3 Steps to Blow Past Rejection & Spot the Women Who Want YOU

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How To Get Over Rejection & Get Hotter Girls Into Bed–Here’s How to Easily Move On to Bigger & Better Things…

Click here to discover 3 little-known signs a woman is secretly interested in you (that most men miss)…

Rejection is something we’ve all faced before… but that doesn’t make it any less painful when it happens.

For some guys, it feels like a punch to the stomach. For others, it’s more of an “empty” feeling.

And for a few select guys, rejection feels so physically painful that it’s hard to handle at all…

But why does it hurt so bad???

And beyond that, is there an easier way to get over rejection (no matter how painful it feels)?

Thanks to a few new studies, we might finally have the answer.

According to several recent studies based on evolutionary psychology, there are a few key reasons rejection feels so painful.

The first reason rejection feels so bad is because it physically hurts. Literally.

In fact, according to a recent MRI study, the part of your brain that lights up when a man gets rejected is exactly the same part of the brain that lights up when he experiences physical pain.

So if you’ve ever felt like you’ve been punched, or stabbed, when you get rejected, it’s your body’s way of telling you that it actually hurts.

Another really big reason rejection hurts so much is because, way back in “caveman days,” rejection was basically the same as a death sentence.

Let’s say a caveman gets rejected by his main social circle — he’s left to fend for himself.

And in a world where the only defenses you have against wild animals are other humans and tools made of stone…

Surviving on your own was nearly impossible.

The final reason rejection hurts is a little more abstract, but no less important.

After experiencing rejection, it’s easy to get stuck in your own head. And once that happens, it’s even easier to exaggerate the experience in your own mind.

Humans are inherently selfish creatures — so when we experience something painful and embarrassing, we tend to imagine that everyone noticed or was watching.

Truthfully, this is almost never the case. Even if a man experiences rejection in a public place, usually no more than one or two people are paying attention.

And if they do see it go down, what they usually feel is empathy, not amusement or a desire to make fun.

That’s all well and good — but knowing why rejection hurts doesn’t make handling it any easier.

So with that in mind, here are 3 quick and easy ways to handle rejection the easy way (plus an even easier way to avoid it):

1) Don’t Criticize Yourself Too Much

One of the first things most guys do after getting rejected is to criticize themselves:

  • “She didn’t like the way I looked…”
  • “I said something wrong…”
  • “I’m just not good enough for her…”

And so on.

I won’t lie — sometimes, these hypercritical sentiments can be correct… but 99% of the time, they’re not.

Instead of blaming yourself, and internalizing the reason why this woman told you “No,” it’s actually better to look at rejection in a “big picture” kind of way.

Maybe she isn’t looking for anything right now, for example. She didn’t reject you because of you — it’s because of her own personal reasons.

Or perhaps she has a boyfriend but didn’t want to tell you (some women are weird like that). She tried to let you down easy in her own way.

(Note: Women can act really funny sometimes, especially when they secretly like you but don’t want to admit it. Click here to see 3 secret signs a woman is interested in you.)

Another really big reason women reject men is because they don’t want to come off as too forward.

She might really want to keep spending time with you, but if she’s with her girlfriends or busy doing something else, she might reject you “just because.”

At the end of the day, the most important thing you can do is to realize that not every woman who rejects a man is doing it because she’s disinterested in that man.

Which brings me to the next piece of advice to help you handle rejection the easy way…

2) Write Down Your Best Qualities

While my last point was mostly about avoiding a behavior, this cool little trick requires a little more action.

If you get rejected, then go home and make a list of 5 of your best qualities.

Can you cook like Gordon Ramsay…?

Or maybe you know auto mechanics better than the back of your hand…?

Are you a total pro at World of Warcraft…?

Write it down!

Why?

When you see your best qualities written down, it’s a nice reminder that being rejected is not a dig at you as a man.

It also gives you some positive reinforcement that yes, you are deserving of the woman you really want.

You could even ask a friend or two to share their favorite quality about you — you might find yourself surprised by their answers. 🙂

3) Get Out There & Socialize

The last piece of advice these studies offered isn’t easy for a lot of men… but if you want to truly get over rejection in a pain-free way, then it’s absolutely essential.

In order to move on in the fastest way possible, it’s important to put yourself out there and meet new women.

Easier said than done, I know… but it’s certainly not impossible with the right set of tools at your fingertips.

One of the best ways to ease back into the social dating scene is to check out bars near your place at happy hour.

A lot of single women attend happy hours to meet new & interesting men — plus, if you attend a happy hour during the week, the bar won’t be as crowded as it normally would be on the weekends.

From there, all you have to do is spot the women who are interested in you, and you can confidently approach them knowing that you won’t be rejected.

How exactly do you do that?

It’s easy:

3 Steps to Blow Past Rejection & Spot the Women Who Want YOU

Instantly Spot the Women Who Want You–Look for These 3 Little-Known Signs…

Like most women, I get nervous or timid around a guy I’m interested in… because I’m afraid of being too forward or getting called “easy”…

So when I really like a guy… and am ready to go home with him… I’ll show him these 3 subtle signs instead:

Sign #1: Her feet are pointed at the “Arousal Angle.” A woman’s feet will tell you a lot about how she feels toward you… Here’s the exact angle to look for.

Sign #2: She touches you here. This one’s a dead giveaway — if she touches you in this “non-sexual” spot, it’s her discreet way of saying she wants to kiss you.

Sign #3: She gives you her “Sex Eyes.” When she wants you to take her home, throw her down on your bed and ravage her… Her eyes will look like this.

I’ve put it all together for you right here–check it out, you’ll love it :-):

Discover the 3 Little-Known Signs that Reveal the Women Who Secretly Want You…

P.S. Here’s a “bonus” sign that super hot women sometimes give off… have you spotted it before?

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