How to Approach Women Without Fear
I’m sure you see and hear it everywhere you go:
Social media memes…
Sunday brunches…
From your coworkers…
Women everywhere are talking about how “creepy” guys are!
Basically, we ladies have come to use “creepy” as a blanket term for “unwarranted and unwanted male attention.”
Whether you’re coming up to us and saying “Hi” at a bar…
Or commenting with the winky emoji on one of our selfies…
Whatever it is and however innocent the intent — we might not be into it.
I’m sure this gets confusing for any man who knows he has to go after the woman he wants.
Because at the end of the day, we women want you to want us.
It’s true!
So what’s a man to do then, right?
Well, I’ve got some news for you:
There are precisely five times when women actually want you to get “creepy” with them…
And by “creepy,” I mean flirty and sexual.
Truthfully, we DO want you to get flirty and sexual with us!
So here are the times when being “creepy” is completely OK.
1) If You Already Have a Great Connection
We know why you’re talking to us.
We’re women, you’re a man.
We’re not sitting there thinking, “Oh, he just wants to be friends…”
So why would you pretend you are?
If you’re having a solid enough conversation…
If you’re making her laugh…
Move the f— forward!
Not only are we expecting and waiting for you to do this, but we want you to.
This is the natural next step when it comes to getting women you want.
If you’re not showing her you’re interested in her at this point, she’ll just assume you’re not interested at all and move on.
So go ahead and make the move already!
2) If She’s Looking Way Too Smokin’ Hot for You to Ignore
When a woman steps out of her apartment to go meet a man, this is what’s going through her mind:
“Right now I’m wearing about $500 worth of effort. I’ve got a tight sundress to accentuate my best assets, stilettos to make me taller than my tiny frame suggests, a sheer beige sweater that keeps me warm, and selfie-ready makeup.”
No, women don’t go to all of this extra effort just to be gawked at and inappropriately spoken to by construction workers.
You already knew that.
But if she goes to all of that extra effort to meet up with you, trust me — she wants you to notice.
If we look good, and you think so…
We want to know.
Here’s the thing: We want to know specifically what you like.
Instead of complimenting us with, “Wow, you’re hot!” try…
“Your hair is so beautiful it’s distracting my train of thought!”
Or, “That outfit looks so amazing on you it’s almost as though it was made for your body!”
Those are the compliments that make us blush and want you even more.
So at the end of the day, if a woman dresses up just for you — the ball is in your court.
3) If She Says Something Sexual or Inappropriate
It’s no secret that ladies aren’t as “lady-like” nowadays…
So if a woman says something sexual or inappropriate to you first, you either have to get on board or acknowledge what she said.
While a sexual or inappropriate comment doesn’t necessarily mean she’s flirting with you…
…it does put the power in your hands and gives you the ability to lead the interaction from there.
Women who get sexual first tend to lead interactions with men, because women aren’t “supposed” to be the sexual aggressors.
When women become the sexual aggressors, most men become surprised, or worse — scared.
Don’t be that guy.
If you take the backseat to a woman venturing into this territory, you’ll eventually get dropped off at the next stop.
Matching responses to her sexual and “inappropriate” comments will not only get you sitting alongside her…
It’ll eventually get you the wheel to drive her wherever you want from there.
So grab your keys and let’s go.
4) If You’re Already in a Relationship
If you and I are together and you don’t “creep” on me regularly…
I will feel like shit.
It’s no secret that romance and passion can fade over time, but that doesn’t mean it has to completely die!
Again, we women want you to want us — this is especially true for women in relationships.
It can be something as simple as grabbing our butts when you pass by us or winking at us in public.
Whatever it is, if you’re in a relationship, it’s more than fine to get creepy with your woman.
Because if you don’t make her feel wanted, someone else might.
5) If the Passion Has Completely Fizzled Out
This ties together with number four.
If you’re in a long-term relationship, you might be at the point where your sex life and passion are completely MIA.
If that’s the case, then getting “creepy” is more than just a suggestion — it’s a requirement to save your relationship!
“Love” is much more than a noun.
It’s a verb that requires you to do something for the person you feel love for.
The love you have with a woman you’re in a relationship with requires you to show a different kind of love from the type you show your family and friends….
…A sexual kind of love.
Again, something as simple as a butt grab or a wink can go a long way in a passionless relationship.
Even if she returns your advances with a dirty look or a slap on the shoulder…she’s still reacting to you!
That’s hundreds of times better than nothing sexual happening at all.
Here’s What You Need to Do Now
Now, I know that no man wants to come off as a dog when it comes to getting sexual with women.
And what’s especially tricky is that if you don’t show us any sexual advances or flirt with us…
We’ll just assume you’re not interested..
And we’ll find a guy who has those feelings for us and shows it.
Women aren’t always easy to understand.
In fact, most times we send you signals, you might not even pick up on them!
That’s not because you’re stupid.
It’s because men and women are patently different.
As a woman, I recognize the strange signals we sometimes send when we like you, and I know how frustrating it can be when you don’t pick up on what we’re sending out.
You can avoid this!
This guide to the seven signs she likes you is THE end-all, be-all how-to guide for picking up signals women send you when they’re interested.
You won’t believe some of the crazy things we do when we’re into you — seriously!
Just click here to find out the seven hidden signs she’s totally into you.
