How To Be Attractive to Women, Whether You Want a One Night Stand or Something More–Discover The Surprising Science Behind Her Sexual Choices…
So far in this series, we've taken a look at how the human brain operates, as well as how males approach sexual situation compared to females.
If you've been keeping up, then you know that men & women today are now more alike than ever before. Contemporary culture has allowed for more sexual openness, and as a result, both men and women can pursue sex as they wish.
One part of our biology that cannot be shaken, however, is the female choice and how it applies to sexual selection. Particularly, how it applies to when women pursue one night stands versus more long-term relationships.
So what makes a woman say “Yes” to a one night stand…?
And what makes her think, “He could be boyfriend material”…?
Today, I've got all the answers. Let's dive in:
What Makes You Attractive To Women? Science Has The Answer…
As you probably already know, humans are the most complex animal on the planet. We're walking and talking; however, there's still that primal instinct kicking around our brains when it comes to selecting a mate.
For females, this primal instinct comes in the form of basic needs, and whether or not her mate can fulfill her needs.
These needs include things like safety…
And so on.
And of course, we can't ignore the fact that, for the most part, physical attraction still plays a huge role in whether or not a woman will deem a man as “mate material.”
It Doesn’t End There…
From the male perspective, on the other hand, we don't care as much about seeking safety and security.
It's very rare, for example, that a man will look at a woman and become attracted to the idea that she can defend him in a physical fight.
So because women have more selective criteria when it comes to picking a mate, it's usually the man who has to “fit” her criteria as best he can.
In a 2005 study of almost 5,000 men and women, every point I've just mentioned was confirmed. Men chose to seek a loving, physically attractive woman for a mate…
While women, on the other hand, tended to prefer men who had resources — things that could build a foundation of security.
Ultimately, it’s the woman who has basic, primal needs that need to be taken care of and it’s the men who seek to fit that image.
But what does that mean in the context of one night stands?
Let's find out.
One Night Stands Vs. Long-Term Relationships: What Women Really Look For…
Since I'm writing this and you're reading it, you can be sure that female selection has served you well so far. You're here because your mother saw something of merit in your father and decided to have a child with him.
However, time didn't stop when our brains stopped developing–we're always evolving, especially in the way we think about sex and relationships.
More modern times, for example, have allowed for a departure from the traditional idea of “what women want.” Now, women seek more than the basic needs–they seek sexual pleasure as well.
A woman now wants a man who shares her same interests…
Has career potential…
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And who can strengthen her weaknesses.
However, before I reveal the 3 surprising reasons why a woman will say “yes” to a one night stand, there is one more driving force behind her mate selection that I have to address:
Her biological clock.
How Her Biological Clock Affects Who She Goes Home With…
If you aren't familiar with a woman's biological clock, it's slang for a woman's window of fertility.
While men can continue to produce sperm all the way until the day they die…
A woman loses her ability to produce eggs by the time she hits a certain age.
As a result, she tends to feel more pressure to “settle down” with a mate, so she can reproduce before her biological clock says her time is up.
Professor Bill Leger of The Royal Hospital for Women says that the best time for a woman to start a family is when she's between the ages of 20 & 35.
So, this means that if you're out at night, and you meet a woman who you discover is in her mid-30's… then chances are she's got settling down on her mind.
Of course, it's often more complicated than this. More and more women are opting not to have children, which puts her biological clock completely out of the picture.
But just be aware that if you want a one night stand… it may be best to pursue younger women in their 20's, or older women in their 40's.
So with that in mind, here are the 3 surprising reasons she'll say “yes” to a one night stand with you.
3 Surprising Reasons Women Say “Yes” to One Night Stands…
According to a poll published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, women enter short-term relationships (AKA one night stands) with men who have the following three qualities:
2) Physical attractiveness…
3) Social status.
So if you're out at night, consider showcasing these qualities to attract women who want one night stands.
And if you want something more long-term, show her that you can listen and provide security. This is what women today value in long-term relationships.
But what if you aren't sure how to showcase your most attractive physical quality… or you don't have a ton of social status to show off?
Well, I've got a trick up my sleeve for that too:
The Fastest Way to Get Her to Say “Yes” to Same Night Sex?
Most guys in our community who have successfully had one night stands, agree that it can sometimes be a struggle to pull off… and there’s ONE big reason why:
Modern society seems to suppress a woman’s primal sexual impulses (like her impulse to say “yes” to a one night stand with you).
As a result, a lotta times, even if a woman is really turned on & into you, she probably WON’T act on her natural urges. A girl’s psychology is just too different… based too much on emotions.
The mainstream response to this? Take it slow. Make her feel happy, pleasant warm emotions by treating her nice & doing her favors.
(Guys who have tried this approach know full well that it almost never works… and if it does, it takes f’in forever to get her in bed.)
We’ve found that there’s a much faster, easier, and more effective way to get a woman in a sexual mood, and ready to say “yes” to a one night stand, or more. (And an extra bonus is that she’ll feel totally comfortable with this).
It’s called, the “Physical Fast Track.”
The reason we favor this method is because it cuts out all the typical B.S. of the mainstream “wine & dine” nonsense.
Over the years, we’ve boiled the Physical Fast Track down to 3 essential steps so that it’s easy to understand. You’re welcome to check out all 3 right here:
[Note: This post was updated by Gotham Club on July 20, 2019.]