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I was recently asked an interesting question in an interview.
“You’ve had a lot of experience with a lot of people and a lot of social, human situations. Could you give your strongest lesson learned?”
My answer was almost immediate. I find that answering quickly makes you look smart and, more importantly – honest. Think Tommy Lee Jones.
As an interesting corollary, I find that answering quickly – deciding quickly – helps you learn things about yourself, as what comes out may even surprise yourself.
“Yes, I can. I may have something better after a little thought, but this is the first thing that comes to mind: Be aware of your own hypocrisy.”
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What did I mean?
I meant, to start with, that we all have pet peeves, and behaviors we deal with in other people.
“Women only think about themselves!” (7:1">Matthew 7:1-5)
“Guys are always trying to hide their intentions”
“My girlfriend is too possessive.”
“Money is all they care about.”
Meanwhile, it’s pretty standard to recognize that a person’s pet peeve applies to them, too.
How many times has the guy who tells me all women are gold diggers and it’s hard when you have money to trust women, later on argues that money obviously makes a guy more attractive and without having it – or spending it – it’s going to be hard to get anywhere.
Well a few weeks later I saw my brother, and by chance the subject came up. He had a much better – clearer – and more familiar way of saying it:
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It takes one to know one.
“What!? I like it. Elaborate.”
“Well, I just find that whatever someone is continuously complaining about always applies to them, too.”
Yup.
Watch out for your own hypocrisy.
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Or, as the bible puts it, “Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye.”
What does this have to do with you, or why am I bringing it up?
We all have problem areas. They come in three forms:
- Hidden problems: the blind spots that are causing you difficulty
- Chronic problems: the areas where you really need to do something
- Points of leverage: i.e. where a little effort in change would yield a major result in actual or perceived change.
Well, an easy trick to finding all of them is to pay attention to your own pet peeves.
If something bothers you – really bothers you – it’s because that thing (or sometimes its mirror or precursor) is a problem for you.
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I’ve noticed, for example, that some of the women I date are concerned about my, ahem, fidelity.
I’m a flirtatious guy and women seem to like me, so any current paramour would seem to have good reasons to have her antennae up and pay attention.
The truth, however, is that unless I have a very casual relationship with a woman (not very common for me) I’m a one woman (at-a-time, at least) guy.
As I look back, however, the women that concern themselves with that sort of thing are women who’ve cheated in previous relationships or have trouble holding themselves back.
Most women I’ve been with either don’t fear it in me or seem as though they wouldn’t care.
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It’s also why I never see it coming myself. I don’t expect it because it’s not my thing, or something that frightens or bothers me.
I know what you might think (especially the women who read my words, or who have been with me):
“Maybe a woman is highly sensitized to infidelity because she was dating a cheater in her last relationship.” It is likely true of most women over 35.
Yeah, there’s some logic there, but the truth is, the reason she dated (and may still date) cheaters is because of something in her that draws her to them. Does that mean if she’s drawn to me there’s good reason to worry?
Yeah, it logically does, but it is not the CAUSE of worry (worry is rarely logical) but just the precondition.
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I’ve dated an alcoholic.
The entire time, I had no idea, I just thought she got drunk oddly (she’d be great fun – more and more fun – as she drank, and then suddenly, sometimes at the start of a third drink – become a sloppy monster, like she’d been drugged.)
It was only after she was out of the country that I realized the vodka bottle in my freezer was empty. Who does that?
I didn’t notice it at the time, nor did it make me more vigilant about alcohol abuse in potential mates.
Meanwhile, a lack of gratitude or affection drives me insane and is COMPLETELY intolerable in a partner.
This is also why your family – maybe it’s your mother or your sibling – can always push your buttons. Either what they do is intolerable or their recriminations or accusations get right to the heart of you.
Hint – it’s usually the same thing.
How can you use this – today?
First, as I hint above, what bothers you is a great insight into where your weaknesses are.
If you’re really sensitive to it, then you are probably struggling with it or guilty of it. It’s instant internal insight.
Second, what really bothers someone else is often a keystone to their personality, or at least a key insight to who they are and what they struggle with on a daily basis. It’s a shortcut to reading people deeply.
Basically, you can ask a woman, “What’s your biggest pet peeve?” on a date or in a first meeting, and instantly learn a lot about her.
And here’s how that gets you laid:
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There are two parts to getting a woman into bed quickly and efficiently…
Knowing a woman’s “secret weakness” will give you insight into how she thinks and acts… which can REALLY help your first date go a lot more smoothly…
But that still leaves one VERY big question unanswered…
How do you use a woman’s “secret weakness” to get her naked and on top of you in bed?
In my experience, it all boils down to this last part, which is FAR more important:
2) Read her secret “DTF” signs.
You can easily find out if a woman secretly wants to go home with you that same night… how?
It has nothing to do with asking her a question… and everything to do with reading her body language, and looking for some very specific non-verbal clues.
Things like eye contact…
The way she touches you…
How she smiles…
And the way she faces you with her body…
All these things will give you a LOT more insight into her true thoughts and feelings, than the actual words coming out of her mouth:
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