The Tips & Tricks That Every Guy Should Know–Will You Give Her Next Level Orgasms Tonight?
When it comes to sex advice for her pleasure, you've probably seen it all:
“Pay attention to her breath…”
“Focus on foreplay…”
“Make love to her…”
All great concepts–but also a little too vague to actually be useful.
So much sex advice out there is well-intended, but misses the mark when it comes to being super specific and helpful.
Well, not anymore.
Thanks to a recent interview with Babeland's leading sex educator and other experts, we finally have some real answers as to what really turns a woman on between the sheets.
So today I'm going to share 5 of the best tips we can give you–the things that will turn her on fast and lead to multiple, mind-blowing orgasms.
Ready to dive in? 😉
Beginning with tip #1:
1) Engage Her #1 Sex Organ (Not What You Think!)
Did you know that a woman's most stimulating sex organ is… between her ears???
Yup, that's right. It's her brain.
For a woman, the process of getting turned on starts–and ends–with her brain.
In order to feel aroused, she has to be “in the moment,” and thinking about something sexual.
And I'm not just talking about porn, either. Often, it takes complicated scenarios for a woman to feel truly turned on.
(Think about 50 Shades of Grey. One of the main reasons it was so popular with women was because it followed a sexual storyline.)
So how can you do this quickly & easily when you're with a woman?
Experiment with roleplay.
You don't have to go all out with costumes and complicated scenarios, but it's important to set up a storyline.
Will you be the teacher, and she's your naughty student?
Or maybe she's a doctor, and you're in need of a “checkup”…?
Whatever the case, choose something that both you and her will enjoy, then go from there. 🙂
2) Explore Her Entire Clit
Most men assume that a woman's clitoris is that “pea-sized” bulge of flesh above her vagina.
This is partially true… however, it's not the whole story.
In reality, the clitoris is actually shaped like a wishbone, and extends down on either side of her vagina beneath her skin.
So, yes, the fleshy patch up top may be the most sensitive part of her clit–but that doesn't mean you should ignore the rest.
Try sliding your fingers (or tongue) down either side of her vagina while you stimulate the top of her clit. Or you could even make a “V” shape with your fingers and experiment with that.
Whichever way you do it, just make sure to pay attention to the entire clit for maximum pleasure.
3) Go Slow
Yeah, this tip might sound a little vague… but it really isn't.
A lot of guys tend to rush the sexual experience as soon as the clothes come off. And for most women, this is a pretty big turn-off.
The thing is, most women aren't great at communicating what they want between the sheets. So she'll probably just bottle it up, and wait for some better sex to come along.
But what if you just can't help yourself? What if you have to have her as soon as you see her naked?
Instead of spending 5 minutes on foreplay, then 10 minutes doing the deed (which is pretty average)–try focusing on every part of her body.
Kiss her neck (this is a HUGE erogenous zone for most women)…
Trace your fingers down her stomach…
Touch her upper thighs and the area behind her knees (super sensitive)…
Don't be afraid to explore!
Because women tend to take longer to both a) get turned on, and b) have an orgasm, this will help her get as aroused as she needs before you start having sex. Plus, it'll practically double the odds that she has an orgasm with you during sex.
It's a win-win.
4) Try New Things
This next tip is important for guys with all levels of sexual experience.
A lot of guys have a “routine” with their foreplay techniques and the positions they use.
For the guys who are single, this might work “OK” most of the time… but if it's a woman you've slept with more than once, she's going to want to experience some variety.
Because whenever you try something new with someone else, there's a sense of fear and anticipation. This gets the adrenaline pumping through your blood, and that feeling is quite similar to being turned on.
(See where I'm going with this?)
So when she feels this, she may actually start getting more turned on as a result!
And so will you. 😉
You don't have to do anything crazy–we're not talking Standing 69 or anything like that–but if you tend to start with missionary, have her get on top and ride you first (for example).
Or if you always have sex in a bed, try getting busy on your couch! Or your kitchen…
The possibilities are endless.
Which brings to my favorite tip in this list–this is one that I think every guy can benefit from (even if you're super experienced):
5) The “Pornstar Secret” to Satisfy Her Sexual Cravings
What’s a pornstar’s #1 turn-on?
Is it a big d**k…?
A guy who can last for hours & hours…?
Or maybe it’s big muscles & a brawny physique…?
We sat down with 3 of the industry’s leading female pornstars to get the answer… (including Briana Banks!)… and boy, they didn’t hold ANYTHING back.
As it turns out, these pornstars agree that their #1 turn-on is a guy who has this ONE thing… and it’s probably not what you think. 😉
You can check out the full interview for yourself right here (NSFW! lol):