These “Conversation Starters” Make Talking To Hot Girls EASY (No More Awkward Silences)

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If you’ve ever found yourself searching for something to say to a woman…

Either to start a conversation… to keep it going when it hits a “lull”…

Or even if it’s at the end of the night and you’re trying to take her home…

Then I have some great tips and tricks for you today that are going to make conversations with hot girls really easy.

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And once you know them… you’ll laugh at how fun it is to talk to hot girls… almost like a game…

Where at the end of the night… she’s picking her clothes up off the floor… and telling you that “you’re an even better lover than a talker.”

So if that sounds good to you… let’s get started:

Catch The Full Video Transcript Below… 

Hey guys, it’s David.

Today we’re going to go over a few things you can talk about with a girl so that you can keep the connection going and come across confident and charming.

No more awkward silences, ever.

After watching this video and putting in some practice, you’ll be able to take your conversation game to a whole new level. You’ll never feel awkward conversing with a woman again.

And don’t worry, if you need a refresher, you can always come back to this video…

What You Love & What You’re Good At (They’re Two Different Things)

Now if you’ve read any of my stuff, one of the things that I recommend is to know what you want to talk about.

What that means is not that there’s a bunch of things that are great to talk about with women, but rather for each person. There are things that you should talk about.

To find these topics you’re looking for the cross section of three different things.

The first is things you really love talking about.

That one is the easiest one to come up with, but once you come up with this list you’re not finished. Once you have that list of things you love talking about, you’re going to start striking topics out until you are down to at least 15 things.

So you have a list of the things you really love talking about and you’re going to add to that list things that you sound great talking about.

Now, this is a very big difference. I’ll give you an example of what I mean:

I sound great talking about software and computer programming. I sound great when I talk about structural things, systems, the way that systems work together. I sound great talking about it. I sound intelligent, the information is interesting.

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You know when you are good at talking about something, because when you talk about them, other people look at you in a certain way. And I don’t mean they nod or they smile, they clap.

When people can feel your emotion, those are things you’re good at talking about.

The Three Dates Rule…

So I have 15 things that I love to talk about or I’m good at talking about. Now you start crossing some of these topics out.

You’re not going to focus on topics that are not public conversation, like Star Trek.

Star Trek is not a conversation. However, science fiction is a conversation.

Moreover, whatever it is you like about Star Trek, that is conversation, for example, a strong male lead with a good ensemble cast.

These “Conversation Starters” Make Talking To Hot Girls EASY (No More Awkward Silences)

That is conversation. See the difference? One is specific (Star Trek) and one is general. She might not like Star Trek (and the conversation is dead), but she might like another TV show with a strong male lead and great ensemble cast. Now you’re having a great conversation…

You know what else shouldn’t be on the list?  TV.

Now, I understand that the world we’re in now a lot of people watch TV, and that’s normal. But TV is something you shouldn’t talk about at all for the first three conversations, even if it’s her favorite conversation.

The reason is when you’re speaking to somebody, you are capturing their mind and leading their imagination. And when you’re leading their imagination, you have to be careful what you’re doing with it.

If you talk about TV when you first meet, all she can connect with you is you sitting on the couch, like a blob. So save that conversation for when she already knows more about you…

Here’s another example: you may have the most interesting story about what a loser you were in some situation, and it may be very funny, it may not even make you look bad.

But unfortunately, the image you’re giving, putting in their head does not portray you in a good light. So it’s not a useful story. It may be good, but it’s not useful. And that’s a big difference. Remember that.

Keep Your Goal (SEX) in Mind

I’m trying to give you things to talk about with a woman. Everything I’m giving you is going towards a goal.

That goal is a relationship, or at least a sexual relationship, with the person you’re talking to.

I would also not talk about video games because most of the people you’re going to talk to (by which I mean women) don’t connect to it.

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They may play video games. I know a lot of girls who play video games, generally not the more attractive ones, but I know attractive women who play video games.

But they don’t usually play the same games you do. They are not playing Halo and Call of Duty, they’re playing Sims.

So don’t talk about things that portray you in a bad light, and don’t talk about things they can’t connect with.

2 Ways She Can Stop a Conversation, DEAD

Two more no-nos: negativity and specificity.

Negativity is the way that women tend to stop conversation by saying she doesn’t like something.

You start talking about whatever — Paris — and she immediately shuts it down by saying she doesn’t like to travel.

That’s how you stop the conversation from the negative, it shuts down the other person. Now what happens is subconsciously, you’re looking for new things to talk about, but you’re also simultaneously pulling out anything that has to do with the topic she doesn’t like…

So your brain says “No travel talk” but also maybe no talking about this other place, because you’d have to travel to get there…

So what can you talk about? Once you get stopped by negativity, it’s very difficult to keep conversation flowing.

Remember though, the list that I’m asking you to make will help conversation flow much easier.

what do women like to talk aboutWhat Do You Love? (Think General, Not Specific)

So coming back to what can go on that list. An example of what is on it for me, is New York City. I live in New York City, I love the city.

And say if I live in Cleveland, I may very well love Cleveland, but most people don’t love it. So it’s not an easy conversation. New York, everybody loves it.

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It’s an easy conversation. I have a lot to say about it. Not only do I live here, but I love the place. So that’s an easy, easy place for conversation for me.

Like restaurants and food and food service..

I love going out to eat. I like food. That’s also something that women connect to easily. They’re always interested in food and it’s an easy place of conversation. Food is great because all of the things around food are sensual, therefore sexual.

Be Cool Like Dirty Harry

Other things to avoid would be talking about money and trying to brag in any way. Whenever you try to sound high self esteem, it always sounds low self esteem.

Trust me on this.

