How To Avoid the Dreaded “Texting Fizzle” & Get Her to Respond More Often–Have You Made This All-Too-Common Dating Mistake?
A very common problem I have been observing with students lately is what I like to call, “Premature Ejectulation.”
This is when a guy who approaches a woman gets some interest and attraction…
But then all of a sudden, he decides to leave the interaction before he really had a chance to pull her back to his place or build more rapport.
I see it all the time:
A guy opens well…
He runs away!
Sure, he got a phone number… but usually, the woman won't text him back, or she'll flake out on him.
I hate seeing this. So today, I'm going to show you why it's such a common problem and what you can do instead.
The REAL Reason Things Always Seem to “Fizzle Out”…
When you approach a girl, you want to eventually go home with her, right?
Then why not stay in the interaction for as long as possible? It makes sense… right?
I imagine that, when a guy runs away from an interaction, he does it for a few reasons:
Maybe he wants to leave on a “high note”… but this is a bunch of B.S.! Whoever made it popular to end on a “high note” after just a few minutes of talking definitely is not getting laid.
Or maybe he runs away because he feels more pressure to act a certain way…
Or maybe he just doesn't know what to do… and is even a little scared.
All of these are very valid “excuses.” However, excuses are exactly what they are.
How To Turn Her # Into a Date (Without Hitting Any Dead Ends)
When you approach a woman, the whole point of walking up to her is to get her massively attracted to you.
So that's where my “no ejection” rule comes in.
If you've ever had a problem closing with women… then you need to follow this rule:
No running away from your interactions! Ever!
Stay in it until she tells you to leave or walks away from you.
Practice doing this, and you will get almost instant results.
And if you blow it… well, you blow it. That's life! And trust me–more often than not, if you follow this rule, you aren't gonna blow it.
What If You Run Out of Things To Say?
At the end of the day, it's better to stay in and build some solid attraction than run away and hope she “maybe” texts you.
So if you're worried about running out of things to say… then just start asking her questions.
Ask her questions about herself–whatever you want. It's better to do this than to leave.
I do this all the time, and it works like a charm.
Whether you ask about her favorite foods…
Or if she has pets…
Just stay in and get to know her.
And of course, eventually, you may want to really turn things up a notch… and get sexual with her.
So if that's the case, then here's how to do that:
The “Sexual Escalator Sequence”: How To Keep Her Interested (& Turn Things Sexual)…
Stay in the interaction long enough… and eventually you’ll want to turn things sexual.
Honestly, it’s the only way to become a sexual option in her mind. Otherwise, you’re just “that interesting guy from the bar” (or coffee shop, or wherever).
And the easiest way I know how to do this is to follow what I call the “Sexual Escalator Sequence.”
It starts with some interesting body language moves that position you as a “pack leader” in her mind…
…and then it gets into some subtle touches…
And before you know it, she’ll start getting more playful… touching you back… and often she’ll lean in for the kiss (like it’s her idea).
It used to take me days of intense training to properly show my students the full “Sexual Escalator Sequence”…
But as a shortcut… I teamed up with my buddy & fellow expert, Magic, to make this video to guide you through it, step-by-step: