are you OK???”
(He only went silent for 2 days before she reached out to him…)
This was great… I knew this was a sure-fire sign he was extremely close to banging her.
That’s when I showed him these 3 “Turn The Tables” techniques, which can often get a girl who seems “wishy washy,” “flaky,” or just not that interested in you…
and when he used those techniques, she started making sexual jokes…
and practically invited herself over to his place…
While most women would still “play the game” and act a little aloof when they come over (they don’t want to come off too “sl*tty”)…
She showed up at his doorstep wearing a hoodie… and nothing underneath.
How sexy is that???
I don’t have to tell you what happened next… 😉