Find Out for Good if She Thinks You’re “Relationship Material”…
Women don’t always say what they mean.
I might tell you I only want to be “friends” or that I’m “not looking for anything serious right now”…
But inside, I’m dying for you to make the first move. And I know I’m not the only one.
If you aren’t 100% sure what type of relationship she wants, you could be missing out on your next casual fling, or even something more serious…
So how can you tell what she really wants from you?
The Hidden Value of Your Relationship With Her…
Women analyze relationships differently based on their hidden “value.”
For example, a short-term relationship has the following values in her eyes:
- No strings attached…
- On-demand sex…
- Lots of fun…
Compare that to the values of a long-term relationship:
- Deep, lasting love…
- Companionship…
- Emotional and moral support…
So when a woman sees you, she compares what you have to offer to these hidden “values” — and that determines the type of relationship she wants from you.
I developed this quick, 3-question quiz based on a study (details to come) about what women want in long-term vs. short-term relationships — so by the time you finish, you’ll know whether she sees you as just a “one-night stand” or a “relationship” kind of guy.
And armed with this knowledge, you’ll know exactly how to make the move she wants…
And you’ll never have to guess where you stand with her…
All you have to do is ask yourself these 3 questions:
1) Do you regularly donate money, give to charity, or help others without seeking any personal gains?
The study I just mentioned asked 202 women to compare various pictures of men and choose the man they “prefer.” Some of the men were physically attractive, while others were not, and some were shown doing a good deed, while others were doing nothing at all.
Now here’s where things get interesting:
While physical attractiveness did play a role in the women’s preferences…
There’s one quality that’s even more important:
Altruism.
The women in the study consistently preferred the men who were doing good deeds over the men who weren’t doing anything altruistic.
And even if the man wasn’t physically attractive, the women found him desirable if he was doing something altruistic…
But only for a long-term relationship! So for women, there’s a link between your altruism and your value as a long-term partner.
Before I dive into what this means for you, let’s back this up a sec.
It’s easy to assume that “altruism” = weakness. After all, what sort of strong, ambitious man would ever do something for someone else without expecting anything in return?
But when it comes time to be a parent, women know that altruistic men make the best fathers (after all, being a parent is a huge sacrifice of your time and money).
So if she sees you doing things like donating to charity…
Helping other people…
And being a generally “good” person…
She’ll instinctively see you as “relationship material,” and your long-term relationship value will skyrocket. Basically, if you answered “yes” to this question, she’ll likely want a long-term relationship with you.
That brings me to question 2…
2) Do you put your own needs before those of others?
Another interesting tidbit from the study identified one trait women look for in a one-night stand:
Selfishness.
When the women in the study were selecting a man for a “short-term” relationship or a one-night stand, altruism played absolutely no role in their selection — and in fact, they preferred more selfish men.
So while women seek altruistic men for long-term relationships — for more short-term or casual flings, they want the exact opposite!
Why?
It all goes back to that hidden “value” I mentioned earlier. If a woman just wants you for the night, she doesn’t care if you’re out for yourself — at that moment, so is she.
And as Hank has showed you before, selfish men are more confident around women — a huge turn-on for her.
Now, I’m not saying it’s a good thing to be selfish all the time (for example, it’s never good to be selfish in the bedroom!) — but if you’re ambitious…
And you’re always looking out for ways to make your life better and easier…
Chances are she sees you as “one-night stand” material. So if you answered “yes” to this question, then she’ll likely only want you for some casual fun.
By now, you should be able to figure out how she sees you — whether you’re more “long-term” or “short-term” in her eyes. But if you don’t have the answer you want…
Or if you’re “long-term relationship” material but you really want a one-night stand…
Is there a way to change how she sees you?
3) What type of woman do you want to attract?
As a woman, I’m always thinking ahead — when I go out, I look for a man who fits the “type” of relationship I want…
So by “triggering” a specific type, you can make her think:
“I could go home with him tonight”….Or, “This is a man I could really date”…
Within 10-15 minutes from the moment you walk into a room. How?
It’s all about standing a certain way…looking at her just like this…and using your hands to send the message that you’re her “type.”
These “triggers” might not get her to approach you right away, but trust me — she’ll notice you fast (and if she does start talking to you, she might be the one to suggest going home together!).
So ask yourself what “type” of woman you want — then choose your “triggers” wisely (you might be shocked by just how powerful they are).
Your future with her is in your hands — click the one you want below:
“One-Night Stand Triggers” to Meet a Woman for Some Casual Fun…
“Long-Term Relationship Triggers” to Meet a Woman for Something More Serious…
And for even more advanced “triggers,” just go here:
Advanced “triggers” to control how and where your relationship goes with her…
