Discover The Secret to Touching Girls in Public Or on a Date So Things Turn Sexual FAST (Without Ever Risking Rejection)…
Escalating your date with seductive touch can certainly feel intimidating.
How do you confidently touch your date, and when is the right time to do it?
And on top of that, what’s the difference between a welcome touch and one she finds “creepy”?
As a dating expert, I get asked questions like this a lot–and so today, I want to give you all the answers.
Because statistics show about 40% of women will have sex on the first date, so it’s perhaps more common than you think.
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Hi, I’m David Dupree, and every week I’m answering one of the most difficult, burning questions guys have when it comes to sex & dating.
And today, I’m answering this one:
“How do I touch a girl on a date for the fastest escalation possible?”
Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…
Jumping into seductive touch can be intimidating, so I’m going to give you ways to start with very covert touch and move your way into overt and more seductive touch.
When you walk with your date, put your hand on her back.
Even if it sometimes may even seem aggressive, it’s a good thing to do.
It’s invading her space in a way that feels completely natural to her. And as a result, you get a lot of leeway to move forward.
The value of touching and escalating like this is that you keep moving forward. You’re calibrating with every move.
In other words, when you touch a woman, it’s also an opportunity to observe her response and react appropriately.
Fact: There is no movement that is just straightforward movement.
When you touch her, she will have some sort of response–she’ll either encourage or discourage it. So you need to pay attention to that.
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When you touch her, if she does anything that is not encouraging, then pull back immediately.
Don’t recoil, necessarily, but pull your hand or leg away from her body.
Here are some more innocent touches you can likely get away with:
Elbows and shoulders are much easier to touch than hands and wrists.
The knees and the outer parts of her body are generally easier to touch than the inner parts.
However, hands and wrists are not like this.
When you shake a woman’s hand, you have to approach it differently.
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A lot of people have heard of the three-point handshake. It’s what politicians do.
When you shake her hand, you clasp it and then touch somewhere else. If you watch big politicians like Clinton, you’ll see they actually clasp, touch, and then touch a shoulder as well.
I don’t always recommend that, but in those situations when you’re shaking the hand for the first time, you have the opportunity for an extra touch.
If you’re sitting next to her, you could also try resting your knee against hers.
There was a moment I had with a woman on a bus–we didn’t even speak the same language. But without talking the entire time, I seduced her just be resting my knee against hers.
That’s the power of touch.
How Does Subtle Touch Escalate The Date?
There are two types of touchers on first dates–the escalators and the calibrators.
The escalator is the guy who wants to keep moving forward…
While the calibrator, on the other hand, keeps thinking about where he is with his touches.
Neither of these strategies works on its own!
Of course, I’m not saying that you need to move quietly or slowly. It’s not about the speed.
The speed is part of it, but what’s really important is that every time you move forward with her, you “measure” to see how far you can go. It’s this combination of escalation and calibration that works particularly well on dates.
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There are 3 responses a woman can have when you touch her.
Let’s say a guy escalates a little too much and makes a woman uncomfortable.
In response, he might tell her, “Oh, well, maybe I can have a second chance?”
If she replies, “You get all the chances you want,” then that’s a “yes” response. That’s a sign you can keep going.
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If, on the other hand, she responds with “Maybe” or not at all… then that’s not necessarily a “no,” but it’s not quite a “yes,” either.
You have to keep testing the limits in this case.
And if she flat-out says, “Oh, no, I really felt like that was uncomfortable,” then it’s safe to say you shouldn’t try touching her again (for now).
A lot of guys get confused about exactly how to use these kinds of touches to escalate–so I want to explain it for you in clearer terms.
Here’s how I use touch on first dates to get sexual with a woman, fast:
The Subtle 3-Touch Sequence That Makes Sex on the First Date WAY More Likely…
Like a lot of guys, I used to feel really nervous before first dates… and it caused a lot of embarrassing mishaps for me.
Like this one time at the movies, I worked up the guts to grab for my date’s hand… and she seemed “into it” for a while… but after the movie ended?
It was all, “I’m tired, you can drop me off back at my place now…” (WTF???)
Clearly, I was doing something wrong… but what?
It wasn’t until I met my mentor Magic that I discovered the somewhat surprising answer.
As it turns out, the REAL reason these girls were “icing” me out was NOT because I was “lame” or “unattractive.”
It was because I hadn’t been touching them in the right order.
Because as Magic showed me, there is a very specific sequence of touches, that turns hot girls on and can often lead to same night sex…
… and since I started using it, I’ve gotten laid on the first date WAY more often.
Honestly, this was kind of a life-changing experience for me… so if you can relate to my story at all, I suggest you check out the sequence for yourself right here:
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[Note: This post was updated by Gotham Club on November 18, 2019.]
