How to Get Laid More Often… And Other Alpha Male Secrets
Becoming more of an “Alpha Male” is kind of a controversial topic these days.
On the one hand, no one would argue that being seen as more of a leader by women… being seen as more “dominant” and “take charge”… and otherwise not caring about what others think are all huge turn-ons to most girls.
At the same time, there are a lot of really “douchey” guys who fake being “alpha” as a way to act like a spoiled child and get away with it.
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So when I found a guy who epitomizes the “Alpha Male” lifestyle in its best light… without any of the “douchey” aspects to it… I had to bring him into the Gotham Club fold.
This guy’s name is Ariel Vagus, and he runs the site Your Alpha Dude.
And as you’ll see in a moment, Ariel and I share an important mentor, who has taught us both a treasure trove of knowledge and secrets about being more “Alpha.”
We got together recently to discuss a lot of great ways you can become more “Alpha” in your day-to-day life, including:
- The “Evolutionary Psychology” Secret to what every woman is looking for in a guy she sleeps with (show her this and you’re only a few short minutes from being naked in bed with her)…
- What NEVER to do when with a woman--nothing dries up her panties for you quicker than doing THIS when you’re hanging out…
- PLUS 3 BRAND-NEW “Dominant Sex Moves” that make hot girls SQUEAL with pleasure (and why they like being dominated so much)…
…and a whole lot more. So here’s the interview below–enjoy!
Craig Miller: Hey Ariel, thanks for taking the time to chat today man.
Ariel Vagus: No prob man, thanks for having me.
CM: Your site, Your Alpha Dude, is one of the best “non-douchebag” places to get good information on being more “Alpha” on the entire internet.
AV: Well thank you.
CM: Were you born a naturally “alpha” guy?
AV: [Laughs] I mean, it should be an easy question, right? Either “you’re born being alpha” or you’re not, right?
CM: Why do you have that weird smirk on your face?
AV: Because the way I like to think about it is that yes, I was born with “the alpha gene,” or whatever you wanna call it. But for years and years–all the way through high school pretty much–I was pretty shy. I was timid. I was a safe little “beta boy” who was scared of his own shadow.
CM: Really?
AV: Yeah pretty pathetic actually. I was so f**king brainwashed by everyone–family, friends, movies, TV, the news–all that stuff told me to downplay my masculinity–everything that now makes me who I am. And so for the longest time I was this quiet little introvert, who just would “take it” from anyone who gave it to him.
CM: So when did you start to change?
AV: Uh… I wanted to get laid. [Laughs] Seriously there was a girl I really liked, somehow Billy Beta Boy younger me got her into bed… and that was it. She wouldn’t make a move, I wouldn’t make a move. And then I said something really dumb.
CM: Oh boy…
AV: Yeah ready to cringe? I said “Can I kiss you?” And she rolled her eyes and said, “Can you just be a man and f**k me already?” And so we did, and the sex was probably pretty bad in hindsight, but f**k it, you know? [laughs].
And really, when she said that, “can you just be a man and f**k me already?”, it really cut me to the core. Made me re-examine what the f**k I was doing with my life… and so I went down this rabbit hole of studying everything about masculinity I could find. Finding mentors and experts, you know, kinda like what you did. And it led me to evolutionary psychology.
CM: Uh-huh.
AV: And that was really interesting. Because in evolutionary psych, you have a lot of stuff that just makes sense. Like men are looking for a young, attractive, healthy woman to mate with, since she’ll provide better offspring. And women are looking for a guy with high earning potential–I can’t stress “potential” enough here–and they get turned on by more “Alpha” behavior, like a guy being dominant over her…and dominating other guys.
CM: Wow, yeah, lots to unpack there. Let’s talk a little bit about dominance for a second–how important is it to be “dominant” in a woman’s eyes.
AV: Dominance is everything. I’m not saying you have to be a control-freak who’s limiting where she’s going, who she hangs out with, etc. But if you give her direction, like if you’re going out on a date with a girl for the first time, and you say something like “Dress nice. Wear heels.” in a text… then many women will get those “tingles down there.” [laughs].
It’s less about “dominating” and more about “being dominant.” Like being the dominant figure in her life. Making decisions. Women don’t like to make decisions–if you’ve ever tried to eat out with a woman, you know that’s right [laughs]. So if you make decisions about where to go… what to eat… what to do… women will see that as very quote-unquote ‘masculine.’ They like that more often than not.
