How To Have Sex In Public & Get Away With It Every Single Time…
Hey, what’s up?
This is Ask Ruwando, and today we have a question from Steve.
Steve says:
My new girl is pretty adventurous. She’s been hinting at having sex in public places, but I’m a little bit scared. Do you have some public places we can have sex where we won’t get caught, but will still be taboo enough that she’s satisfied?”
Alright, great question Steve.
First I’m going to tackle your fear of having sex in public… then I’ll show you some of the best places for public sex that are also a bit on the “safe” side.
So let’s get started!
Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…
Thanks for the question, Steve.
I’ve got to poke at your question and how you’re asking a little bit though.
Because if you’re coming at this from the frame like, “How can I satisfy her even though it’s something I don’t want to do?”… it’s not good.
In the short term, I could give you something that works, but in the long run, if you’re not enjoying it yourself, you’re probably going to get resentful.
You’re going to end up picking fights with her. Things are not going to work well.
If you’re doing something sexually while resentful, there’s also a good chance you end up not getting aroused.
I usually say this to women that I’m counseling that if you’re doing something sexual and it doesn’t feel good to you, you probably are resentful and it’s blocking your feelings.
That’s another thing.
In this case, you’re the one who’s saying, “I’m a little scared, I’m a little hesitant. My girlfriend is a little more adventurous than me.”
You need to grow to meet her because if you’re doing things just for her, it’s not going to feel good for you. And it’s not going to be enjoyable to her either.
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Now, women are attracted to sex in public because there’s a risk of getting caught.
So, if you find a place where you absolutely can’t get caught, it’s maybe not going to have the same flair.
That said, there are a couple things you can do and a couple locations that can give you something close to that taboo feeling that might still be within your comfort zone.
So, I’m going to go into locations in a second…
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But the first thing I would offer you is that there are a bunch of activities you can do that are not penis and vagina sex, that will give you that same feeling of “we’re almost going to get caught.”
This comes down to one of the most important principles in sex, which is sex occurs in the mind.
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So, if you’re worried about the real consequences of having sex in public, let’s start with playing with the concept in regular sex.
You could be in the safety of your own home, having regular vanilla sex the way you do–and start playing with imagery.
It’s kind of like role play but bringing in the idea of having sex in a public space.
This could kind of be like verbal foreplay because this could even happen even before sex.
In the way you sext her when you text her, you can describe things. You can describe doing it in a public space.
That can give her the same feeling even if you yourself are not ready to physically have sex with her in public.
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The next level is to do sexual things in public that aren’t as explicit as sex.
So, the most simple thing is to stimulate her vulva, her clitoris, especially, without even going into her pants.
This is something that could be done anywhere. It could be done in the movie theater.
At dinner…
A show…
On public transportation…
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It could be done while one of you is driving, be careful though.
These are things you can play with because it’s pretty easy to not get caught stimulating her clitoris from outside of her pants or through her skirt or something in a way that’s subtle, right?
If I’m sitting next to someone at dinner and, you know … you’ve seen this in movies before.
That’ll give her the feeling of being stimulated in a situation where she could get caught… but it’s very unlikely that you will.
Then there are other things you could progress to from there.
The next level would be to go under her clothes, lifting up her skirt.
I mean, just bumping and grinding in a situation where someone could see but maybe view is obstructed.
Maybe you’re under a blanket, maybe you’re on a picnic and people think you’re just snuggling, but really, something’s going on.
That can give that same feeling without having to actually be naked in the woods or in a public park having sex on a cop car or something. I don’t what your extreme is but you get the idea.
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The final thing that you can try is oral in a car.
I mean, I’m gonna go into locations in a second but cars are a pretty simple place where, at any point, you could get caught but it’s pretty safe.
Unless you’re like in a place with children, no one’s gonna interrupt you.
It’s very unlikely that law enforcement’s gonna bother you for hanky panky in a car or road head or something like that.
And I will say, I’ve done this a lot, it’s kind of my intro to this kind of stuff, if I’m driving with a girlfriend and she’s aroused and she’s flirty and that’s the vibe we got going on…
… there’s nothing stopping you from stimulating your girlfriend in a place where no one could possibly find out, but she knows. It’s gonna be hot.
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I’m just gonna throw out a few more possible locations.
If you’re in school, school libraries often have break-out rooms with a tiny window.
I mean, you could block up the window. These are just practical things you could play with.
If you have keys to your office late at night, there’s that.
You can create this feeling of danger without putting yourself in actual danger.
Just remember that what’s fun about sex in public is the possibility of getting caught.
And that’s why your timing is absolutely crucial.
You’re going to want to give the woman you’re with an orgasm as fast as you possibly can… so here’s my favorite way to do that:
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Like I said, the main reason women are so attracted to public sex is the possibility of getting caught…
… which is why I DON’T recommend you have full-on, p-in-v sex in a public place.
Because if there’s a chance you might get caught… then you don’t want it to be when you’re balls-deep in a woman with your pants around your ankles.
(Trust me, this has happened to me before and it SUCKS… the cops even got involved)
So you’ve gotta be sneaky about it.
And in my experience, by far the fastest and most subtle way to get a woman off in public… is to use your fingers.
There’s a specific one-handed move I like to use, that gets most girls off in < 10 minutes…
… and because you only need 5 fingers to do it… you can easily get away with using it in a crowded movie theater…
Or under the table at an upscale restaurant…
… or even under a blanket in the park, or at a baseball game…
… and as long as there’s some background noise around you (this move is known to make women moan A LOT)…
… you’ll get away with it, and she’ll be eager to try it again whenever you want:
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