Relationships are the most exciting during the early days…
There is always a lot to look forward to… so many things you haven’t done together…
Whether it’s laugh at one of your favorite movies, eat at that amazing hole in the wall with the killer breakfast burritos, or have sex in the park at night…
Emotions and passions are at an all-time high. You savor every moment…
And at the heart of everything is the sex.
With time, however, the spontaneity starts to fade. Things become routine.
Spending all your time with the same person robs you of variety and excitement.
However, there are things you can do to spice things up and get that old spark back in your sex life.
Whether you’ve been together 15 days, 15 months, or 15 years, I want to talk about things you can do to bring the passion back into your bedroom…
And out of it as well…
When you up your game, she’ll feel challenged to do the same…
So don’t be surprised if the next time you come home from work, your woman is waiting at the door… wearing nothing but some skimpy lingerie and a big smile.
From the basics to down and dirty bedroom play, here are 10 ways to make a woman look at you (again) like you’re the only man in the world:
It might be your lack of fitness that is bogging you down in bed. You might find yourself getting tired…
This can turn sex into an obligation. A chore. Something that you would rather get over with than enjoy.
Exercise can be a great way to beat this. Improve your fitness with the right exercise routine and you can not only last longer but feel more at ease during intense sex sessions.
Proper exercise can be great for your heart. It can also improve circulation, and that means a better flow of blood to your sex organs when it is the most needed.
Exercise can also help you maintain a happier, more positive outlook due to the generation of endorphins.
2) Huffing and Puffing OUTSIDE the Bedroom Has to Go…
I said we were going to start with the basics, and it doesn’t get more basic than this:
If you’re still smoking, quit.
Smoking causes vascular disease. Effectively, this stunts the flow of blood to many areas of the body. This can include the clitoris, vaginal tissue, and the penis.
Quitting smoking is a great way to improve blood flow to these important areas.
Not only does it make you not feel like having sex, it can make your partner not feel as attracted to you…
Controlling your weight can also be a great way to reduce the risk of high blood pressure and diabetes, which can lead to erectile dysfunction.
4) Avoid Excessive Alcohol
A drink can help you and your partner relax and get in the mood. However, too much alcohol can harm your sex life.
Good old Whiskey d!ck…
Excessive drinking can hamper your ability to reach and maintain an erection. It can also trigger hot flushes and hamper your sleep, making you tired and turning you off from sex.
Too much alcohol can also be a cancer risk. Cutting down on alcohol is bound to have a positive effect on your sex life.
Trying a new position every week can be a great idea.
And if you’ve never experimented with one of these “Deep Spot” positions, they’re amazing for hitting her G-spot and her A-spot (haven’t heard of this? She probably hasn’t either…)
The beauty of these positions is that they’re great for even guys who aren’t do big *down there*… because it’s all about the angle. Read all about these deep positions here, to really wow your woman tonight…
8) Variety is the Spice…
If you have been stuck doing the same things over again in the bedroom, it might be time for a change of scenery. Choosing new locations for sex regularly can bring the spice of variety to your life.
Experiment in different areas of your home. You can even take things outside if you are feeling adventurous (while avoiding any public indecency).
Other ways to change things up is to think about role playing or experimenting in light BDSM…
9) Focus on Foreplay
Often, getting your partner properly primed decides the quality of your time in bed…
If your best efforts are not proving adequate, you can consider seeking medical help.
With the right medication or physical therapy, anything hindering your sex life can be treated.
Medication for erectile dysfunction or hormone therapy to treat problems with hormonal imbalance can certainly help you enjoy your sex sessions.
However, check with your doctor, as pills are expensive and can be dangerous… but there is a better way:
Doctor Prescribed ED Pills Can Be Pretty Dangerous…
You’ve done everything on this list.
You’re ready. She’s ready. So ready…that you can see how obviously wet she is as she writhes on the bed…just begging for you to slide yourself inside her…
And then…. LIMP NOODLE!
Bang! With no warning…your d*ck collapses like a Grandpa with narcolepsy.
It happens to most men, (including myself, in the past), so I know how embarrassing it is, how it can ruin a man’s self esteem, and how it can make women feel rejected and unattractive…
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