Very few people can talk about positive things about themselves and yet not sound like they are bragging. An example of what I mean is what people call humble bragging, humble bragging is bragging and the bragging is not attractive.

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Now you might say, “Yeah, but it’s not bragging, I really do have a Ferrari.” (Or whatever the thing that comes after “I really do….”)

It doesn’t matter, the fact that you’re talking about it means that the reason you have it is to try to be important. And if you want to be important, then you clearly are not important.

Trying to look cool is the opposite of being cool. Cool is not worrying about it at all. It is Clint Eastwood.

what do women like to talk about
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What Else Is a Good Topic?

Another great topic to go on your list is family.

For most women, unlike most men, family is very important. They’re very connected with their family.

Family is a very big part of women’s conversation and of their focus.

You can talk about clothes and fashion if it’s something you’re interested in, and like. But if not, don’t fake it. Don’t discuss it if it’s not something you’re interested in.

A Conversation Is Like a Car

Now you know what to talk about, and what not to talk about. Hopefully, you now have your list.

Once you have your list you don’t need to put these topics into conversation immediately. You don’t need to talk about them. You don’t need to do anything with them.

All you need to do is make this list and keep this list.

The first, let’s say month or so, just look over this list in the morning. That’s enough.

This may seem like it’s a lot of work for nothing. But trust me, in the future, you won’t have to work to put these topics into conversation because your brain does that already. All the time. It’s always throwing whatever’s in your head into conversation.

The problem is, it’s also throwing things in that you don’t want in conversation.

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And part of the reason I’m talking so long about the topics is that the main problem of conversation for the guy is talking about the wrong thing.

For women, as I said, the enemy is negativity because a guy doesn’t give a shit what she talks about, he wants her — he doesn’t care what she’s focused on.

For men, 95% of the mistake they make in conversation is talking about the wrong thing. Sometimes they can’t come up with anything to say, but when they do, because they were desperate and flailing for a topic, they talk about the wrong thing.

So there’s three steps: the first is the topic, the next I’m gonna tell you how to get stuff into the conversation.

And the third is I’m going to tell you what to do with the conversation once it starts to move.

It’s like a car.

First you have to have gas. That’s the topic. You have a topic to start the conversation. These are things from your list. And because you read them every day for a month, they’re in your head, stuck.

You never have an awkward pause where your brain can’t think of what to say: one of these topics will just come out, automatically. And they’re all things that are easy for you to talk about.

Then you have to actually start the conversation: putting the key in and getting the engine started.

But finally, once it’s moving, you need a steering wheel, you need to direct and move and keep going.

Maybe you can get it started by fearlessly saying whatever, but then you’re stuck if you can’t keep if moving…

So the topics are things to have in your head, then you’ll start the conversation by blurting it out, and then you’ll keep it going automatically, because you love this topic, and feel safe.

The 3-Step Sentence Generator

Another great way to start a conversation is by using a three step sentence generator.

This is specifically for men, because we tend not to put emotion into things. The more masculine the guy is, the less his face shows anything. He doesn’t show what he’s feeling.

He doesn’t show even appropriate feelings to what he’s saying. If you talk like that, then it doesn’t matter what comes next, you’re going to throw her off by the lack of emotion.

So what you start with is a positive emotion.

what do women like to talk about

An example of what I mean is “like.” Like is the most common is the easiest one to use. But you can also say love. “I love” is a great thing to start a conversation with.

So you’re going to start with a positive emotion.

Just then add on from there- a positive emotion, plus something you can see smell, taste, hear or touch. It must be something that is physically there, something that can be appreciated by the senses.

In other words, it has to be something I can go over and sample and feel just the way you felt.

I may not have the same opinion, but I can experience it.

Because what you’re trying to do is get yourself out of your head. But you also have the added benefit of pulling her out of her head and getting her involved in conversation.

Here’s an example. You can say, “I love the lights in here, it’s just enough brightness.”

Now notice, I have given you three parts there:

1. “I love” — that’s the positive emotion.
2.  “The lights in here” — This is something that we both experience.
3.  “It’s just enough brightness.” It’s a continuation of the sentence. She can agree or disagree, but I’ve given her something to work with.

Use What You See…

Just look for the first thing you can come up with. What do you like, and then think why do I like it…

It can be anything! I like the garbage can, because it’s a white can, which is an uncommon color for garbage cans.

I like the music here; you wouldn’t expect this kind of place to play jazz.

So what you’ve done is given her stuff to talk about.

You are not picking randomly, you are picking based on the current environment or what you’ve been talking about…

So while it feels like you’re coming up with something from the ether, you’re not.

Now you’ve got the pump primed.

These “Conversation Starters” Make Talking To Hot Girls EASY (No More Awkward Silences)Try This If Your Mind Goes Blank…

Even if you’re normally a good talker, sometimes you might run into a super hot girl and your mind goes blank…

It’s happened to all of us!

This is TOTALLY normal, it still happens to me (like, especially when the girl is smokin’ hot)…

But that doesn’t mean you need to stand there sweating awkwardly, or making an excuse to get out of the situation.

In fact, try touching her very innocently in one of these 3 “secret pleasure centers” early in the conversation, and she’ll get so turned on she won’t care what you’re talking about!

These areas are super innocent…

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But touching her in any of these places will make her feel closer and warmer towards you…

And if you use these touches in the right order, she will get super aroused, and her panties WILL be soaking wet…

She won’t know WHY she’s so attracted to you, but she will be.

Which is great news, because this means you can just sit back while she does all the talking…

Before you know it, she’ll be all over you like you’re the last guy on earth.

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P.S. I’ve found this technique works GREAT for guys who are naturally kinda shy or introverted… It makes you come off as the strong and silent type, rather than awkward or nervous.

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