How to Get Her Off and Get in Control of Any Situation…
It’s been shown to relieve stress…
Make your partner less likely to cheat…
Cure insomnia…
And even make you feel less pain.
What’s this miracle cure I’m talking about?
An orgasm, of course!
The female orgasm is, for many men, an obsession.
And understandably so: You begin your life as an orgasm, so it’s only natural that you’d subsequently spend your life pursuing them.
If you’ve successfully made a woman climax and know for certain that it happened, then you know how powerful it can make you feel.
But what if I told you your ability to take her over the edge might be completely out of your control?
That’s what a new study published in Clinical Anatomy is saying.
According to the study, it’s not the size of your junk that determines whether or not you’ll give her an orgasm.
In fact, it’s the positioning of her own anatomy!
Let’s take a deeper look into what’s really going on when you have an orgasm.
The Male Orgasm Vs. The Female Orgasm
Think about the last time you wanted to achieve an orgasm with a woman but couldn’t.
I know, I know — nobody wants to think about that. But go there, just for a second.
What happened? Were you:
- Psyching yourself out…
- Unable to focus…
- Depressed…
- Stressed…
- Distracted…
Notice that all of these points have to do with what you were thinking or feeling at the time.
Well, according to the study, your own body can actually prevent you from having an orgasm!
Specifically, there are certain signals sent between your brain, spinal cord, and penis that must be properly functioning for you to have an orgasm.
Think about it like a stoplight.
When all of the lights are working, traffic can move smoothly and people can always get to where they’re going.
If just one light is out, though, it often causes a backup, and in fact it might prevent drivers from reaching their destination.
In just a second, I’m going to show you what you can do to bring her over the edge…but what if you can’t even get there on your own?
Renowned sex expert Ruwando is here to help. He’s already given you tips on how to last longer (or shorter) in bed and how to be more sexually dominant, but he’s got some great advice for how you can relax when you’re with a woman as well:
The more attention you place on physical sensation, the less attention you can spend on stress-inducing thoughts. Become curious about finding pleasurable sensations between the two of you. Women can feel when you are paying attention [to them] anyway. That’s essentially what women mean when they say they want a man who is ‘present.’ They want a man who can keep his attention on the present moment, which includes her and her body.
So by focusing on the pleasurable sensations you feel, you’ll not only solve your stress problem…
But she’ll have a better experience too! Speaking of her experience…
The Secret Key to Getting Her Off…
When it comes to the female orgasm, there are a lot of complicated issues.
Here’s the one big thing you have to know about the female orgasm:
The closer a woman’s clitoris gets to her front vaginal wall, the more likely she is to climax.
I know that probably sounds like something out of a medical school textbook, so here’s a quick refresher about the female anatomy:
The clitoris is a woman’s most sensitive erogenous zone and is located above her vagina, just above her urethra. While the “head” of a woman’s clitoris (the part you can see) is only the size of a pea, the entire clitoris is actually the size of a medium zucchini!
Inside a woman, the clitoris stretches down either side of her vaginal walls — this is why the closer her clitoris is to her front vaginal wall, the more likely she will be to have an orgasm.
For some women, this is an easy thing to achieve — their clitorises are naturally close to their front vaginal walls.
For other women, however, this is a huge issue and can even prevent them from experiencing pleasure.
During sex, a woman’s clitoris becomes larger and “migrates” toward the front vaginal wall — this happens to all women and is nature’s way of trying to maximize the possibility of an orgasm.
But if your partner’s clitoris is too far from her vaginal walls, then you’ll have a much harder time taking her over the edge.
While you can’t determine if a woman will have this “condition” just by looking at her, there are some things you can do to maximize your chances of making her climax…
3 Techniques to Make Her Climax Every Single Time…
Knowing that the woman you’re with might be hindered by her own anatomy doesn’t give you a whole lot of help when you’re actually in bed with her.
Here are three things you can do to use her anatomy to your advantage (and look like a total rockstar in bed):
1) Use the Right Positions.
As part of the study, researchers examined couples having sex in a MRI machine.
What they found was that females received the most pleasure when the front of their vaginal walls were the most stimulated.
This means you want to use positions that stimulate that specific area.
Positions like missionary and cowgirl — while not “experimental” and a little on the “vanilla” side — are actually perfect for stimulating a woman’s front vaginal wall!
