Here’s the thing most men don’t know: women like a bit of a challenge, as well.
It’s actually hardwired into us, biologically.
That’s why today I want to talk to you about how to play hard to get successfully and make a woman so interested in landing you, she’ll actually be the one to make the first move.
Women want someone who is stable, well-rounded, and able to handle their own sh*t.
Men who constantly seek attention from their partners or suitors can be seen as immature, which is a super unattractive quality to women…at least, the smart, beautiful, and independent women you WANT to attract.
Tap into your self-reliance and really get to be comfortable being alone with yourself.
This is great for shy guys, because you don’t have to have confidence around women at all. You just have to be confident that you like yourself, and when you are alone, it will shine outwards…
Hot women will notice that, and be drawn like a moth to a flame, without you ever saying a word to her…
Talk to People, Lots of People (ANY People…)
Ok, so I’m not saying string a bunch of women along for your ego’s sake.
What I’m saying is that you should talk to multiple people in order to attract the right person.
You can talk to men, hot women, plain women.
This will make you seem confident and self assured to the women who are watching you.
Also, talking to multiple people gives you perspective of what you want, as you get to know all kinds of different women.
But the best part of it is, it will make the women work harder for your attention, knowing they have competition. This is a game of “the best woman wins!”
And women love to win.
Step Up the Friendly Teasing
Teasing in a flirty way is definitely a huge part of playing hard to get.
Teasing rather than straight-up flirting is the best method for playing hard to get because it keeps it mysterious. She will be wondering how you really feel about her, which will get her mind racing with thoughts about you…and, isn’t that the goal?
It’s also less intimidating than flirting. It doesn’t clearly say, “I’m interested.”
There’s no way to reject friendly teasing…
Friendly teasing can be done in a multitude of ways.
Some easy examples are teasing her about her music taste or the silly way she twirls her hair, or obsessively checks her phone…
Just make sure to keep it light and friendly. You don’t want to come off as mean-spirited and you don’t want to insult something that she feels strongly about.
Stay Busy (Then You’re ACTUALLY Hard to Get, Not Playing…)
One of the biggest, most important parts of playing hard to get is staying busy.
It is vital to this game that you are extremely hard to get hold of. Texts should not be answered right away all the time and it’s ok to let her calls go to voicemail.
A postponed date or two is even acceptable, as long as you don’t string her along for too long.
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