Again though, this is a tricky area for beginners. You can’t just be like, “We’re eating at this sh*tty Chinese restaurant.” And she’s like “Well I hate Chinese.” She wants to feel like she’s being heard. So it’s a fine line between doing exactly what you want to do… and asking for her input so she feels listened to.
Finally, the most important part of the whole dominance thing is f*cking her brains out and dominating her in the bedroom. Women (not ALL women, but well over 90% in my experience) naturally want to be more submissive in bed. They really want to get f**ked good… and that’s where a lot of this [nerdy voice] “umm… is it okay if I hold your hand?” stuff really puts guys at a disadvantage.
Women like it rough in bed. They like hair pulling… choking… being spanked… all kinds of kinky, nasty sh*t that you would think sweet little Sally never would be into… but she is. That’s because when she’s comfortable enough to give in… and do that stuff with you… that means she’s comfortable letting go completely around you. She can be 100% herself and in-the-moment. And with a lot of women these days, that’s a rarity–they get these “soy boys” who simply cannot f**k a woman properly. And it’s insane. So that’s why I focus a lot on the “dominance in the bedroom” stuff over at Your Alpha Dude.
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CM: One more thing along those same lines is how “introverted” or naturally “less alpha” guys can get a high-quality girl, and hang onto her. Talk a little bit about that?
AV: Yeah, again, it comes down to dominance. But if you’re a little shy or quiet naturally, then it’s gonna seem weird if you’re too dominant in day-to-day life. So for that shy, quiet guy, it’s especially important to be more dominant in bed. Really, really important. Like, from day one, you have to be spanking her… f**k her from behind… dirty talking… you can even try saying something like banging her from behind and asking her, “You’re my little slut, aren’t you?” Try that out and see how it goes. Because you’d be surprised how many women are way into that.
CM: Absolutely. What if a guy wants to be more dominant–in the bedroom or otherwise–but he just doesn’t have that confidence yet? Like he doesn’t think he can pull it off?
AV: Well, that’s where you and I have a bit of a secret weapon, don’t we?
CM: Yep.
AV: Because if you’re like that… you’ve got to get in Magic’s course right away.
CM: Magic’s the f**kin’ man.
AV: He absolutely is. And he’s a guy who, much like me, had his heart broken at an early age by a woman in India. He almost killed himself, he was so depressed… but then decided to come over here, spoke very bad English… and so he was initially really shy and reserved.
But slowly and surely, he turned himself into one of the great ladies’ men of our age. I’m talking banging hot blonde cheerleader-types two-at-a-time… cute “girl next door” types… batsh*t-crazy sexpots who do all kinds of sh*t in bed you wouldn’t believe…
ANY type of woman you could possibly want, Magic knows how to get with. And because he was so shy initially, he made that system of his that works really well without even talking all that much.
CM: Yeah it really is amazing how well it works for shy and introverted guys.
AV: It really is. It’s like a playbook on how to act “Alpha” right away… using your body language, eye contact, and most importantly I think, your touch to turn these girls on in a really under-the-radar sort of way.
I think once you know this stuff, it just makes getting with any girls you want so much easier… even if you’re already good friends… or if she thinks you’re weird… or doesn’t know you exist. It’s exactly what women want to see before sleeping with a guy–I can’t recommend this course enough!
CM: Yeah it’s really great–same here. Cool anything else you wanna discuss?
AV: Yeah with the dominance stuff in bed… a lot of guys wanna know specific “moves” or “tips” that they can use in the bedroom to seem more dominant. You know–the kind of stuff that wets panties and gets a girl to keep coming back to you in bed. So I wrote up an article with 3 of these really simple, easy moves that most guys don’t know about in bed… but that make her a sex-obessed nympho for you.
Once you know these, a lot more of your dates will end in sex. And then even better… those girls will keep coming back to you for more like a bad habit. It really is kinda “addicting” for them since so few guys know these 3 “dominance moves”… so you’re kinda her only option, you know?
CM: Awesome, yeah that’s really helpful. I’ll include a link at the end of this too.
AV: Awesome, thanks man.
CM: Anything else?
AV: Nope, that’s it with the article. Appreciate it Craig.
CM: Thank you man.
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So there you have it. Lots of great stuff from Ariel as always.
And if you want to know how to use his 3 “Dominance Moves” in the bedroom… the 3 moves that will make a girl really soaking wet for you… and sexually “addicted” to you… you can check out Ariel’s complete guide right here:
3 Panty-Soaking “Dominant Sex Moves” That Make Hot Girls SQUEAL With Pleasure
