How to Have Safer Sex (While Still Turning Her On)

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A woman asked me this question not too long ago–and I realized I’ve never really discussed it.

So here we go.

It’s a touchy topic… and the truth is, I usually coach men through the beginning of a relationship, so this conversation doesn’t happen so early.

That being said, it’s never too late to think about it–especially when it’s this important.

“What the hell is this guy talking about??” You might be wondering…

Well, I’m talking about the safe sex conversation.

Today I’m going to show you why this conversation matters, the best time to have it, and what to say so the woman you’re with:

a) Continues to sleep with you… and:

b) Opens up to you in a way that allows you to have hotter, more intense sex whenever you want.

Why Not Talk About This Early On?

This conversation is very important–for both you and the woman you’re with.

There’s no question about that.

(Otherwise, you risk certain health concerns, pregnancy, and the list goes on.)

So why, then, would I recommend that you not have this conversation early on?

I’m not recommending it–I’m insisting upon it.

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The first reason is the obvious one. It’s why you might feel uncomfortable when you’re in a position to have this conversation:

Women are sensitive to the suggestion of sex.

If you are sensitive to rejection like many of my clients–heck, most human beings–the moment of potential rejection is a particularly dangerous one.

With no specific thing to reject, you can often move very close to a woman’s emotional and physical desire before she asks herself the question:

“Do I want this to happen?”

The typical woman (and none of them are typical) is mostly looking out for risks.

When she meets a guy, she’s looking for reasons to say no, not reasons to say yes.

(Note: Sometimes this can be very different when a guy sparks her internal criteria–i.e. he’s “so her type”–or if she’s worried about whether he likes her–i.e. she’s avoiding rejection.)

As a general rule, though, most times you meet a woman, she has been in many situations with men who want sex. And she’s had a lot of experience delivering rejection.

Her “Doe Eyes” Explain Everything…

“Skittish” is the word for it.

As I like to say, a woman is skittish like a deer.

Think about it in terms of her “doe eyes.”

On the one hand, humans have 3D vision. We see things located clearly in space–and that makes it much easier for us to reach out and interact with our environments.

Deer, on the other hand, have eyes on the sides of their head. They don’t see in 3D vision.

Why on earth would anything have eyes on the side of its head? Is there an advantage?

Yes–doe eyes are better for spotting trouble and approaching danger.

Women are like that.

A woman is always looking for “red flags.” (That’s how most women talk about meeting guys by the way: “It was already a red flag that…”.)

So bringing up, “I’m trying to have sex with you, and let’s be safe about it,” too early in the interaction can easily trigger her skittishness, and cause her to run away.

So what’s a guy to do?

Why You MUST Have This Conversation If You Want to Keep Sleeping With Her…

If this is a conversation that potentially risks rejection, why discuss it at all?

Let’s not forget how important it is to you, to her, and to your relationship.

While I enjoy sex enough that–condom or no condom, I’m having a good time–as a woman gets more and more committed to the relationship, she may want to stop using them.

So how do you talk about it?

What are the strengths and weaknesses of having that conversation?

And what can you say to take your sex life to the next level?

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Well, it really depends on the woman you’re with. It also depends on how many times you’ve already slept together, and where you’re at in your relationship.

I’ll give you a trick to make sure this conversation goes as smoothly as possible in just a sec…

But first, I want to show you this:

How To Completely Ignore My Advice & Win

Believe it or not, despite all that I’ve said, it’s very possible to completely ignore my advice above and still get laid.

The paradox is all about what this conversation means to you (belief)… what you are trying to do (intent)… and how you feel about it (energy).

Here’s what I mean:

If what it feels like to her is that you are “screening,” then it can be a huge turn-on.

Because while “I’m trying to have sex with you” is commonplace and a red flag for most women…

“I have strict criteria for who I sleep with” is very uncommon in a man, and breaks her entire routine. Basically, it fries her circuits.

If this is such a good technique, then why didn’t I tell it to you in the beginning?

Well, “I have strict criteria for who I sleep with,” is not really a routine–or not an easy one, anyway.

A woman WILL test any uncommon scenario, and if you turn into putty because she suddenly gets flirtatious with you, then she’ll know it’s bogus right away.

So instead of having this conversation early on, I recommend waiting just a little bit…

And then, when you feel she’s ready, do this:

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When Done Incorrectly This Conversation Can “Ruin The Mood”…

This is a very necessary conversation…

But it can also be a very “unsexy” conversation.

It can make the woman uncomfortable.

And it can turn her off, and ruin the mood.

But it doesn’t have to…

You can still keep her mood up.

Still keep her turned on and aroused…

Ready to hop in the sack the minute you’re done having this talk.

The key is to touch her in the right way…

And there are 3 of these touches in particular, that will keep her horny while you’re having this talk, and ready to rip your clothes off the minute you’re done:

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