So, in order to help your woman orgasm, you’ve got to start by helping her feel relaxed.
Make her feel safe and secure…
This can allow her to shut off the parts of her brain associated with stress and anxiety.
In turn, that will lead to a higher likelihood that she can get and maintain arousal and achieve orgasm.
So start with talking to her, touching her gently… then you’ve set the emotional scene.
To set the physical scene, make sure you’ve got a relaxing space… candles are lit, there are soft pillows nearby… (The classics are classic for a reason…)
Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby
It’s not exactly top secret that women love talking…
They are more speech-driven than guys — we tend to be more visual and literal.
Way before Fifty Shades, women have been interested in narratives about sexual fantasy, while men tend to prefer graphic images.
That’s because, for women, talking about sex leads to more comfort with sex.
So, going back to the earlier point about helping her feel relaxed… talking about sex can make women feel more at ease — again, increasing the probability that she can have a toe-curling orgasm…
These are located behind her ears and on her neck and nipples and are proven to increase arousal and sexual desire.
Foreplay Continued – Going Downtown
When it comes to giving oral, here are three personal favorites that will get her to cry out in pleasure something like “Oh my god” or “Holy sh*t.”
First:
Before your tongue ever touches her vagina, kiss all around it.
Kiss the insides of her thighs a couple of inches from where her legs meet her torso.
This will drive her crazy with anticipation….
Then:
Once you do give her your tongue, focus on the clitoris.
In fact, I find that sucking her clit into your mouth, holding it between your lips, and flicking it up and down with your tongue can really make her eyes roll back.
Finally:
Especially if this is a fling or a girl you’ve never gone down on before.
She’ll be amazed how hard you are. And that feeling of extra “fullness” creates heightened arousal, and gets her moaning all the way to a huge orgasm… faster than she thought possible!
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