Everything You’ve Wanted to Know about Sex & Cosplay With Mega-Hottie Tanya Tate…
Hi! Tanya Tate here, and I’m super excited to be spilling all my dirty secrets about cosplay.
If I look familiar, then chances are you know me from one of my cosplay adult films. I’ve been in the adult industry since 2008, and I’ve been working with cosplay since 2010.
I’ve also been dubbed MILF of the year 11 times, in case cosplay isn’t your thing. 😉
But I’m getting a little ahead of myself–today, I want to talk all about bringing cosplay into the bedroom, and why it can make sex super hot.
I actually discovered cosplay by accident.
I was in San Diego in 2009 for a shoot, and it just so happened to coincide with Comic-Con that year. It was madness! Everyone was dressed up in these awesome outfits, and the whole town was super into it.
That’s when a lightbulb went off in my head–I realized that cosplay could be combined with sex for an amazing new experience. I wanted to take the characters that everyone already knew and loved, and add a sexy, kinky edge to them. 😉
From that moment on, I’ve enjoyed cosplaying as popular characters like Emma Frost…
Cersei Lannister…
Wonder Woman…
And She-Ra (just to name a few).
It started out as a hobby, but now it’s a full-time job, and I couldn’t ask for anything more.
So today, I want to help you understand a little more about sexual cosplay, why it’s so fun, and how you can bring it into your bedroom for hotter sex.
What Is Cosplay, & What Makes It Sexy?
If you aren’t already familiar with cosplay, it refers to dressing up as a character from a TV show…
Movie…
Comic book…
And really any other major costume-related pop culture reference.
Basically, cosplay just means dressing up as one of your favorite characters and adopting his or her character and personality.
Of course, I like to take it one step further by combining my career as an adult actress with my career as a cosplayer–that way, you get to see some of my (and maybe yours too!) fav characters act out some super steamy sexual fantasies.
But why is this so hot in the first place?
Well, cosplay and sexual roleplay have a lot in common, and transitioning from cosplay to sexual roleplay is actually really simple. And when done right, it can be a great and easy way to spice up your sex life or introduce some new kinky fantasies into your bedroom.
The reason a lot of women respond so well to roleplay is because being “in character” may allow her to feel more comfortable with more adventurous sex than she otherwise is. And for you, this can be a lot of fun. 😉
Dressing up takes it one step further from traditional “roleplay” as well, because the costumes add an extra element that can make the experience feel a lot more real or authentic.
The Strange Connection Between Cosplay & BDSM…
If you’ve ever been interested in exploring a “dominant” or “submissive” role in the bedroom… then sexual cosplay is the perfect place to start.
That’s because cosplay, as a form of roleplay, can allow one of you to be the “leader” (or the “dom”), and the other partner to be the “follower” (or the “sub”).
So first, have a conversation with your girl about who should be in control. This person is going to be the “dom.”
And let me just say that, no, just because you’re the guy does not mean you have to be the “dom”! In fact, having your girl in control can be super hot–not to mention a lot of fun for her too.
Also, don’t be afraid to speak up if something isn’t working for you. If, for example, you offered to be the “dom,” but halfway in, you’re feeling like you’d rather let your girl take the reigns… let her know. 🙂
And when something works for both of you, keep exploring! Push yourselves as much as you want–at the end of the day, remember, it’s all about having fun. So as long as you’re both on the same page, it’s sure to be a good time.
Which brings me to my next piece of advice about incorporating cosplay into your sexual routine…
How to Bring Cosplay Into Your Bedroom (Whether You’re Single Or Otherwise!)
If your girl is on the “shy” or quiet side, or you think she might be reluctant to experiment in the bedroom… then don’t worry, you can still introduce sexual cosplay without overwhelming her.
Here are a few tips to get your girl into sexual cosplay without scaring her away:
1) Start Small
Did the girl you’re seeing wear a sexy Halloween costume last year? Then maybe you “accidentally” stumble upon some pictures of her in her costume and remind her how hot you thought it was when she wore that.
If this doesn’t encourage her to dress up on her own (and it likely will), then ask her if she still has the outfit–maybe she’ll have a sexy fashion show for you.
2) Use Your Imagination
You don’t have to buy an expensive costume to start experimenting with cosplay. The costume is just one element of it–it’s the attitude and role-playing that really make it sexy and fun.
If “cosplay” is new territory for your girl, then see if she’s up for playing a sexy secretary or a dominating CEO first. You can move onto more character-based costumes from there. 😉
3) Take The Lead
Even if your fantasy doesn’t involve you dressing up, you could try it out first just to show your girl that you’re not afraid to experiment either. She might be too shy to take the lead at first…
But if you show her how much fun it can be, then you might just open her eyes to a whole new experience.
Of course, at the end of the day, your ultimate goal should be to have amazing sex, & give her the kind of pleasure every woman craves…
And I’ve got just the trick up my sleeve to do exactly that ;-):
The #1 Thing I Crave in A Man…
First, let me just get this out of the way:
It’s NOT a huge c**k. (A lotta pornstars won’t admit this, but that can actually be really painful! Ouch!)
The truth is, I’ve had SUPER hot sex with many “average-sized”, or even “below-average” guys… and it’s all because they had one thing in common.
They weren’t all super good-looking…
And a lot of them were just “regular” guys (NOT pornstars)…
And no, they weren’t all into sexual cosplay, so costumes have nothing to do with it.
What is it?
Well, I’ll be honest… it’s a little hard for me to put into words. So I asked 3 of my sexy adult co-stars to spill everything for you right here ;-):
