Former Swinger Dee Siren Opens Up About Her Best Swinging Tips & Her Transition From Hot Teacher To “Hotwife”–Plus A Proven Technique Any Guy Can Use to Join “The Lifestyle”…
You’ve probably heard about open relationships before, but might be wondering how you can get into one.
Whether you’re in a relationship or currently single, if an open relationship is your goal, there are a few things you should do.
Because after all, telling a woman you're dating–whether it's been months or years–straight to her face that you'd like to sleep with other women, or you'd like to explore swinging, can be pretty intimidating.
So today I'm here to help.TRENDING: If A Younger Woman Does This With Her Body It Means She Wants You Bad (Most Older Guys Totally Miss This!)
Hi, I'm Dee Siren! 😉
If you've ever been curious about swinging or opening up your relationship, I can help.
Statistics show 4-5% of heterosexual couples are in open, or non-monogamous relationships.
That may seem like a small percentage; however, one survey of openly married swingers found that up to 90% said they were happier after they opened up their relationship and started swinging!
So below I’ll explain how my husband and I got our start, and how you can ease any woman into an ethically non-monogamous relationship without freaking her out or disrespecting her.
Let's get started!
How I Got Into Swinging After Years Of “Normal” Marriage (And How You Can Too)…
When my husband and I started swinging, I wasn’t in the adult industry yet.
I was actually a teacher (seriously!).
Swingers are everyday people, not just pornstars and celebrities.
They’re people in your community and people you see every day.
My husband and I didn’t get into swinging right away, either.
We were married for a few years, and after exploring our relationship and sexuality, it’s something we decided was right for us.RESEARCH REVEALS: This “Potion” Gets Girls to Chase You (Click For The Recipe)…
My husband is a bit of a voyeur, which means he fantasizes about watching me have sex with other men.
It’s a turn-on for him.
That’s great for us, because I’m definitely an exhibitionist, which means I love to explore and push my boundaries in public.
Our open relationship made our marriage stronger, because we’re able to explore different parts of our sexuality together, rather than feeling sexually frustrated and ultimately divorcing.
So if you have similar fantasies, you are not alone!
If you're interested in experimenting with swinging, whether you're single or otherwise “attached,” keep reading.
I'll show you everything you need to know below:
How To Get Into Open Relationships if You’re Single…
If you’re single and looking to hookup with other couples or women who are in relationships, I’ve got some tips to help you get started.THE LATEST: These 3 Tinder Secrets Will get You Laid Tonight…
1) It’s All About Appearances (To An Extent)
First, you want to make sure you look nice and dress the part.
Wear nice, upscale clothing.
You want to look your best, not only so you stand out, but so you don’t look like the creepy guy who’s just looking to have sex with married chicks.
No one wants to swing with that guy!
If you’re using dating apps or swinger sites, you want to present the best side of yourself, so take the time to really look presentable.
It doesn't take a ton of cash. It just takes some effort.3 SEXY PORNSTARS REVEAL: “D**k Size Doesn’t Matter During Sex… But THIS Does!”
2) Remember You’re Swinging With A Couple
When most guys get into swinging, they focus all of their energy on the girl that they’re attracted to in a couple.
But, even if her husband just likes to watch, remember that they’re the couple.
You’re not competing — you’re being welcomed into their circle.
You don’t have to flirt with the guy if you aren’t bisexual. But you should talk to him and get to know him still!
Don’t just pay attention to the girl.
For your best odds of sleeping with her, you want to make sure they both like you.BRAND-NEW: 7 Hot-As-Hell Sexts That Get Her to Come Over & Strip Down Naked For You…
3) Have Fun With It! (It's Harder Than You Think)
This may seem like a given, but if you’re new to swinging and open relationships, you might feel a little out of your element.
Try to relax and really enjoy what’s going on. Don’t overthink it.
If you’re relaxed and enjoying yourself, it’ll show.
