I once sat next to a group of girls at a spice market and asked about the food there.
They offered me some of it–one of them in particular said, “Do you want to taste it?”
Now, this is very important:
When a woman offers you something, always take it.
An offer from a woman is not what you think. It’s not a trade where you’re now just taking something she offers. Instead, it’s an obligation.
Because when you offer somebody something, you feel emotionally invested in it, right?
And in this case, it’s a sign she wants more. So always take the offer.
In this situation, I said, “Sure…”
And can you guess what she said next?
“So are you going to buy us drinks? That’s the least you could do.”
Now, while I don’t have anything against buying girls drinks, per se…
In this scenario, I would not recommend you buy a girl a drink. When a woman tells you to buy her a drink, usually, it’s not a good idea to do it.
Why?
Because doing what a woman tells you to is rarely attractive.
You are, therefore, buying her attention.
Should You Ever “Send Over” A Drink?
Here’s the truth:
Do not, under any circumstance, ever “send over” a drink to a woman. Never ever.
Doing so suggests that you are low-value and that her attention can be purchased.
So what’s the right way to buy a drink for a woman?
It should be something that you build up to.
Let’s say you’re chatting… you’re getting yourself a drink…and then you just say, “What are you drinking?”
There’s nothing wrong with starting the conversation with that simple question and then continuing.
Of course, you’re also only asking her while there is still something in her glass.
This way, there is no obligation to buy her a drink.
Naturally, every woman is different, and some will respond differently when you ask them this.
But what if there was a way to know how a woman would respond… before you ever ask her?
Can You Predict Her Next Move Before It Happens?
For a long time I felt like dating was a game of chances…
I had no idea if I was going to hit it off with a woman, or if I was going to get ignored or laughed at… and this kind of unpredictability gave me a lot of anxiety… which often caused me to freeze up on dates, when I should have been making a move.
As a result, I missed out on a lot of opportunities with beautiful women… and it f’in sucked.
Over time, I discovered that many men in our community were having the same exact problem… which got me thinking…
What if there was a way to predict exactly how a woman would respond on a date… almost like a “cheat code” for dating?
Thanks to massive amounts of data we gathered from thousands of successful online dating conversations… successful text message interactions… and even live, infield footage of successful dates… we now know what works (and what doesn’t) with women on a date or first interaction.
Many of our community remembers have said that this cheat code has helped them get more phone #’s, dates, and even same night sex… and I have to say, it’s done the same for me:
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