Discover This Sex Expert’s Answer To: What Is Foreplay & How Should I Use It to Drive Her Wild In Bed?
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A lot of guys see foreplay in the same exact way:
Kiss her for a while… get her clothes off… maybe rub her a little… and then it’s time for sex!
And while this can sometimes work to get a girl revved up… it’s often not quite enough to truly get her going.
In fact, foreplay is a lot more than just some “thing” you do before sex. It’s far more important than that.
So that’s what I want to talk to you about today.
Hi, I’m Lawrence Lanoff.
As a tantric sex expert, it’s safe to say I know a lot about sex and improving your sex life. So every week, I’ll be answering your most difficult, burning questions you have about sex…
And this week, I’m answering this one:
“What is foreplay and how do I use it to drive a woman wild in bed?”
Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…
Hi, I’m Lawrence and today I’m going to show you the key to ultimate foreplay that will drive your woman absolutely crazy in bed.
Most guys don’t know these moves, but I promise that if you use them, they will make an incredible difference in your life.
So let’s get started…
One thing to understand is that a woman’s sexual arch tends to be slower than a man’s. It’s more like a smolder than a quick burn.
Another way to look at it is that her sexual storyline is more like a Hollywood movie than an episode of your favorite TV show.
There’s a beginning, and then the excitement builds slowly.
It builds and builds… and eventually there’s a climax.
That first section of her storyline, so to speak, is what we call foreplay.
But what exactly is foreplay?
Foreplay is the ability to stimulate both her mind and her body.
You can start foreplay with something as simple as your phone–seriously!
You could start with a text that mentions something you find sexy about her body.
Of course, she’ll probably respond very quickly because you’re stimulating her mind.
The beautiful thing about the phone is that it’s basically giving you direct access to her brain with just a little text.
We in the community like to call this “mental foreplay.”
How To Stimulate Her Mind for Ultimate Sexual Pleasure…
This kind of mental stimulation may feel a little bit outside of the “normal” boundaries of what both of you are used to.
So if she’s used to being more of a “good girl,” then stimulating her in this way will likely feel very exciting for her.
Of course, this kind of thing in a different situation might be very offensive, but if you say it to your lover, you’ll get a response like:
“Oh, that’s hot.”
Here’s what I mean:
Very few women, if any, will walk down the street wanting men to shout things like, “Yo, I really like your a**.”
However, texting it to a girl you’re sleeping with is a different context, and so it works.
Something like, “I can’t stop thinking about your butt…” would work well.
Why?
Well, you’re stimulating her with something different. Therefore, you’re giving her the opportunity to step outside of her “good girl” norm.
At the end of the day, remember that all foreplay begins in the mind.
Let’s say I’m stimulating a woman’s erotic mind hours before we’re actually together by sending her sexy texts.
By the time I get home, her mind is already prepared, and so her body will feel more ready for me too.
And when you do start really touching her, avoid the “tweak, rub, and poke” technique that most guys go for.
Instead, stimulate some unexplored parts of her body:
Behind her thighs…
The back of her knees…
These areas that don’t get a lot of touch can be super sexy for her.
The #1 Sexual Organ on a Woman’s Body (Not What You Think!)
Another way to prepare yourself for maximum mental & physical stimulation is to ready some erotic novels written for women.
I know you’re groaning just thinking about it… but do it–trust me.
It’s girl porn!
Guy porn is all over the internet, but you can find girl porn in the grocery store.
Obviously, women look at porn online too, but the porn they watch is stimulating them in a different way.
It just makes me laugh when I go to the grocery store and there are rows and rows of romantic novels.
You’ve seen them–the books with the long-haired muscle dude on the cover who’s sweeping a woman off her feet.
Especially in more suburban areas, there are tons of these sexually frustrated women who read these novels.
All of those books–that’s chick porn.
So if you are going to remember anything about foreplay, make it this:
- The most important sex organ is her mind and imagination…
- Foreplay means focusing on other areas of her body…
- Ultimately, bring her to places that she’s never experienced before…
And to a woman, that’s what makes sex enjoyable and fun.
Speaking of what makes sex enjoyable and fun… let’s talk about orgasms.
Because yeah, foreplay is important… but what really matters is that you give her an orgasm she’ll never forget.
And here’s how to do that:
How To Make Her Come So Hard She’ll Send You A Thank You Text The Next Day
In my experience, there’s really only one way to get a woman coming back for sex over and over again…
It’s by giving her the kind of sexual experience she’ll fantasize about for years after the two of you first slept together…
I’m talking about making her come so hard her toes curl up… her body trembles uncontrollably… and her screaming wakes up the freaking neighbors.
You may be wondering how to pull this off…
But it’s not really a question of “how”… it’s more a question of “Where?”
What I mean is, there are 3 spots inside a woman that can give her exceptionally powerful orgasms.
And the truth is, most guys don’t know where these 3 spots are… and as a result, tons of women around the world are starved of this kind of ecstasy… so when you help a woman experience this level of pleasure, she’ll want to keep coming back. 🙂
One of these spots is particularly powerful… and the first time I stimulated this area with my middle finger I honestly got a little scared, because at the time I had no idea women could even come that hard.
This spot is known as the “Deep Spot” and has gained quite a reputation amongst our community members.
(One member even said his date almost fell off the bed because she came so hard. Ha!)
