Discover How To Be More Dominant in Bed the Way She Really Wants…
I’m Darcie Dolce. I’ve been in the industry for almost exactly a year. I’m still new but I’ve already done a TON of stuff. 😉
I’m here to tell you that if you don’t know how to take control in the bedroom, you’re missing out on a lot of fun…
Not to mention a HUGE turn-on for a girl like me…
But it’s not always easy to go all-out and just dominate her in the bedroom.
Maybe you’re unsure of yourself…
Or maybe you’ve never done it before…
Maybe you don’t know what she wants or how she’ll respond to your aggression…
Well, have no fear!
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I’m going to show you my step-by-step recipe to become more dominant in the bedroom without any fear or hesitation.
Having my techniques in your wheelhouse will let you whip them out whenever you need. Whenever she wants you to take charge, you’ll be able to with ease.
You may even turn her on so much she becomes borderline addicted to you…
Here we go…
My 3 Keys to Dominating Her in the Bedroom
1) Know What You Want
There’s nothing more awkward than a guy who doesn’t know where to start or what he wants to do with me.
You’re the one dominating me — this is your party!
As the man, you need to have a plan.
Let’s say you start by kissing her neck.
As you go at it, always be reading her to see how much she’s enjoying it.
Pay attention to her body language and listen to the sounds she’s making.
If she’s into it, she won’t say anything or she’ll tell you to keep going!
So from there, you can ramp it up after a couple minutes. Maybe go from kissing her neck to getting on top of her and kissing down her chest.
Think about what you want, and move closer to that goal.
And if she’s NOT into it, don’t worry — she’ll tell you to stop.
If that’s the case, then don’t get discouraged. Just try something else.
It sounds obvious, but a lot of guys won’t take the initiative and show power.
They’ll ask me what to do. They’ll ask “if this feels good” or “if that feels good.”
Don’t do that! Ever!
So key number one: Know exactly what you want. Then take control and go for it.
2) Ask For Permission (Sometimes)
As a girl, most of the time I don’t want you to ask for permission in bed.
I want you to know what you want and then go for it.
But there are a couple situations when you should absolutely ask first:
Choking, for example.
Some girls are into it. Others aren’t.
So if you’re into choking or you want to do anything BDSM-related, you need to ask her before you just start doing it.
Yes, you DO need to be aggressive — but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t get her permission first.
Some girls don’t like being touched on the neck. In fact, in some girls it even triggers a traumatic memory. Choke her a little too hard, and you’ll turn her into a crying heap on the floor.
Not very sexy.
Make sure she’s OK with it before you take it to that level.
That brings me to the next scenario when you must always ask for permission…
Anal sex isn’t for everyone.
But if you are a guy who’s anally inclined, you’ve got to ask before you do it.
No girl likes to be surprised down there — not even porn stars who do it all the time!
So instead of trying to “accidentally” slip it in, you could say,
“Hey, how do you feel about anal sex?”
“Have you ever done anal before?”
That’s going to give you a good idea about whether to go forward or not.
If she hesitates or looks uncomfortable, slow down a notch.
If she looks excited by the idea, full steam ahead!
Speaking of which…
3) Let It Flow
As a girl, I want you to take over. I also want you to have as much fun and feel as good as I’m feeling.
Here’s an industry secret for you:
One of the easiest ways to relax before a sex scene is to just think,
“Let that s— flow and enjoy the experience.”
It really works!
And that’s because if you’re not enjoying it, it’s going to show — and the woman you’re with will figure it out like that.
So how do you just “let it flow” and really take control in the bedroom without any nervousness or anxiety?
Make her the center of attention and turn all your focus on her. If you can do that, it's like killing three birds with one stone:
First, it will take away the self-consciousness that makes you all nervous and flustered. And that’s because you’re focusing on her — not your nerves.
Secondly, it will get you out of your head and into the present moment with her.
That’s when all great sex happens.
When I’m with a guy and he’s focusing on me, I orgasm so much faster, harder, and better than when I’m with a guy who’s obviously nervous or distracted.
Finally, making her the center of attention is going to help you read her.
As I talked about before, it’s so insanely important to read her body language to figure out if she’s enjoying it or not.
Her body language is like a road map that tells you whether to keep going or to take a U-turn and try something else.
So you’ll learn exactly what she likes and what she doesn’t like…
Just by looking at the movements of her body!
Plus, by focusing on her, you’re sending the message that you care about her needs and you’re going to take care of them.
And that’s going to keep her coming back for more and more.
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As a bisexual woman… I’m sorry to say that my personal preference is women.
Actually I’ve only had *2* guys my life, believe it or not.
One guy f—ed me hard… and he was well endowed… it was “ok”. (Kinda pressed a little too hard on my cervix to be honest).
But the other guy?
… and it only took him a few minutes to pull it off.
He undressed me, laid me on my back and worked his magic while still being fully clothed…
It was nice and slow at first… but soon I felt waves of ecstasy pulsing throughout my entire body…
… from the top of my head, to the tips of my toes.
My entire body was paralyzed with pleasure, as I came over and over again… unable to control how hard my body shook and quivered with every orgasm.
And then something I’ve never experienced happened too…
At first I was embarrassed because I thought I ruined this poor guy’s sheets…
… but I couldn’t help it, it just happened… and luckily he was more than OK with it (he was actually happy about it). 😉
Here’s the kicker…it only took 3 or 4 minutes to do this to me, and he only used his fingers!!!
[Note: This post was updated by Gotham Club on September 1, 2019.]