Hiring a Dating Coach Is Easier than Ever Before…But Is it Worth It?
Dating. Meeting Women. Having Sex!
You’ve gotta start somewhere.
For most guys, the journey to dating mastery begins with this question: How can I meet an attractive woman and engage her in conversation?
Maybe you want to find a woman to date exclusively, and eventually fall in love and get married…
Or maybe you’re only looking for some casual sex with a rotation of 3-5 women.
Whatever the case, you design your own life, and you have the power to make the changes you need. But some guys seem to be able to reach their sex and dating goals sooner (and more easily) than others.
So how do you go from a) Realizing what you want, to b) Actually achieving it?
Here’s my story.
How I Got My Mojo Back After Spending 30 Years as a “Domesticated House Cat”…
After spending close to 30 years as what I like to call a “domesticated house cat” (otherwise known as an unhappy husband), I found myself single and alone in 2010.
My confidence was shot…
I was middle-aged…
Bald and out of shape…
And completely set in my old ways.
I was an old dog with no new tricks — the last time I had been on a date was in the mid-1980s! I didn’t know anything about what was required to thrive in the current dating landscape that NYC has to offer.
What to do? I needed help. Serious, professional help — a teacher, coach, cheerleader, and critic.
Someone who could guide and encourage me from the “zero” that I was to….. well, let’s just say anywhere north of “zero,” and I’d be happy.
After reading a couple self-help books like “How to Win Friends and Influence People,” I finally realized that reading and absorbing information wasn’t enough. I needed some practical “field work.” Some “rubber meets the road” experience.
I wanted to date, have fun and have sex. So I looked into hiring a dating coach.
The #1 Tip I Learned From NYC’s 2 Best Dating Coaches
To be honest, I tried to get out there and do some of my own “field work” before hiring a coach… and the results were not pretty.
That’s when I happened upon a seminar titled, “How to Start a Conversation With a Woman and Never Get Rejected,” hosted by dating coaches and experts Craig Miller and Erik Kiton.
I was lucky that both Craig and Erik lived in my neighborhood in NYC, and were conducting a group seminar near my home. “Starting a conversation! Perfect!” I thought — I needed to relearn how to go up to a woman I had never met and simply start a conversation.
As is my nature, I showed up to the meeting 5 minutes early. I met Erik and Craig, made small talk before the seminar, and realized these two guys were genuine, decent guys, that not only knew how to meet beautiful women, but get them naked in record time.
Erik, by the way, was rated the number 6 dating adviser in the world.
Here’s the best piece of advice I learned from that seminar:
Rule #1: Her panties aren’t coming off until you can at least say hello! And…
Rule #2: Remember and refer to Rule #1!
It Doesn’t End There…
A lot of guys hear the words “dating coach” and instantly assume these guys are “pickup artists” or “seduction experts.”
That’s not the case at all, and from my experience working one on one with Erik, these titles don’t do him justice.
Erik is not a “pickup artist” or “seduction expert,” nor do I consider Craig or myself to be “pickup artists”.
Rather, Erik is attuned to the world of human interaction, developing connections, and having a great “social IQ.” Men want to hang out with him. Women just naturally want to have sex with him.
And as far as Craig goes… what can I say?
In less than one hour at his seminar, he told me what to do to guarantee, and I mean guarantee, how to begin a conversation with any woman, and do it in such a way it’s received with a smile, never rejected.
I’ve never asked Craig how many women he’s dated or had sex with, and that’s something that is only his business. What I can say with absolute certainty, though, is that Craig has gotten what he has wanted from women, and then some.
But back to meeting Craig and Erik… I want to tell you about the moment I knew I had to hire them.
The Moment I Realized I HAD to Hire a Dating Coach…
Part of the seminar involved going to a local bar/lounge to watch Craig and Erik actually practice what they preach.
They also made a point to observe my interactions as well.
I personally observed Craig introduce himself to beautiful ladies, exchange contact information, and set dates. And when I saw it first-hand, I thought, “Why not me too? Why can’t I get those same results?”
That’s when I knew — I had to hire a personal dating coach. Craig made it look so easy, and after undergoing some coaching of my own, I realized that once you know what to do, it really is easy.
Then and there, at the “field laboratory” (The Standard Hotel Bar in NYC) , I knew I was going to hire Erik and Craig to take me to the “promised land” of no more lonely nights, and an abundance of female companionship.
The Results: Was It Worth It?
Less than a month after I hired Craig and Erik, I was hanging out at the Ace Hotel in NY.
I met a fitness model from London who was in town on vacation, and I was interested in getting to know her better.
Thanks to what I learned through coaching, we had sex a few short hours later. It felt almost like magic.
I thank my coaches for decoding the mystery of male-to-female communication, attraction and dating. The value of meeting Craig and Erik was–and this is no exaggeration–PRICELESS.
Now that several years have passed since my coaching experience, I consider both Erik and Craig lifelong friends and wonderful, positive, life-changing influences.
I’ve had the opportunity to meet and date ridiculously beautiful women, and am never lacking for female companionship. In fact, sometimes I have a little too much female companionship… a dilemma I’m happy to have every so often. 🙂
Here’s the bottom line: If I can create the life I always desired, with a little help, so can you. So if that sounds like something you want, then I highly recommend you hire Craig or Erik as your dating coach.
The best athletes, musicians, actors in the world have coaches. Incredibly successful businessmen hire performance coaches. I did the same, and it has paid me back 1,000 times plus.
But you don’t have to take my word for it — here’s one of the first tricks Craig taught me about how to spot the women who are interested in you. It’s simple… but powerful, and I still use it to this day.
Did Her Boyfriend Catch Her Showing Me the “Sex Signs”?
[Before we even begin, THIS is what I did to get her showing me the “Sex Signs”].
The restaurant was dimly lit… though there was no mistaking this saucy vixen’s interest.
Why? Because of the “Sex Signs.”
First, I noticed her giving me the “Sex Eyes” when her boyfriend got up to use the bathroom.
Second, as the waiter handed her boyfriend the check, I saw her feet pointed toward me at the “Arousal Angle.”
When XYZ happened she gave me the third “Sex Sign” .:
That was all I needed, to know I could fearlessly approach her without any chance of rejection. I knew that she wanted me.
But what about the boyfriend? Well, when you’re concerned about a boyfriend, the best idea is to talk to both of them at the same time.
Man, stupid me — after a couple minutes I realized he wasn’t even her boyfriend… just a guy in the “friend zone. (You’ll find this happens a lot!)
We chatted for a few minutes and she gave me her number (yes, it’s that easy when you’ve already seen the sex signs).
Discover the “Sex Signs” That Reveal Exactly When a Woman Is Interested in YOU…
