You might be tempted to talk about it on your date — and you wouldn’t want to be that guy, that can’t stop complaining.
If she’s feeling preoccupied by what happened at work, she might worry she can’t give you her full attention on your date.
I have definitely postponed a date after a crappy workday, so I could be fully present.
And that’s the honest truth – the top three seasons she bails and flakes have absolutely NOTHING to do with you.
Except that she wants to be her best for you.
So, don’t give up on her. After all, she already said yes to going out with you…
Now… How to Turn a Flake into a “YES”
In fact, all three of these top reasons you can easily turn around, with one simple thing:
Understanding.
Ask her why she feels like canceling… and then tell her you get it. For example, if she tells you work was hard, or she is exhausted, let her know you understand. You had a long day too, or you’re pretty beat as well… and offer to commiserate with her.
Tell her you were looking forward to seeing her all day, and it made your long day easier, but you are wiped out too, and offer to turn going out into staying in… with some takeout and maybe a footrub….
Tell her you didn’t feel like getting dressed up either, so why don’t you eat pizza in sweatpants together?
If she still demures, let her know that’s cool, and you look forward to rescheduling. That goes a long way to her not bailing ever again…
Unless… she’s not being honest with you, and is playing games.
Now… there are some misguided women, who have gotten some bad advice from other women in their lives.
Remember when I said I’d get back to girls being mean on purpose?
That’s exactly what I want to talk about now…
Sneaky Insider Tricks To Get Flaky Women To Stop Flaking On You!
That was a little peek into women’s brains… and (hopefully) nothing other women will get too mad at me for sharing… 🙂
See… those reasons I talked about above are all reasons women cancel on you… they’re not your fault, and they’re not the fault of women, either.
It’s just “women’s nature”… with a little bit of insecurity thrown in.
Like I said, women often cancel because of how THEY are feeling in the moment… there’s no manipulation or games intended.
BUT… some women (not me, ha!) DO mess with you intentionally.
Especially in this day and age… where women can get unlimited male attention by sitting around… taking selfies with their boobs hanging out… and posting them on social media.
And… sometimes these kinds of women get a kick out of leading men on.
It’s stupid, but some women share these ridiculous tips with each other that they think are flirting and getting you to like them…
I’m kinda betraying the “girl code” here… and while I wanna help you out… I don’t wanna become “that b!tch” who spilled all of our deepest darkest secrets, ok? 😉
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