How To Be More Confident Around Women–Do You Know the Secret Power of the Perfect Mantra?
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Many “experts” will tell you that confidence is apparent in your body language.
And yes, while that may be true sometimes… it’s not the whole story.
Because true confidence–the kind that women are naturally drawn to–starts in your head.
But how do you gain that kind of confidence if you don’t already have it?
I know it might seem impossible… but with the right tools, it doesn’t have to be.
Hi, I’m David Dupree, and every week I’ll be answering the most difficult & burning questions you have when it comes to sex and dating.
I get asked questions like this all the time, and today I’m answering this one:
“How do I become more confident?”
Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…
As a man, the two most important qualities you can have are self-acceptance and confidence.
In other words, self-acceptance = “I like me.”
And confidence = “You like me.”
Now, I don’t normally recommend the “fake it ’til you make it” strategy to develop confidence. However, one way to generate real confidence is to fake it until you feel it.
But you can’t fake this kind of confidence with words. Your dishonesty will be easily spotted.
Instead, you can “fake” confidence with body language, because body language is very difficult to read (in terms of honesty, anyway).
Stand up straight…
Lean back…
These two things will automatically demonstrate confidence.
You can also appear confident by being unaffected by what other people say to you. In other words, by tolerating others’ behavior.
The #1 Sign of Confidence in A Man…
Yup, I just said it and I’ll say it again:
The most confident thing you can do is to tolerate what other people around you say and do.
Just look at fathers with their children. They’re not worried that their child will make them feel stupid.
They can handle it when a child has stupid things to say–they simply accept it and put up with it.
And they don’t have to “give in” or lash out to fight, because they’re confident.
Tolerance is one of the most confident behaviors you can have.
But on top of that, what else can you do to increase your confidence?
One thing that’s been working really well for men in our community lately is to repeat a mantra.
So with that in mind, I’d like to share my 3 most effective confidence-boosting mantras with you.
My 3 Most Effective Confidence-Boosting Mantras
I’m going to give you a method to develop actual confidence.
There are three different versions of this “mantra.”
First, if you are a religious person, there is a chapter people quote from the Bible, and it goes something like this:
“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”
Just repeat it if you need to, and feel your confidence soar.
Second, if you are a self-motivator, then try this mantra on for size:
“I have everything I need. I can do it.”
Or something like, “Everything I need, I have inside me.”
Any version of this will generate confidence within you.
Now, keep in mind that both of these versions are better for guys who are more shy or introverted.
And this last one is best for extroverts.
Practice Makes Perfect (Remember This Key Step)…
The third sort of “mantra” for extroverts is just to talk to other people.
Just open your mouth–trust me, it develops real confidence.
It’s like how courage can be developed by the repetition of courageous acts.
And it’s exactly why people who have come from wartime or are veterans always seem to have courage.
They developed a fearlessness about it and an understanding that nothing’s going to happen.
And if you just get out there and talk to new people…
You will develop that same sense of confidence. Real, true confidence.
How To Apply Your Newfound Confidence to Real-Life Scenarios…
When you go out, just open your mouth.
For example, if you’re on your way to a certain place, then talk to people on the way there.
Just ask them for directions to the place:
“Do you know where that place is?” For example.
Ask 3 different people this question, and you’ll be in a talkative mood by the time you arrive at the venue.
Also, make sure not to try to have a conversation.
This is not an opportunity to pick up women–it’s just to get you in the right confident mindset for when you actually show up to where you are going.
All you’re trying to do is to gather the courage to open your mouth… so when you walk in, you’re both talkative and confident.
Because ultimately, confidence is one of the most attractive qualities you can have as a man.
And if you still don’t believe me…
Then I highly recommend you check this out:
Can Confidence Get You Out of the “Friend Zone”?
A lot of guys in our community have fallen into the same trap at one point or another:
They find a girl they like… spend a lot of time with her… and things seem to be going well…
…but because they lack this kind of sexual confidence, they never make the first move… and fall into the dreaded “friend zone.”
Obviously, this is NOT an ideal situation to be in… however, as I’ve seen time and time again… getting out of the “friend zone” is not impossible.
I’ve personally seen guys get out of the “friend zone” a few different ways… some guys focus on showing her more “masculine” qualities (works about 40% of the time)… other guys use the power of touch to amp up her sexual attraction (can be risky if you don’t know how she’ll respond)…
…but by far the easiest & most effective way I’ve seen it done… is to use this 10-step “reprogramming” technique, developed by our Community Expert, Magic.
He spent years studying how girls separate “guys I’m friends with”…. from “guys I’ll have sex with”… and discovered the ONE thing that causes a woman to put you in the “sex” category:
Which is where his 10-step “reprogramming” technique comes in–it’s designed to give you exactly the sexual confidence she needs to see you as a guy she’ll finally sleep with:
Discover Magic’s 10-Step Reprogramming Technique & Get Out of the Friend Zone For Good…
