3 Steps to Secure a Long-Term Relationship Without ANY Drama

3 Steps to Secure a Long-Term Relationship Without ANY Drama

How To Keep Any Woman Happy & Loyal to You on Your Terms–Here’s How to Prevent Any Drama Before It Starts…

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Whether you’ve been seeing a woman for a while, and want to make her your long term committed girlfriend…

Or you’re just curious about the best way to land a long term relationship…

There’s no denying that drama can be a major problem–especially when you’ve been dating for some time.

Usually, this happens around the 6-month mark.

Things seem to be going well–and perhaps your goal is to keep things happy and simple.

However, as relationships evolve, they rarely move to places of decreased drama.

Instead, as time goes on, you may find that the woman you’re with starts to cause more drama, not less.

Today, I’m going to show you why this is, the true meaning of drama–and how you can use this information to keep a woman happy and eliminate the drama entirely.

First, let’s get a sense of what drama means to a woman.

Why Do Women Love Causing Drama (Even When They Seem Totally Satisfied)?

If you watch television, you’ve certainly heard the word “drama.” And maybe you have some idea of what it means.

TNT–a major TV network if you aren’t already familiar–ran an ad campaign where they asked people what “drama” meant to them.

The people had answers like, “Drama is life or death.”

And yes, drama can be life or death when it comes to the characters in a TV show.

The truth, however, is that drama is rarely that dramatic in real life.

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A much better way to remember what drama is to a woman, is to think of the well-known icon for drama:

Two masks side by side, one smiling and one frowning.

Why?

Well, it’s because the pair of masks has the frown AND the smile.

And why is this important, anyway?

At the end of the day, drama is the meat of life for most women.

They are either giving it or getting it–at all times.

And when they’re not, they’re hungry for more.

It Doesn’t End There…

For a woman, there is no real ramp up or bridging emotion–it’s happy or sad. That’s the drama.

Drama is the emotion change.

Drama is the news.

And by that, I mean drama is, “What’s NEW?”

New means different from the same old same old, whatever that is.

If things have been peaceful, drama is danger and war.

If things have been traumatic, drama is victory and “everything’s alright.”

Whatever you’ve got now… drama is something else.

Are you familiar with the quote, “It was the best of times, it was the worst of times”?

It’s from Charles Dickens’ A Tale of Two Cities, and it’s the perfect representation of drama.

Basically, women thrive on this kind of change–the key is to learn how to anticipate and control it.

Can You Recognize the Calm Before The Storm?

Have you heard of the “calm before the storm”?

In nature, usually there are a few moments of eery silence or calm before a natural disaster strikes. The birds stop chirping, the wind stops blowing, and everything is silent–because they are anticipating what’s to come next.

For a woman, drama is the storm that comes after that calm. (And, depending on how you look at it, it’s also the calm.)

For better or for worse–and I tend to think it’s a necessary function in our universe–women are built to shake things up.

If things are peaches and rainbows and sunshine, a woman will see the impending storm.

If things are doom and gloom and nothing’s going right, she’ll find the Pandora’s box of hope and open it.

This means that when you start to settle into your relationship, she will be there to shake things up.

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Here are some examples I’ve heard from my clients in the past:

“My girlfriend wanted me to stop going out and stay at home more… now she’s telling me to get off my a**??”

“I wasn’t even interested in a relationship at first, and now that I like her more she’s telling me I need to change?”

“I’ve finally opened up a little and let her in–which is what she wanted all along–and now she’s angry that I haven’t introduced her to my mother.”

“I thought she’d be happy when I gave her what she asked for!”

The truth is, it usually isn’t that simple.

When you do what a woman wants, usually it will make her happy… but only temporarily.

Then she will start to realize what she’s missing.

This reminds me of another quote from Irving Berlin:

“After you get what you want, you don’t want it.”

Women are like that.

So what can you do about it?

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At the beginning of a relationship, a woman is sinking into the joy.

She finds what she likes–and then she looks for more things that she likes, and even repaints some things she doesn’t like to be more likable.

As she gets used to having what she wants, though, she begins to focus her attention on the things that can be improved–the problem areas.

When this happens to you, you should honestly take it as a compliment. That’s the first secret of men who have “drama-free” relationships.

They learn to recognize this desire for change as a good thing.

It means that there’s so much good in your relationship that it’s just easier for her to mention the few things she doesn’t like.

However, I know it sometimes doesn’t feel good. All you hear is incessant complaining.

Here’s an example from my personal life:

When I first started seeing a specific woman, she wanted to see more and more of me.

If I was seeing her once a week, she wished for two days.

As I began to spend more time with her, and enjoy her company more, I started seeing her two days a week.

And finally, I began to see her three days a week.

That’s the second secret–you can give her what she wants, but not all at once. There should be some resistance. (I’ll talk about this more in my next column.)

And still, she demanded more:

“Don’t go, why don’t you spend the day here?”

“Let’s have breakfast… let’s watch a movie!”

And so on.

At the end of the day, it’s not your job to do everything she wants.

And yes, this means that there will probably be some “drama,” in the sense that I’ve described.

So how can you keep her happy and drama-free, while still getting what YOU want?

Is it possible?

Yes–and it all comes down to the third and final secret below:

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So What’s The Best Way To Put An End To All The Drama?

I hate drama…

It’s annoying, it’s a time waster, and it can cause very unwanted stress.

But… some women start drama just to find out if you can handle it, and sometimes it’s just inevitable…

That being said, you can limit how much drama you have to deal with… if you are the kind of guy who she doesn’t want to change…

AKA the kind of guy who can truly satisfy her in bed.

The sort of man who makes her come multiple times, with ease, and quickly…

Where other men in her past rarely (if ever) even get her to come once

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It’s this move called “5 Finger Magic.”

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