The Hottest Women Require a Deft Touch
As a man, I would argue that aside from the accumulation of wealth, nothing gives you more of a sense of accomplishment in life than having a drop-dead beautiful woman (or women) on your arm.
I'm not just talking about “average beautiful”–I mean the total stunners. The “9”s and “10”s.
The type of woman that turns heads wherever she goes.
The type of woman that inspires the admiration of friends, women and other men.
The type of woman that you’ve always dreamed of.
The type of woman that every man dreams of!
Luckily, or maybe not so luckily, since I did spend years:
Developing an attractive personality,
Painstakingly working on my knowledge of how attraction works,
Learning staggering amounts about female psychology,
Forging my true identity,
Refining my sense of fashion, and
Building my entire career from the ground up…
I’ve been fortunate to have dated some of the hottest women around!
Now that I look back on the work I had to do to achieve this level of success I don’t have a single regret and can only seriously congratulate myself.
Nowadays when I see an amazingly hot woman, I know almost certainly that I can probably get her.
I’d be lying if I said I can sleep with any woman I walked up to, but I wouldn’t be lying if I said that I have an above average or excellent chance to sleep with any woman.
How Dating an Ugly Woman Can Be Harmful to Your Mental Health
As men we tend judge ourselves against the quality of women we can sleep with and date or marry.
The hotter the woman, the higher we will think of ourselves.
With an average-looking woman or below-average woman, our personal self-worth will pale in comparison than if we were dating a perfect 10. Who wants to post pictures on Facebook of an ugly woman you're dating? Nobody!
We’ve been taught since we were little boys that the boy who has the prettiest girlfriend must have the best, most attractive qualities.
This started back in our early years in life and steadily was made true as we progressed through the higher grades of school.
The guy who had the prettiest girl in school was the most admired man by women and other men alike. We’ve learned to attach such a high value on beauty that it has become our driving force in life.
Even if you’re currently dating a hot chick, you’ll still be on the lookout for someone else who is hotter. It’s our nature and it’s who we are whether we can admit it or not. Does that make us bad as a whole? Nope!
The Evolutionary Roots of “Hotness”
This principle also works on an evolutionary scale as well. As men, we are genetically designed to spawn and have children. We must ensure that our genes live on, and the best way to ensure that our genes live on or survive our death is to have children with the healthiest women available. A healthy woman equals a healthy child.
This is where looks come into play.
The more beautiful a woman is (or perceived to be) the more likely in our subconscious minds she will bear healthy strong children. It’s similar to what Darwin said about “Survival of the Fittest.”
As you can see, this desire to have a beautiful woman is deeply ingrained in our psychology. And just as this is deeply ingrained on male brains, so is a principle that women rely on with who they chose to mate with!
From a biological perspective, women want to date the men who can provide the most benefits and safety for themselves (notice that I didn’t mention good looks)!
The hotter a woman is, the more inclined she will be to date and sleep with men who can provide the most because of the almost limitless amount of potential choices she has.
That makes sense, right? Hotter women have more choices! Hotter women have better choices!
Hotter women will chose more selectively than an average looking woman with fewer choices. Make sense?
The Secret to Attracting the Hottest Women of Your Life
So, with that being said how do we give ourselves the best chances of success with hotter women?
As John Lennon once said, “It’s all in the mind”.
It’s all in your mind and her mind.
We’re not talking about getting a hot woman to marry you or be your girlfriend. For our purposes here we’re referring to approaching and getting with an exceptionally beautiful woman.
The right mind-set is essential.
One of the most common mistakes I see men make when they see or approach a hot woman is that they automatically assume she has more value than him.
In other words, he doesn’t view her as the same value or lower value than himself but as higher value. Once a man assumes that a woman has a higher value than he does, he will start to play things safe.
He'll subconsciously think that he has more to lose, which is absolutely not true! In fact, if you want to use a world for it, it would be “illusory”–it's an illusion the guy has created in his own mind.
He will treat her differently than he would a below-average woman. He will also feel as though he has to impress her more. Big mistake!
I call this “Illusory Value Assignment”
If you assume a woman is of higher value than yourself, then in essence you are assuming also that you are not good enough for her. You are sub-communicating to her that you are lower value than she is, which is a big turn-off.
In order for you to have success with hot women, you have to assume she is of the same or lower value than yourself. There is no other way!
If you don’t think you can get her, have her, or deserve her, do you really think you can get her?
The Easiest Way to Get Better Results With the Hottest Women in the World
In order to approach a beautiful woman and successfully get her you have to change your mind-set. You don’t need to be rich, have a Ferrari, the best body or be great looking.
You just have to change the way you view yourself and her. It’s that easy!
If you could walk up to a perfect 10 but yet flirt and banter with her and be of the mind-set that she’s a 6, how do you think the interaction will go?
Hot women are always being hit on by guys who try too hard to impress them. These guys come across as needy, desperate, try hard, low value, nice-guys, low self worth, undeserving and non-sexual. This is what these women are typically used to, and they are bored to death of these types of men.
You have to differentiate yourself from the masses of men she's used to meeting and does not want. You also have to believe wholeheartedly that you can have her and deserve her.
The easiest way to sum this up is this:
In order to date 9’s and 10’s you have to become a 9 or 10 yourself! All the techniques in the world won’t help you if you don’t believe you are (and act like) a 9 or 10.
Can you occasionally sleep with a 9 or 10 out of sheer luck? Maybe…
But who wants to get “lucky?” I would much prefer consistent results to erratic ones.
My suggestion to you is to start to work on yourself a little each day.
Improve your fashion…
Work on your career…
Have some hobbies you're passionate about…
Develop a strong sense of self worth…
And work on your identity.
Also, when you have a chance to meet a “sexy as hell” woman, do not play it safe with her.
Be a little more flirty, tease her a bit harder, ask her challenging questions, be slightly more aggressive and sexual towards her.
Playing if safe will almost guarantee that you will fail, which is what you’re trying to avoid at all costs.
Playing things a little more “unsafe” will ensure that you will have a much better chance of success.
Most of all…you need to practice. The more hot women you approach, the more you will learn.
The more you learn the greater chances of success you will have.
Don’t expect to take home the first hot girl you walk up to. Know that this is a process and will take some time.
Of course there will be failures along the way, but there will also be successes as well.
Don’t be afraid to lose the girl. If you’re afraid of ruining the interaction than you’ll have no chance but to play it safe. If you couldn’t care less if you got the girl or not, your interaction and attitude will reflect this.
Here's What To Do Next:
I wrote an article last week about some of the hidden places in your city to find more women.
It's an absolute “must-read” if you're reading this, since I know your next question will be “where do I find these 9s and 10s?!”
Trust me, they're out there. And I'll help you find them, even if you live in a tiny town.
Then, once you've checked that out, you should look at Craig's free guide to the 7 Hidden Signs She Likes You. Back when I was terrible with women, I thought I was invisible to all of the hot women out there.
But once I learned these unbelievable hidden signs she's interested, I started to realize that a lot more girls were interested in me than I thought.
Since I took the steps in this article? I get these signs even more often! That allows me to approach a woman with absolutely no fear, since I already know she's into me.
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