How To Get a Girl to Come Home With You After A Date–Do You Know the Fastest Way To Close?
A lot of guys ask me about the best way to “close” on a date.
Because so often, even when a date goes well… it doesn’t always end in a kiss, or more.
I think that’s a bunch of B.S. And I also think that you don’t need to be a freakin’ expert to get laid on the first date.
So that’s what I want to show you today.
Hi, I’m Glenn Pearce–and as part of my new series, Ask Glenn, I’m answering all of your most difficult, burning questions that keep you up at night.
And today, I’m answering this one:
“How can I get a girl back to my place after a date?”
Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…
OK, so a lot of guys want to know how to get a girl back to your place, and it’s really pretty simple.
It’s not rocket science–you just have to ask her or tell her to come back to your place. However, there is a little finesse involved.
One of the things that I’ve seen guys I coach do is this:
They wait far too long to take a girl home.
They go on these crazy 5 or 6-hour dates… and then they lose a bunch of momentum.
So at that point, she’s not that attracted to him anymore. She’s a little bored…
And her emotional state is way down.
Then the guy tries to take her home, and she’s just like, “No.”
She’s not in the mood, and she’s not emotionally there.
Like I always say, women follow the most dominant emotion they’re experiencing at any given time.
So if her emotional state is very low and there hasn’t been much sexual tension, then she won’t come home with you. It’ll be almost impossible to get her back to your place.
So what can you do about it?
The #1 Dating Mistake That Stops Her From Coming Over (Avoid This at All Costs)…
Personally, I like to take girls home quickly.
For me, a date should be no longer than two or three hours.
You’re both adults, and you’re both sexual. So you probably both want to f**k.
Here’s the thing:
You’ll know within two or three hours if you can take her home or not.
So typically, I like to invite her back to my place after there has been some sexual escalation.
Maybe I’ve touched her… I’ve probably kissed her… and at a high point during the date, I invite her to come over.
My 3 Proven Lines to Get Her Back to Your Place…
One of the best ways that I know how to get a girl home is to simply say:
“Hey, I know a great little spot where we can go grab another drink.”
Then she’ll say, “OK, great.”
And then all I do is–I’m in New York City–hail a cab, and I give the driver my address. I take her straight to my place.
I don’t care if she thought we were going to a bar. It doesn’t matter. Everything I said is still true.
Of course, this may not be your style. So if you want to do something a little less “aggressive,” then I’ve got a few tricks up my sleeve for that too.
It Doesn't End There…
Another great way to get her back to your place is to give her a reason to come over that is NOT sex.
It can be anything. Women just like to have a reason that’s not related to sex to go back to a guy’s place.
So let’s say you’re a guitar player and you talked about playing the guitar earlier. At that moment, two or three hours into the date, you can just say:
“Hey, c’mon, let’s get out of here. I want to show you that guitar.”
Or if you have a dog, you could say:
“Hey, I want you to meet my dog… I have to take him on a quick walk.”
It can even be as ridiculous as telling her that you think you left the oven on. If she likes you, she’ll come with you. Trust me.
If you have roommates and you know she lives alone, you could say, “Hey, why don’t we go back to your place and watch some Netflix?”
Netflix is the reason. Does it mean sex? Of course it does.
But if she likes you, she’ll let you come over.
What If She Gives You Last-Minute Resistance?
And you know, you might get resistance.
You might say, “Hey, let’s go back to your place and watch Netflix.”
And she might respond, “No, I need to get up early.”
So then you just say, “Hey, I need to get up early too, so I won’t stay long. C’mon.”
Some girls like to throw up what I call “token resistance,” and all you need to do is plow through it.
Seriously, there are so many times when a woman will turn a guy down once and then walk away like, “Why did I do that? I’m so stupid. I really liked him!”
So you always need to try. At least try.
And if she says yes… here’s what you can do next to make sure the night ends with some action:
How To End Date Night With A “Bang” (Every Time)
Obviously, even if you get her to come back to your place… sex still isn’t guaranteed.
However… there are some things you can do to make it a lot more likely.
Like foreplay, for example. Most guys really neglect it… though often, good foreplay can make the difference between a night of hot, wild sex… and her saying, “I’ve got an early meeting tomorrow–see ya later!”
But what exactly is “good” foreplay? Because most women get bored with the typical, “I’m gonna kiss you for a couple minutes, then a few pumps, and… done.”
That’s not what’s going to keep her there… craving your c**k all night long…
Instead, what really gets a woman going is when you pay attention to these 8 specific, super-sensitive areas on her body… and who better to show you these areas than a hot single woman?
Hell yeah, we hired a model and ex-Playboy Radio host to show you these 8 specific spots that get her ready to take all of her clothes off…
But be warned! This video is not something you should watch at work lol… it’s pretty “arousing”… 😉
The Easiest Way to Get a Younger Woman In Bed…
Here's my “quick start guide”:
1) Don't be so quick to leave a conversation with a girl.
One sign of “disinterest” doesn't mean it's over. You need to stick with it until either she leaves, or flat out tells you to go away. Persistence is key!
2) Women want you to talk to them… escalate… and make things sexual.
But society tells them they have to be respected too.
So it's a tough balance to strike, both being in charge, and making a woman feel like her opinion is respected too.
She secretly wants you to be in charge… all while saying, “Don't dominate me!”
3) Don't be ashamed of your sexual desires.
Stop trying to meet thousands of girls online, get out there, and talk to women.
4) And put all of this great free knowledge to good use!
Get out and try the countless techniques, tips, and tricks on Gotham Club.
Don't be afraid to test a few things out–figure out what works best for you.
5) When you do go to take her home, know that she wants to be sexual.
She wants to be dominated and try new things… and you need to play that role of the dominant older guy who'll tell her what to do in bed.
She secretly craves this… but afterward you want her to know you respect her as a person and a woman as well…
My Older Buddies Often Ask Me:
“Man, younger women are so damn hot… but the stuff they want in bed? F’in insane. How the hell am I supposed to keep up with them? Take a prescription or what???”
And every time, I tell them the same thing:
“Sketchy prescriptions & weird ‘drugs’? F**k that, man. All you’ve gotta do is eat the Exotic Sex Snack before your date.”
Yeah, I know — “Exotic Sex Snack” might sound kinda funny… but the world’s oldest pornstar swears by it (and he’s in his 70’s).
He first discovered it while fighting in Vietnam… and these hot Vietnamese girls kept chasing him down… begging him to have an orgy…
He said “No” at first to be “professional”… but one night some locals made him this weird dish, served in a simple copper pot… and a few minutes later, he was rock hard *down there*.
(So when the hot village girls found him like that… he finally gave in… & pleasured each and every one of them, aaaall night long.)
It was only later that he discovered the “Exotic Sex Snack” isn’t really “exotic” after all… it’s just a combination of these 5 basic foods, that you probably already have at home…
Man, I never would have put them together… but my buddies & I all agree, the “Exotic Sex Snack” f’in rocks:
[Note: This post was updated by Gotham Club on September 28, 2019.]