If you go with missionary, remember that you’re on top of her, but you shouldn’t lay directly on top of her. Support your weight with your arms, and use your legs to give yourself momentum.
If you’d rather go with cowgirl or girl on top, then start by laying down while she sits on your groin facing you. Rock her back and forth, but also let her direct the pace — this will allow her to maximize her own pleasure and make things easier for you.
The key is to stick with the classics, and you’ll be more likely to give her an orgasm.
If you’re dead set on experimenting with new positions, try getting creative during foreplay.
But if you’re serious about taking her over the edge during sex, stick to missionary and cowgirl for maximum pleasure.
2) Follow the 30-45 Degree Rule.
Similarly to the above point, there’s a specific angle you can enter a woman that will maximize her pleasure — this “sweet spot” is between 30 and 45 degrees.
To give you an idea of what that means, hold up both of your hands so your palms are touching and your fingers are pointing upward. If your hands were a clock, this puts them at the 12:00 position.
Now, move your right hand so it’s at about 2:00 — this is the range you want. Move your right hand diagonally up and down to get an idea of how that angle should feel for you.
If you’re in missionary, for example, try to angle slightly upward. Don’t focus on being too precise — this will just ruin your mood and confuse her.
If she’s on top, angle your hips upward to create a slight tilt.
It shouldn’t feel unnatural. Remember, this is about your pleasure, too!
But if you hit that angle, stay there, and watch what happens. You won’t be disappointed.
This brings me to the next step…
3) Get a Verbal Assessment.
Here’s a secret: There’s a way to tell if a woman is going to have an orgasm that doesn’t require any knowledge of her anatomy…
Ask her!
It’s no secret that some women are more verbal than others in bed.
If she’s verbal with you, then you’re set — she will definitely let you know when she’s close.
However, if you’re with a woman on the quieter side, encourage her to let you know how she feels!
It doesn’t have to be clinical.
Instead of asking,
“Are you going to have an orgasm now?”…
“How about now?”…
“Not Yet? REALLY…..?”
Try:
“Are you close?”…
Or…
“Do you like that?”…
For example, even though you now know that the missionary and cowgirl positions are optimal for achieving her orgasm, she might not want to do those positions. By asking her these questions, you give her an “in” to let you know directly what she likes and doesn’t like.
The goal is to work together to figure out what makes both of you feel best. According to Ruwando,
Instead of finding some magical thrust that works with every woman, find the positions that feel good to the two of you. Every pair of genitals is a different shape and size, and therefore, they will have different ways of fitting together…Also, if you’re sleeping with someone repeatedly, it pays to talk about what feels good (Yes you can do it during sex, and yes you can make it sexy).
Communicating with her will not only ensure she has an orgasm, but it will make your orgasm better as well.
What This Study Is Actually Saying…
What this study found can certainly help explain why some women have orgasms more easily than others.
But, more importantly, it should make you feel less pressure if you come across a woman you just can’t seem to get off.
The truth is that society puts a ton of emphasis on being “good” in bed…
But “good” is a relative word!
What you like in bed might be different from what your coworkers and friends like in bed, which might be different from what I like in bed…
You get the point.
This study shows that the orgasm is an incredibly complex, nuanced, and largely misunderstood phenomenon.
According to study author Dr. Jason Siegel,
This gives us a more scientific and anatomical basis for why people aren’t achieving orgasm than just the societal feelings of penis size or G-spot placement.
This study is not a one-and-done cure to make her come. But it is a step forward in understanding how to do it.
Here’s What You Should Do Next
Understanding how she gets off will help you do better with all kinds of women in so many ways…
But it won’t help you at all if you still aren’t sure how to get with her in the first place!
Did you know women are up to 10 times more sensitive to touch than men?
That’s why it’s so important to know exactly how to touch a woman when you want to turn her on.
If you touch a woman in exactly the right way, you can get almost complete control over her…
And this is true of literally any woman — from the shy girl you see on your morning commute…
…to the extroverted waitress you always wish would flirt with you…
…to that incredibly hot girl at the gym who you wish you could get the courage to talk to…
The good news is, what you say to these girls doesn’t even matter, as long as you touch them in the right place at the right time.
So here’s what you need to do: Just click here now to learn why women will fall under your deep spell when you touch them in these specific ways…