Otherwise, you’ll stick out at swingers’ parties and meetups.
You want to make sure the couples keep inviting you back and enjoy being around you.
I know it sounds so obvious, but if you're feeling good and making a point to enjoy yourself while you're there, it will really make a difference.
So dive into the experience and just have fun.
It's about pleasure, after all! 😉
How To Get into Open Relationships if You’re Attached
If you’re in a relationship and are curious about expanding and inviting others into the mix, I’ve got some tips to help you get your partner on board and ensure everyone is having a good time.TRENDING: If She Does This With Her Body It Means She’s Kinky & DTF (Most Men Totally Miss This!)
1) Communicate Often
If you and your partner have never really talked about exploring your sexual fantasies, start there.
Bring up small things to gauge her reaction.
For instance, if you have always wanted to watch her having sex with other men, ask her if she’s ever fantasized about you watching her.
Go slowly and see where the conversation unfolds.
You might find she’s into a lot more than you expected.
Communicate about your fantasies often and then decide how you can explore them safely and honestly.
Being honest is so important.
Lies can break up relationships. Make sure you’re both on board with the idea of opening up your relationship before diving into it.SPECIAL: This “T-Shirt Secret” Can Get You Laid Tonight…
2) Make Her Feel Confident
Once you’ve discussed your fantasies, it’s important to keep her feeling confident while you navigate the swinging process.
Let her know how beautiful she looks and be sure you always pay attention to her — even if you’re swinging with other girls.
I tell single guys to remember they’re dealing with a couple when swinging.
That’s also important for married or attached guys to remember, as my husband Wayne knows very well.
You need to make sure your partner feels 100% comfortable and confident the entire time.TRENDING: 3 Shocking Rough Sex Moves She’ll BEG You for Again & Again…
3) Search For Partners Together
It can be hard for some people to watch their partner search for a third party to bring into the bedroom privately.
Instead, make it a fun bonding event!
Decide what you like or don’t like in a partner and search on swinging apps together.
Set some rules before you go to parties, as well.
Maybe you’ll decide you both get final approval before bringing another person into your bedroom.
Just make sure you keep communicating and navigate through this process together.
And if you really want to make your experience with swinging & non-monogamy as good (and easy!) as it possibly can be…
I highly recommend you try this too ;-):
Pro Tip: This “Conversation Starter” Naturally Pulls Kinky Women to You Like A Magnet (And Allows You to Sleep With Her FAST)…
If you get the sense a woman is “DTS” (“Down to Swing”)… or even if you wish she was and want to ease her into it…
I have something that’s going to work really well for you!
It’s a simple, rejection-free conversation starter… and it’s great because it’s an EXTREMELY low-risk approach… though it works to:
- Get her to focus on you (and you alone)…
- Shows her that you’re interested in a very “non-needy” sort of way…
- And turns things sexual with her extremely quickly… (and in a way that seems totally natural… like “it just happened”)
Even better… you don’t actually have to be at a sex party or swinger’s club to use this to pull kinky, interested women!
As a matter of fact, now that I think of it… a guy recently used this “conversation starter” on me when I was in Wal*Mart getting groceries last week…
… and I ended up giving him oral in the parking lot (while my husband waited in the car). 😉
Trust me, as a former school teacher, I can tell you kinky women are hiding in plain sight EVERYWHERE you go…
They’re driving to their 9-5 office jobs in the morning…
They’re getting a salad in Panera Bread, or a coffee at Starbucks during lunch…
And they’re waiting for a guy like you to use this “conversation starter” on them… so they can unleash their kinky side, and show you their “true colors” ;-).
So below is a short, powerful presentation that shows you what to say… when to say it for the FASTEST hookup possible…
Plus what you can follow it up with to make her hot and horny for you… and eager to bang you right away:
P.S. If she seems hesitant or unsure at first… that’s totally normal. Try this proven 3-step formula and she’ll enthusiastically agree to *almost* anything ;-)…