How to Get the Woman You Want Every Time–Do You Have What It Takes?
Have you ever gone “HAM” at the gym?
You know — worked out so hard that you feel like you can’t move another muscle?
Remember how you felt that day, after you finished your workout? It was probably something along the lines of, “Yeah, I can do this! My muscles feel stronger, I feel great, and I’m really changing.”
The next day — day 2 — you were probably sore. You might have been motivated to keep going, but maybe you only did a “light” workout (if you worked out at all).
And on day 3, you probably felt a little discouraged. “How am I in this much PAIN?! I need to rest…”
Sound familiar?
Strangely enough, rather than feeling better because you worked out, you feel worse instead.
Where the hell am I going with this?
I’ll show you:
The Strange Connection Between Attracting Women and Working Out…
There’s a reason why your body punishes you like this — and it has everything to do with motivation.
When you exercise your muscles on a daily basis, they become used to the ways you push and pull them.
However, if you push and pull them to the max for ONE day… and yet you fail to continue exercising… you won’t get any of the benefits.
And in fact, you’ll end up feeling worse.
This is a routine that clearly doesn’t work — and just like it’s not a successful workout strategy, it’s not a successful attraction strategy, either.
The #1 Difference Between Men who Get the Girl and Those Who Don’t
If you’ve taken the plunge and signed up for a coaching session with me, then you’re already armed with loads of useful attraction tips.
Or perhaps you’ve been reading my articles here for a while and decided to take matters into your own hands.
You went out, and you made an effort — this is good!
Maybe a woman gave you her number without you asking…
Or a guy approached you to say “Hey man, I like your style… that girl was really into you.”
At this point, you’re feeling exactly like you would after a really hard workout on day one:
“Well! That was a challenge, but I feel great about it! I can’t wait ’til tomorrow, I’ll probably have sex by next week, and I’ll have a girlfriend in 2 months or less!”
You feel awesome, and you’re ready to go. You have a plan. You’re going to keep the momentum going strong and ride this wave.
So what’s the problem with all that?
That’s Not All…
On the first day you go out and try your hand at meeting women, you likely have low expectations — you’re just happy you went out at all.
You’re impressed with your follow-through and are proud of yourself for taking action. *high-five*
But on day two, things seem a little different.
You might say “Hi” to an attractive woman… but instead of being happy you said hello, you notice that she wasn’t very responsive.
Instead of feeling good about what you do, you begin to break yourself down:
- My energy is too low…
- I’m not feeling myself today…
- Why did it seem so much easier yesterday…
And so on.
Just like working out, that second day is always going to be harder.
And that’s the #1 difference between men who always get the girl, and men who don’t: the guys who always get the girl are the guys who can push through the pain.
How to “Push Through the Pain” and Get Exactly What YOU Want
What I’m trying to say with this comparison — that working out is like attracting women — is that the solution to both problems is exactly the same.
If you’ve had any success at the gym, then you know that the pain and soreness you feel is a sign that you are on the right track… not a warning sign that you’ve “overdone it.”
Rather than skipping a day (or a week, or a month), you make the choice to get back in there and do more.
Exercising your social muscle with women is exactly the same.
While it might feel harder to keep doing it, day after day, if you keep at it, then you’ll see results. I promise.
Here’s something that helps my students who struggle to “push through the pain” — after every time you go out to meet women, ask yourself these 3 questions:
- What went right?…
- How would I like it to go?…
- How am I going to change it?…
Keep asking yourself these questions, and you’ll find that attracting women will eventually feel natural to you.
Don’t believe me? Just check this out:
The Secret to Becoming a “Natural” With Women…
There’s another, easier way to get hotter women into you faster… a shortcut of sorts…
I call it the “Natural’s Secret”… not because it’s something a guy is born with… but because it’s something pretty simple you can use at any time…
And once you know it, you’ll start to notice… a lot of women seem more “into you.” You’ll see interested women everywhere you go… in the grocery store… at the bank… hell, even at the damn doctor’s office…
You’ll be able to sit back… relax… and let these women chase YOU….
And it’s all thanks to the “Natural’s Secret.” So check it out –you’re gonna love it:
