And now you’re wondering–when & how should I kiss her on the first date?
How do you set the mood?
This is probably one of the things that guys ask me the most.
Personally, I’m not a big fan of “setting the mood.” I think that when you’re sitting there, trying to purposely set an ambiance, you run the risk of coming off a little too “try-hard.”
Instead, I like to let the mood set itself.
How?
I’ll go on a date in an environment that already has the mood set.
Whether it be a really intimate coffee shop that’s really dimly lit & has some comfy couches…
Whether it’s a wine bar that has seats where you could sit next to her and not across the table from her…
Whether it’s a cool, trendy bar that has a little place that you two can go and be by yourselves…
I let the mood happen on its own. That’s the first step.
Next, you have to figure out when and how to kiss her.
When Is the “Perfect Moment” to Kiss Her?
A lot of guys want to know when to kiss a girl.
And the truth is, there is no “perfect moment” when you should do it.
There’s no particular tell-all sign that she’ll give you.
So what I do, and what I coach guys to do, is to trust your intuition.
What I mean by that is this:
When you’re out on the date, there will be a moment where you say to yourself, “I should kiss her.”
Now, I won’t go into specific detail about my technique–because honestly, it’s more about the chemistry you have with her than what you’re doing–but what I will say is that when I do go for it, I make a point to be very soft and sensual.
It’s not about shoving your tongue down her throat or being super rough.
Instead, I’ll recognize the moment when she wants to be kissed on a date. And I’ll allow it to be very sexual and sensual–almost deliberately slow.
This helps to turn her on and keep her focused on me… and it also leads to sex on the first date quite often.
And if you do end up taking her back to your place–you may be wondering:
“What can I do to make sure things end up in the bedroom, and that I satisfy her in bed?”
So that’s what I’m going to show you now:
You Kissed Her & She’s Into It…What’s Next?
Having a passionate kiss on a first date is usually a great sign.
But do you know what’s an even better sign?
When she texts you the next day asking if she forgot her panties at your place.
Of course, sex on the first date isn’t always going to happen.
Some women may even go back home with you, and still won’t sleep with you.
But this doesn’t mean getting some action on a first date is impossible.
As a matter of fact, when you understand how to get a woman’s engine running… and I don’t just mean being “good” at sex… I’m talking subtle foreplay techniques that turn her on FAST… then you’ll get sex on the first date a LOT more often.
(That’s because most women won’t just jump into bed with you willy-nilly. Especially on first dates–they need to feel super turned on first.)
But what kind of foreplay is best for that?
Well… we hired a hot single woman to show you… and she also happens to be a host of Playboy Radio (hell yeah).
Her name is Jessica J., and she made this video to show you the kind of foreplay that women secretly crave… and that most guys NEVER think to do:
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