When it comes to getting down and dirty, it ain’t your grandparents’ America anymore…
But it’s possible it isn’t even the America of your teen years.
What am I getting at?
Ok, 2020 might not have rocked your dating life. In fact, if you feel like you’re having less sex than in years past, research proves you’re not alone.
But I’m here with good news…
Sex might be a little harder to come by these days, and that’s to be expected. But the sex Americans are having is getting, well, hotter.
While so many things in the world seem to be going haywire, you can count on one thing:
Americans are getting more and more freaky in the bedroom with each passing year.
And that’s a reason to rejoice: Quality over quantity.
And hey, maybe even quarantine boredom has its perks… Twenty-three percent of people report exploring kinks or fetishes during Covid-19 lockdown—and a whopping one-in-three of those did so virtually.
So, chances are great that the next time you want to get a little wild, your partner is MORE than willing to meet you there… and she may have a few dirty suggestions you hadn’t even thought of…
According to new research, almost 70 percent of us have at least one kink.
That goes for women, especially. MORE than 70 percent of women surveyed consider themselves at least somewhat kinky. :-O
Just a tiny 15 percent of women said they weren’t at all kinky, while 14 percent considered themselves very kinky.
Dudes rank similarly, with a slightly higher percentage of men calling themselves very kinky, but a slightly smaller percentage saying they are somewhat kinky.
In other words, the modern gal is pretty likely to want to try out some wild stuff in the bedroom…
And, believe it or not, that’s a pretty new trend.
Maybe the 1950s drive-in-movie is a hot fantasy, but don’t be too envious of the sexual exploits of yester-year.
According to a study published in the 10.1111/jsm.2010.7.issue-s5/issuetoc">Journal of Sexual Medicine, we’ve gotten waaaay more sexully adventurous than just twenty-five years ago, in the mid-nineties, for example.
That’s right, missionary-Monday has gone the way of AOL dial-up.
The research shows that both men and women are significantly more likely to try kinky sex positions, such as anal, than their counterparts from the days of too-much-denim.
In fact, even moderately kinky stuff has gotten a lot more popular. This study revealed that in the mid-1990s, only 40% of both women and men had participated in oral sex.
???
In more recent years, that number has risen (excuse the pun) to 80-85 percent, and you can bet it will just keep on (ahem) rising…
You read that right—Americans are set to get even kinkier.
Another survey revealed that 27 percent of Americans had a kink they wanted to try, but just hadn’t told their partner.
The popular book Fifty Shades of Gray brought bondage and BDSM to the suburban housewife.
The smartphone introduced its users to the wonderful world of sexting. Not to mention the endless creative possibilities contained in two little words: SEND NUDZ.
The #MeToo movement started conversations about open communication about sex, and female empowerment, which has actually made many women more comfortable — which leads to them being MORE sexually adventurous.
Which means you should feel comfortable bringing up your wildest fantasies with your partner, because odds are pretty good that she’s entertained similar ideas…
So, What Are YOU Into?
So Americans are getting kinkier by the minute.
But specifically, what are some of the most popular kinks and fetishes?
Next is BDSM, a more extreme version of dominance, submission, and bondage, in which lovers explore their sadist or masochist sides—receiving and inflicting sexy pain.
Seventh is exhibitionism, or doing it in public—car in a parking lot, anyone? Public restroom? Tent in a campground? Hiking trail? (Exhibitionism is often illegal, but hey, so is jaywalking.)
Wearing uniforms is next—hello, soldier!—followed by group sex (swinging, orgies, threesomes—you know, what everyone’s supposedly doing instead of studying during college.)
Last but not least is voyeurism: watching others. Naughty, naughty.
If you find your fetishes on this list, you’re not alone, especially in modern-day America—this has never been a kinkier nation than it is today.
A Kinky Conversation Might Be Key…
If you’re angling to get a gal to try out something a little on the wild side, be prepared to play it cool for a little while.
On average, it takes five months for people to open up about kinks to their partner…
After all, it takes a lot of trust to break out the spiky collar. (I should know. 😉 )
Even if your girl isn’t crazy about the more unique things that get you going, it’s still pretty likely she’ll give it a go…
That’s right—32% of people surveyed reported that they would participate in their partners kink, even if it’s not their cup of tea.
Once you’ve got a solid foundation of good communication, there’s nothing you can’t talk about.
With time, she’ll trust you to lead her to the wilder corners of your imagination…
In fact…
One Thing Women Find Simply Irresistible
There’s one thing guys can try to totally liberate the sex goddess waiting inside a woman.
And that’s to make her have a type of orgasm that she’s never had before.
Pull this off, and you can keep her coming back again and again (trying kinkier and kinkier stuff…)
Here’s how:
Hook:The World-Altering Orgasm Fewer Than 7% of Women Have Had (& How to Give It To Her)…
This last tip is great because no matter which one of these kinky sex acts she’s into… you can use this and she’ll reallllllly like it (trust me ;-)).
It’s called a “deep spot orgasm”… and it feels uh-MAZING!
How good does it feel?
Think of the best orgasm you ever had… where it took 15-30 seconds to fully unload into the hottest girl you’ve ever been with…
Think about how good that felt…
And then stretch it out to 4-5 minutes of that kind of relentless pleasure… flowing throughout your entire body so that you feel utter pleasure consuming you…
(Uh… yeah. THAT good haha!)
Now I know what you’re thinking…
“Deep Spot? How the hell am I supposed to hit that without a horse dong?”
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