Losing your virginity is a big deal, especially in Western society.
As a man, there’s a lot of pressure to get rid of your “V-Card” by the time you hit 18… and if you don’t, it can feel pretty stressful.
However, adult male virgins are a lot more common than most men realize — so that’s what I want to talk to you about today…
Hi, I’m Glenn Pearce–and as part of my ongoing series, Ask Glenn, I’m answering all of your most difficult, burning questions that keep you up at night.
And today, I’m answering this one:
“How can I lose my virginity as an adult without things getting ‘awkward’?”
Hey Glenn, I’m a 23-year-old virgin, unfortunately. I’ve been approaching girls for 9 months and have gotten rid of all of my approach anxiety.
I can talk to pretty much any girl now, but I still can’t get sex. Although I can get #’s and plenty of dates, I never get past the second date.
What do you think? Is it possible to become great with women from being a hopeless virgin? And do you have any advice to speed up the results in a much shorter time?
I feel really depressed about it. Please do your best. Love your advice man.”
Can You Become Great With Women (Even if You’re A Virgin)?
Antun, I’m gonna do my best, and I’ve got news for you.
“Is it possible”, you said, “to become great with women from being a ‘hopeless’ virgin?”
My answer to you is simple: “Yes.”
I was a virgin at one time and I’ve gotten great with women…
If I was a virgin at one time and I got great with women, then you can too. Trust me.
I would say you have that going for you, so you really should be trying to take these women home.
And once you do get lucky for that first time?
I’d bet you’re gonna be like an unstoppable f***ing machine, man.
But you don’t have to take my word for it–just listen to the story of one of our past community members…
How I Helped a New Community Member Lose His V-Card…
When “Frank” came to me, begging me to help him get laid… I honestly wasn’t sure where to start.
Any time a woman would get close to him, he froze up… and if he managed a “hi” or “hello”… the conversation basically ended there.
So I tried everything:
Gave him some good conversation openers…
Offered him a confidence-boosting “mantra”…
I even hired hot models for him to “practice” on…
None of it helped. Without fail, we’d go out together… and the instant he saw an attractive woman, it was clammy hands, sweaty forehead, and “I think I have to go to the bathroom…” All over again.
That’s when a little light bulb went off in my head…
Maybe, the reason Frank’s nerves were getting in the way had nothing to do with talking to women… maybe, he was getting so nervous because he couldn’t tell when a woman was interested in him!
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