These Counterintuitive Confident Body Language Tips Can Get You Laid By Hot Girls Who You Previously Thought Were “Out Of Your Leauge” (Keep Scrolling to Find Out How)…
Some things–about developing a personality that is personal to yourself or putting together a respectable wardrobe, for example–I take everyone through.
Similary, strong, image-filled language is not only attractive to anyone. It improves thinking and behavior.
Other things, however, are specific to each gender–specific, at least, to the gender style you want to attract.
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It’s true–confidence is more attractive, period.
The comfort of “I got this” makes a potential suitor more desirable, and generates an image of what spending time together would be like.
Nevertheless, confidence doesn’t speak to the most important features in a woman’s attractiveness.
So it is NOT as important for a woman to project confidence as the other way around.
A man’s attractiveness to the feminine is about his personality and in an instinctual, biological sense, his ability to aid in survival.
A woman’s attractiveness to the masculine is more largely about her ability to aid in bigger picture survival, i.e. survival of the gene-pool–AKA replication.
This has a lot to do with health, fertility and other features that are less under her control and–thankfully for us–hard to fake.
While confidence certainly increases her attractiveness (think Samantha Jones–Kim Cattrall–in Sex & the City), other factors of youth and fertility also play a major role (think Charlotte York–Kirstin Davis–in Sex & the City).
In men, however, confidence is the major attractor.
While a larger guy is better suited to protect a woman, for example, a guy’s confidence says, “I got this,” regardless of his size.
All things being equal, sure, a larger guy will win in a fight. But where personality is concerned, things are rarely, if ever, equal.
Instinctively, a woman knows this and is drawn–for her sake and the sake of her offspring–to confidence and certainty.
They are usually the opposite of her central feelings–self-doubt and uncertainty.
So, we try to teach men the habits of behavior that telegraphs confidence.
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We encourage and teach posture.
If you think of Clint Eastwood–particularly in Rawhide or the Sergio Leone films–that leaning back posture is exactly the opposite of the way women walk–leaning slightly forward.
It says, “I don’t worry about trouble. I’m not protecting myself from anything.”
We also exercise and teach vocal tonality.
If you think of Barry White–the massivey popular Grammy-winning singer–a slow, deep, resonant voice is the opposite of a woman’s pitch, which gets higher and higher in response to anxiety.
A man, by contrast, may have the equipment but it’s out of order. Or he may not have the equipment at all.
He may have the equipment, and all the functional working papers, but still doesn’t know how to use it.
He may even have the equipment in working order, AND knows how to use it, but simply might be unwilling to do what’s necessary for a woman’s satisfaction.
It Doesn’t End There…
So one of the most important mindsets to adopt–and it’s a realistic one–is to know and understand that whether your city has the number of women that New York does or not, most of the women are unsatisfied.
They are lonely.
Many have no man–no boyfriend, no husband.
They have NO sexual outlet, because unlike many guys, a lot of women will not have sex with a guy they don’t want.
Then there are those with a partner, but he just doesn’t make any attempt to please her.
There is also the woman who has a partner who makes an effort to give her what she needs, but he’s not getting the job done.
The result of this is an attitude that is extremely powerful when you are looking for a woman’s interest.
This may be a lie early on–even when you achieve the attitude.
Nevertheless, it not only gives you an attractive presence, it also gives you a goal to aim at.
“If I get a hold of you, I will make you melt!!”
Now, by melt, what you mean is “come.”
You mean that you are SURE that you can–and will–please her, if you get the chance.
Part of why this is so effective is that for many women–especially the very attractive and younger ones who feel the opposite of confident most of the time–confidence can only be real.
They can’t fake it, so it’s real to them, and it equals ability. They believe you’ll do the job.
And here’s how this gets you laid in real-life scenarios:
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It’s no secret, and as much as some feminists want to deny this… men and women think VERY differently, especially when it comes to who we choose as a partner.
While men prioritize looks, women prioritize status… and while many guys don’t believe me, it’s a fact.
Because he listened to me, and used my body language and tonality hacks to land her in the first place.
Most guys don’t realize how important this stuff is… and not knowing it, it stops them from approaching the really attractive women, because they believe these women are way out of their league… and don’t even bother most of the time.
That’s going to change for you today…
But rather than telling you what to do, I’m going to let you see for yourself:
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