A woman’s words are one of her best defense mechanisms.
Because women didn’t have brute strength or weapons to defend themselves in the prehistoric era, they could only rely on their words — to confuse their enemies…
And to communicate with each other…almost like women had their own separate language.
Which is why today, a woman will rarely say exactly what she means…
…instead, she relies on you to “decipher” her words. And this can become very complicated in the beginning stages of a relationship.
So with that in mind, today I’m going to show you my new hack to “decode” her words and read her so you can get a much better idea of how she feels about you…
Like when she wants you to lead her straight to the bedroom, undress her, and give her a toe-curling orgasm…
As I’ve written about in the previous weeks, if you want a woman to stay with you, it’s important to give her the “drama” she craves:
You want her to think that you like her…but you don’t want her to be 100% certain. This nurtures her curiosity and grows her desire to see you.
But on the other hand, you don’t want to be so aloof — so unreadable — that she thinks you aren’t interested. There’s a fine line you walk when you first start seeing a woman.
So if your goal is to find a woman to love…
To trust…
To admire…
And to fully be yourself with…
How do you get there without either a) giving too much of yourself away, or b) not giving her enough?
Here’s the truth: It’s all about timing. Timing is the key to successfully navigating your relationship with any woman.
I want you to be the romantic lead that you feel inside, and I want you to get all the juicy love that you deserve. I want that for you, and I want it for her, too — but you have to be conscious of your timing.
The easiest way for me to explain this is through an analogy:
Why Your Relationship With Her Is Like a 3-Course Dinner…
When you walk into a fancy restaurant — say that fancy French place in the city — you might be excited to try the duck a l’orange…but you probably start with a drink or an appetizer, right?
Maybe you have a salad or nibble on some bread…but you don’t start with dessert.
Now, let’s say your relationship with a new woman is like a 3-course meal. When you’re getting to know each other — before you’re an “item” — this is the appetizer. You’re not fully committed to each other yet. You’re satiating your hunger, but you’re still hungry for more.
The appetizer is where you set the tone for the rest of the relationship — I call it the “meeting and mating” stage.
The “meeting and mating” stage is also where most of my clients struggle to read women:
“I can’t tell if she actually likes me even though she says she does…”
“Is she just playing games with me?”
“What the hell does she mean when she says she doesn’t know?”
And so on. So if this is where you’re setting the tone for the relationship, and you’re still struggling to figure her out…who do you think is in control?
Not you — that’s for sure. Which is why a woman will usually opt to take charge and lead the relationship at her pace when this happens.
Though if you can read her in just the right way…YOU are back in charge. You’re in control, and the relationship will progress the way you want.
So how do you do that?
The Ugly Truth About What a Woman Says Vs. What She Means…
I’ll show you my “hack” to determine what women really mean in just a second, but first, let’s talk about the “worst case scenario”:
I have a buddy who used to be absolutely clueless around women. He knew nothing about reading a woman’s signals or interpreting what she says.
So he was dating this girl for a while, and at a certain point he began to realize something…he liked the person she was on her own…but he didn’t like who she was in their relationship.
See, she was a great girl on her own — funny, smart, independent and nurturing — but she treated him like garbage. She told him “I love you soooo much” over and over and over…
And never did anything to show him.
That’s the worst case scenario. That’s what I’m trying to help you avoid. And here’s my 2-step hack to do it:
Step 1: Listen “With the Sound Off”…
When you’re with a woman you’re interested in and want to know how she feels about you, try this:
While she’s telling a story (preferably one you’ve heard before or one that isn’t super important), “mute” her words and focus only on her actions. Because for a woman, actions truly do speak louder than words…
So you’ll find much more truth about how she feels about you in her actions than you will in her words.
That’s not to say you should never listen to what she says…or that you should completely block out all of her words…but be aware of her actions — you can trust them.
So how exactly do you do that? Which of her actions actually reveal her interest level?
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