Her Most Common Sexual Fantasies Finally Revealed…
What do you think about when you masturbate?
Maybe you let porn do all the work for you…
Or maybe you fantasize about your hot neighbor, an ex-girlfriend, or your favorite actress…
Whatever the case, when I write the words “sexual fantasy,” chances are something comes to mind.
But have you ever wondered what women fantasize about?
After all, women are sexual beings too…
And the truth is that many of us want more sex than most men realize. And we definitely have our own sexual fantasies.
As a woman, I can tell you that if you can tap into a woman’s fantasies, then you can give her more sexual pleasure than she ever thought possible…
But her fantasies might not be the same as yours…and in fact, chances are they’re totally different.
Is Her Mind REALLY That Dirty?
A study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine is finally revealing the truth about women’s most common sexual fantasies.
The study asked 1,517 Canadians (799 of whom were women) about their most common sexual fantasies.
From the very vanilla (feeling romantic during sex) to the extreme taboo (being peed on), nothing was off limits in the study’s scope.
But before I jump into what she’s really fantasizing about, let me make one thing clear:
You shouldn’t try and figure out a woman’s sexual fantasies if you haven’t already slept with her.
When you sleep with a woman, she forms some level of emotional attachment to you, and she’s choosing to be vulnerable with you.
But if you ask a woman about her sexual fantasies before you have sex with her for the first time…
You risk scaring her away or freaking her out.
As a woman, I know one of two things immediately jumps to mind:
“We haven’t even had sex ONCE and he’s already asking about my fantasies…this guy is a sexual FREAK…”
Or,
“Am I really THAT boring that he has to ask about my sexual fantasies before we even sleep together?!”
But if she’s already been vulnerable with you once, it’ll be much easier for her to be vulnerable with you again. And that means she’ll be more willing to share her sexual fantasies (and potentially make them a reality) with you.
So what ARE those sexual fantasies she’s dying to act out but won’t ever tell you?
Get ready for a ride…
1) Being Masturbated
Of the 799 women in the study, over 70% of them expressed that they fantasize about being masturbated by their partner.
For you, this is an easy fantasy to make happen — you don’t need any special equipment or a particular atmosphere. Simple.
So why won’t she share this fantasy with you?
As a woman, it can feel selfish to demand pleasure if I’m not giving it back in some way. It’s possible she’s just not telling you because she just wants you to do it.
While I’d never advocate doing something to a woman’s body she didn’t consent to, if she agreed to have sex with you, then she’s aware of the possibility that you’ll be touching her like that.
So next time you’re with a woman, spend a little extra time with your hands down there…
Chances are you won’t be disappointed.
2) Having Insanely Romantic, Emotional Sex
It might sound crazy, but this is a fantasy that begins in childhood for many women.
Young girls mature faster than boys…
And that means they start thinking about sex and romance at a younger age. So from the time she starts watching Disney movies, her brain is being primed to desire what she sees…
Romance so extreme it seems comedic.
And as she gets older and starts thinking about sex, she’s going to connect this extreme romance with love scenes she sees in movies.
Now, it’s not always that simple, but there’s a reason that over 90% of the women in the study agreed that they “like to feel romantic emotions during a sexual relationship.”
On top of that, about 85% of the women in the study said that they had fantasized about having sex in a romantic location.
So not only does she want to feel romantic and emotional during sex…
But she wants it to happen in a romantic place.
And because an experience like this can take a lot of work, she might not be telling you because she’s embarrassed or feels bad.
So unlike being masturbated, this isn’t something you should just try and do without asking her — but more on that in a second…
3) Sex in Public
The last major fantasy that many women are dying to check off their “sexual bucket list” is having sex in public.
Over 81% of the women said that they had fantasized about having sex in an unusual place. And while “unusual place” doesn’t always mean in public (for example, a bathroom stall is not technically in “public”)…
Nearly 60% of the women said that they had fantasized about openly making love in a public place.
So not only do over half of the women want to have sex in public, but they want to do it openly, where getting caught is a serious possibility.
Sex in public is still a major social taboo, which explains why she won’t just open up to you about it.
And like the insanely romantic, emotional sex, this is not an easy fantasy to realize without asking her first.
At the end of the day, it’s important to remember that every woman is different. So while these are the 3 most likely fantasies she’s keeping from you, there’s no guaranteeing the woman you have in mind is actually fantasizing about these things.
Her fantasies might be much more vanilla…
Or they could be way, way naughtier (almost a quarter of the women admitted to fantasizing about having sex with more than 3 people, all women, just as a quick example).
So how do you:
a) figure out if these are fantasies she she has, and…
b) bring her fantasy to life in a way that both of you are happy with?
Just follow these 3 steps:
Step 1: Open Up About YOUR Fantasies
Sexual fantasies are exactly that — personal, private fantasies that exist in your own mind.
So if a woman shares her sexual fantasies with you, she’s putting herself in an incredibly vulnerable position and is sharing a very personal part of her life with you.
And that’s a big f—ing deal!
So you shouldn’t treat it lightly.
Part of getting to know a person is letting them get to know you, so if you want to know her fantasies…
She should know yours as well.
If your end game is to figure out her fantasies, open up about yours first.
You could start with, “Last night, I had this dream…”
Or,
“Wouldn’t it be fun if…”
Once you put yourself in that vulnerable position, it will be much easier for her to be vulnerable with you.
And once you know her fantasies and decide you want to make them a reality, it’s time to move on to step two…
Step 2: Start Slow
Because a sexual fantasy is something that, by definition, isn’t yet reality, it’s important that you’re realistic about what you can and can’t do.
For example, you can masturbate her (a likely fantasy) in the privacy of your own home without worrying about anything…
But if you decide to have sex on the roof of an apartment building, you risk getting caught and potentially getting in trouble with the law.
On top of that, she probably doesn’t want to act out all of her fantasies.
For instance, while nearly 65% of the women expressed fantasizing about being sexually dominated, only half of that 65% said they would like to make that fantasy a reality.
So even if you figure her fantasies out, that doesn’t mean you should try and make them all happen in real life. Some fantasies should just remain a fantasy.
But let’s say you open up about your fantasies, get her to open up about hers and decide that you both want to make it happen.
If that’s the case, then you want to make her as comfortable as possible so she can really open up and experience pleasure with you. And here’s how to do it:
Step 3: Unlock Her Mind to Unleash Her Pleasure…
Here’s a trick I learned from my good friend and mentor Lawrence Lanoff, who’s a tantric sex guru.
(That means, among other things, he specializes in giving women intense, long-lasting “waves” of orgasms).
You can start by trying one of the easiest, most private things on this list (masturbating her) and ask her a simple question:
“What’re you thinking about?”
Since you’re already pleasuring her and she’s “in the mood,” she’ll be more likely to open up to you about her fantasies…
…and you can explore any fantasy she might have, from the comfort and safety of your place or hers.
This is a powerful “mental sex” technique that will break down her reservations about her own fantasies and get her fully “in the moment” so that she can let go and experience pleasure unlike any she’s ever experienced before.
And it’s never been easier–just click this link below to find out how you can start doing this with women as soon as tonight:
The “Mental Sex” Technique That Makes Her Open Up and Explore New Sexual Territory With YOU…
