How to Talk to a Woman for the First Time & Move Things Forward With Her Fast–Is It Really This Easy?
My last article showed you one of the easiest ways to start a conversation with a woman.
But from there, what do you do? Sure, starting a conversation with a beautiful woman isn’t always easy — but what about:
- Keeping the conversation going…
- Asking her out…
- Making sure the first date goes well…
- And eventually going home with her?
How do you accomplish that?
I recognize that even after you know how easy it is to meet a new woman, your reluctance, fear and outright panic surrounding approaching women doesn’t go away.
Hell, I personally still feel “butterflies” every so often, and will probably always experience modest panic now and again.
But what to do about it? How to power through?
Today, using what I like to call my “5-Step Seduction Solution,” I’m going to show you how.
Beginning with step one:
1) Overcome Your Fears
The first step is to recognize at some point that you have no choice but to own and control the fear of approaching women.
Unless you want to be alone, this fear is necessary to overcome if you want to meet the kind of woman you want.
One of the easiest ways to overcome approach anxiety is to first approach women you have no sexual interest in.
Why?
Because that way, you won’t get stuck in your own head about whether or not she likes you — you’ll be able to have a comfortable conversation. And from there, you can approach women that you find more attractive.
2) Make a Choice to Go After the Life You Deserve
Your next step is going to be to make a proactive choice to attain the life you deserve. This is true for all aspects of your life.
Take chances and risks to move forward. Recognize that in order to meet and have sex with the women you want, you will need to take action.
This all requires a modest amount of risk — and that’s OK. The self-actualized man makes that happen, and so should you.
Consider that women are instinctively attracted to the confident man, and by simply approaching new women, you will appear more confident.
This takes time, yes — but it doesn’t take years or months. By spending 20 minutes a day on this, you can get the lif you want and deserve.
But more on that in a second…
3) Reverse Engineer the Process (to Get Your Desired Outcome)
What’s next? Think about what you want — and work backward to get a gameplan.
Here’s an example:
Let’s say your goal is to date and have sex with 5 or 6 women over the next 12 months. You also want to develop an exclusive relationship with the lady you feel you connect with best.
However…
You’re really nervous, and you have a real fear of approaching women and starting conversations.
Guess what? I was in that exact same spot not too long ago.
However, I was able to develop a gameplan. And in the last 12 months, I’ve slept with 10 women, and for 6 months during that period, I was exclusive with one woman.
I’ve had more sex in the last year than I did in 20 years of marriage!
The truth is, it wasn’t all that difficult, and it wasn’t time-consuming.
My success was predetermined by my actions.
Speaking of which:
4) Take Action
Here’s what worked for me once I had my goal in mind and reverse-engineered it. This is how 20 minutes a day changed my life for the better:
I approached 3 women every day.
That’s it. You can do that — trust me, it’s not as hard as you think.
Just keep your desired outcome in mind, and understand that by taking baby steps, you can achieve your goal in a relatively short period of time.
It doesn’t matter if you do it during happy hour (my preferred choice)…
A bookstore…
Coffee shop….
At lunch…
Or even at a nightclub.
Just approach 3 women a day, throughout the day.
And over a year, you know how many women you will have approached? 700!
That’s 700 potential sex partners you’re exposing yourself to — again, 700. And it’s all because you made the choice to approach three women every day.
Sure, not all of those 700 women will want to sleep with you — that’s life. But at least one, or two, or three of them will!
Using the Law of Numbers and with practice, your skills will put your sexual odds overwhelmingly in your favor.
Competence, then excellence, is the inevitable outcome of enthusiastic practice.
If approaching 3 women seems like too much of a challenge at the beginning, at least say “Hi” to one new woman a day.
You can definitely do that–trust me, it’s easier than you think.
And once you’re talking to her, there’s an even easier way to get physical with her… all within minutes. Check this out:
Once You’re Talking to Her–How to Take Things to the “Next Level” Fast…
In my experience, there are 3 ways to get physical with a woman you’ve just met:
1) The Handshake: 99% of men shake either too soft (“dead fish”) or too hard (“death grip”). This “Hypnotizing Handshake” is the perfect balance of pressure & pleasure, so she’ll see you as a potential sexual partner.
2) Rings / Bracelet: You can use this as an instant conversation starter… and a way to initiate touch with her. Watch my mentor Magic demonstrate this “intermediate” secret here.
3) After She Tells a Joke: This one’s almost not fair… almost. You can use this “Standing Cuddle” almost anywhere to get her to make the first move on you… but make sure you can move to somewhere kinda private afterward. 🙂
Now Put It All Together:
How to Take Things to the “Next Level” With a Woman You’ve Just Met…
P.S. This one works especially well on super hot women. Have you tried it?
