How to Make a Move on Her With Confidence Every Time

how to make the first move

The One Question You MUST Ask Before Making The First Move on a Girl…

Over the course of the past two weeks, I’ve shown you two important things:

1) How to use your “Imaginary Past” to accept your failures and take more chances with women, and…

2) Two ways you can build a woman’s desire for you without overtly “going for it.”

Well, as promised, I’d like to show you how to cross that narrow line between talking and touching.

To recap one of my most important points, your primary obstacle will always be fear.

Some men have a fear of action, while others have a fear of inaction. By now, you should understand that your fear is unfounded — or at least ineffective.

The truth is that you’ve probably already crossed that talking-to-touching line with a woman before (even if it was only once).

That means you already know how to do it!

Of course, you’re not here to listen to me tell you about something you already know how to do…

So I’m going to explain, step-by-step, what’s specifically going on with a woman when you’re in a situation where talking may eventually transition into touching…

And I’ll show you exactly how you can get there every time.

The Magical Connection That Triggers it All…

Try and remember as many details as you can about the last time you transitioned from talking to touching with a woman.

Let me paint a picture to help.

Have you ever been with a woman, but you don’t know what’s going to happen next?

Specifically, think back to a time when you were with a woman — maybe you were talking…

Working…

Studying…

Watching a movie…

Whatever it was, you were distracted…

But all of a sudden, you’re not.

You’re looking at her. You don’t know why, but there’s a funny feeling now — tingly, sort of.

You’re wondering if she’s feeling it too.

Everything you do causes a reaction in her that makes that tingly feeling stronger. This feeling will make you wonder things like:

  • Is she flirting with me?…
  • Why did she smile like that?
  • How come she laughed when I said that thing?…

While I can’t tell you if she was feeling it too, what I can tell you is that you need to remember this feeling.

This is the magical connection.

Remember when I showed you the “ladder” of how things go with women?

Flirting → Building Desire → Sex

Well, forming this magical connection is necessary to climb to the top of this ladder.

There are two major components of forming this sort of connection: Calibration and Escalation.

By “Calibration,” I mean figuring out where things are…

And by “Escalation,” I mean moving things forward.

Here’s an Example:

So if you’re driving a car, Calibration would be like using your GPS to find your location, and Escalation would be pushing down on that pedal to move toward your destination.

As I’ve mentioned before, moving yourself up this Flirting → Building Desire → Sex ladder is very touch-and-go and requires a gentle balance.

As gently as I am recommending you move up this ladder, I recommend that you are equally glacial as you arrive at the “top.”

How to Climb the Ladder of Attraction Without Missing a Step and Falling on Your Face

Moving back to the car metaphor, you’re welcome to push down on the gas pedal during the “Escalation” phase, but you need to put yourself in cruise control so you don’t accelerate too fast.

So when you’re at the point when you have that tingly feeling and are ready to move forward, here’s what you need to do:

Think of what you want.

Don’t be shy — imagine what the likely outcome of your interactions with this woman will be.

Imagine that you’re kissing her…

And when you dim the lights, you’ll be cuddling or caressing her…

Imagine your hands in her hair…

The texture of her skin…

The key is to imagine it.

You want everything you actually do — moving closer to her, innocently whispering to her, putting her hand in yours — to be imbued with your naughtier thoughts.

Yes, you read that right.

As silly as it sounds, it’s going to be impossible to hide your growing excitement when you get that magical feeling, and you want her to know you feel it.

“Then why don’t you just say it?”

Here’s the Thing:

You want her to “hear” you say it without actually saying it yourself.

You want her to think, “He wants me so much!”

Or…

“He is completely in love with me!”…

But the key is that she won’t know it for sure, because you didn’t actually say it.

The most important thing is that she doesn’t hear you say these things, but that she notices you expressing them.

The longer she goes without hearing you say it…

The more intense her hunger will be for you.

The closer she is to knowing that you want her without you actually telling her, the more she will want you to cross that line.

That’s Not All…

Now, don’t get me wrong. There will be times when you can just be blunt.

You can just tell her what you want, or just go and touch and grab…sometimes.

Sometimes, however, that will be the worst thing you can do.

That’s why I’m showing you how to climb this ladder of desire in a way that will get you to the top — every time.

How to Get Out of the “Scary Forest” of Doubt and Embarrassment…

Think about it like walking into an unknown forest with no phone and no GPS — just a knife to cut through the shrubs.

You might see a path that’s already been cleared and that you know will get you to your destination…

That’s the path I’ve been showing you. The safe route. The glacial climb.

So why should you choose that path instead of forging your own way?

You can always cut your own path through the forest once you have a little more information about that particular forest — or in this case, that particular woman.

However, as a man, taking what you want can be offensive, uncomfortable, illegal, dangerous, and inconvenient.

Even in the moments when taking what you want is exactly what’s called for, you will not lose any points for choosing the “safe” path I’m advocating.

In fact, you will almost certainly still get what you want — just as long as you keep moving up that ladder.

Ask Yourself This One Question

The One Question You Need to Ask Before Making the First Move

I’ve discovered that it’s hard to tell what women want, and many women want different things.

Some women want the kind of love that’s gentle, giving, caring, and selfless…

Other women — and sometimes even the same woman at different times — want a man to desperately, hungrily take what he wants.

These women are not concerned with being “ready” — they’re only driven by what you want.

Never forget this most important tightrope we walk: Most woman want to be both carefully turned on and “taken” by a man.

In fact, they want to surrender to a man that arouses that desire in them. They want to want to be taken, and they want that man to want them that badly.

They do not, however, want to be “in charge” of you.

Of course, women come in all sorts of flavors, but generally speaking, they don’t want the position of responsibility for what is happening.

And they don’t want to give what they have to a man who’s desperate for it.

What they want is it give it up to a man who doesn’t have to have it, but he wants it…

And yet, he can do without it.

That’s why it’s always best to ask yourself, “Do I have this magical feeling?”

If you do, then show her how you feel. Chances are you won’t be disappointed.

The “Secret Shortcut” to the Top of the Ladder…

Over the course of the past three weeks, I’ve shown you how to approach the ladder of attraction, successfully climb it, and reach the top every time.

I’ve also given you a lot of advice about how to go about touching a woman, but there’s something I haven’t shared with you…

I’ve described a way for you to climb that ladder, rung by rung, and make it to the top…

But there’s a secret shortcut you can take to get there.

The truth is that women love to be touched — and just like there’s a “magic” feeling you have to let you know it’s time to make the first move on her, there’s also a “magic” way you can touch her to take her completely over the edge.

In fact, there are powerful, proven ways that women love to be touched that will make any woman, and I mean any woman, turn to jelly in no time.

These methods are so powerful, that women will gladly fork over hundreds of dollars to trained professionals to touch them in just the right spots week-after-week, under the guise of “getting a massage”…

…but now you can learn why and how women love to be touched in these places without much effort, studying, or trial and error at all on your part.

So here’s what to do: Just click here to learn the “magic” touch that will drive her wild with desire and have her craving you more than you ever imagined.

Honestly, this method is a little controversial, so it probably won’t be around for long…

Click here now to learn where and how women love to be touched that will allow you to access her deepest, darkest desires with almost no effort.

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