The Easiest Way Turn a Steamy Virtual Date Into a Hot Naked Girl in Your Bed…
Right now, virtual dates are at an all-time high.
And they can be awkward. And uncomfortable.
Which means they can end without really getting to know each other…
So, definitely without plans to get together and rip each other’s clothes off for a wild night of hot sex.
That’s the goal, right?
I know that’s what my single girlfriends want, when they set up virtual dates with a guy that caught thier eye on a dating app, or met in line at the grocery store…
While virtual dates are perfect for everyone from long-distance couples, people looking to spice up their relationship (who don’t happen to live together), and people who are just getting to know each other, they all have the same goal:
In fact, terms like “Facetime foreplay” and “chaturbating” are gaining popularity on dating apps, as people look for sexy online encounters, before a real life one…
The trick to having a hot virtual date, one that’s leading to hot, in person sex, is in the planning…
You cannot go into the virtual date unprepared and think you can ‘wing it.’
This is something that, even more than a regular in-person date, you need to plan out. Carefully.
With these easy 7 steps, you will have the perfect, steamy virtual date…
The kind that gets her wet just thinking about you… and plotting the fastest route to your place, where she can tear off your clothes and ride you hard… all night long.
Here’s what you do:
1) Sext Before (For Sex Later…)
Sexting is like the foreplay of a virtual date.
You want to do enough, but not too much.
That is, don’t text her for a week straight all about the date. If you do, chances are, the date won’t live up to the hype, which is not something you want to deal with.
What you need to do is sext and flirt in short spurts throughout the week to let your date know you’re thinking about her, and looking forward to your time together.
This will make her feel special, appreciated, and also get her excited…
The action of sexting creates sexual tension that will help to connect you throughout the date.
2) Make a Sexy Playlist
The ambiance of a date is everything, but it’s hard to create one when you’re in two different places.
A great solution to this is a sexy playlist. Smooth and sultry music will help you both to get into the mood during your virtual date.
It can create a relaxing atmosphere that will allow anything to happen.
If you don’t know what type of music your date likes, make a point to ask her in conversation leading up to the date.
It also gives you a reason to talk and get to know each other better…
3) Dress Up
The last thing you want to do is to look like a slob on your hot virtual date, so it’s important to plan what you are going to wear.
It doesn’t have to be fancy — a crisp white tee and jeans are a good choice. Just make sure it’s clean and relatively free of wrinkles.
Also, be sure to groom and trim, just like you would for any other date.
Just because you are only seeing each other virtually, it doesn’t mean you get to slack. Because the ultimate goal is getting together soon, and she needs to think you’re putting time and thought into any and every interaction.
Looking like you woke up 5 minutes ago and pulled on something that was lying on the floor is not going to make her feel special…
4) Do Something Together… To Make Her Want to Do Something ELSE Together…
If you are unsure about what you’re going to find to talk about on the virtual date, try planning an activity together. There are endless possibilities here.
For couples who are just meeting, dinner and a shared virtual drink may be perfect. But, for couples that have been together longer, you may want to switch it up by playing a sexy game.
Of course, there are other options too such as paint nights, watching a movie together, cooking together, or playing trivia.
Although it is a virtual date, there are still so many activities you can incorporate into your time. Just be creative… she will love the fact that you’re thinking outside the box.
(Trust me. It totally turns women on when guys plan something different and interesting… in this case, it is in fact the thought that counts.)
5) Give Her ALL Your Attention
No matter what you decide to do on your date, even if it’s just chatting, the most important aspect of the date is the connection.
That’s why it’s vital that you give your date the attention she needs. Just like a regular in-person date, on a virtual date, it’s rude to keep checking your phone, have side conversations, or talk over her.
A woman wants to be heard and listened to and if they are on a date, no matter if it’s virtual or in-person, she wants to be the center of your attention.
You can practice looking into the camera (so it feels to her like you’re actually making eye contact with her), and turn your text and email notifications off…
6) Play a Little (Yeah, That Kind of Play…)
If the date is going well and you’re both feeling a little hot under the collar, then there is no reason why you can’t take it to the next level, just like a traditional date.
Of course, with a virtual date, sexy-time is a little different…
Getting steamy and sexy with a virtual date may feel strange at first, but once you get into it, you’ll have a great time. Try encouraging some lingerie, dirty talking, and maybe even a little porn to help you both get into the mood and have some fun.
Want to that it a step further?
Pleasuring yourself in front of your date, virtually, can be as hot as doing it in person, and watching her do the same will blow your mind.
Plus, it’s a great way to heighten the tension even more so you can go wild on each other when you actually get to be together in person.
Which might be sooner than you think… if you follow this last step, which comes from Gotham's own expert:
7) How To Go From “Video Chatting” to “In-Person Sex,” from Gotham’s own Glenn Pearce:
“Ok, so when you’re done video chatting… here’s what you do…
Before you hang up, say:
‘I’m gonna text you something naughty right after we’re done here…’ hang up, and wait 5, 10, even 15 minutes.
Each one gets her increasingly wet while thinking of you…
Most women I’ve used these 5 texts on became uncontrollably horny, almost instantly.
Many will even drop everything they're doing, to come over and ride you hard all night….
The last girl I used this on blew off her best friend's birthday dinner to come and bang me!”
This bit is important because if you get the timing wrong, she'll go cold instantly!