3 Low-Risk Ways to Turn Things Sexual With Hot Girls on the First Date (With Real-Life Examples)

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Hey, what’s up? It’s Ruwando here on behalf of Gotham Club, and today we’re going to answer some questions specifically related to first date tips for guys.  

This one is from Pete. He says:

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Are there any low-risk ways to escalate with a girl on a date and get physical or hookup with her?

Do you have any go-to moves?”

Alright, Pete.

I’m going to give you some principles because I think anytime a guy plans moves, it always comes out awkward or a poorly timed or something. 

I’ll also share some techniques that I use in my personal life, but first, let’s talk big picture.

I’ll show you the truth below:

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The most important thing is that you first admit to yourself what you want.

I like to do this exercise with guys who have trouble escalating.

Like when I’m talking to them, I’ll ask:

“Go back to the moment you wanted to escalate–the exact second. What would you do if you could do anything without consequences?”

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And a lot of guys who have trouble escalating just can’t answer that question.

You can do this right now while you’re reading this.

Think about the last date you went on…

Or the last time you were in the presence of a woman and you really wanted to escalate, or get into a sexual hookup…

And it just just stayed flat. 

Then do this:

1) Visualize Your “Ideal Escalation”…

In that moment, if you could do anything–like if this was a lucid dream where there are zero consequences–what would you do?

Be honest with yourself.

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Now, it might be something super aggressive.

It might be something crazy… but for most guys, if they’re honest with their sensations, you know, very few guys just want to stick it in a woman.

If they’re really honest, a lot of the times, it’s things like maybe you wanted to touch her hair.

Or maybe you wanted to kiss her cheek or makeout with her… but you have to pay attention to these feelings.

Even if they might not be exactly what you should do in the moment, pay attention to them.

You have to connect with those feelings, because she’s going to take your cue when it comes to sexual escalation.

So you need to know what you want in the first place.

2) Express Yourself in a Way She Can Say “Yes” To

The second thing is finding a way to express yourself that she can say “yes” to.

So maybe when you see her and you’re on a smoothie date or something, you’re getting a boner.

You want to bang her right there.

It can happen, right?

But you’re obviously not going to bang her in Jamba Juice.

So I would take that feeling and hold onto it.

This can be kind of an abstract concept, so stick with me.

It’s very important for sexual escalation.

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But take that feeling of wanting to rip her pants off, and try to reduce it to a level she can say “yes” to.

It might be that you feel that feeling in your body, but you reach for her hand.

Or you feel it, and you look her in the eye and say, “I think you’re so hot.”

You can even say something lighter than that, like “You’re beautiful.”

It’s not about the line.

It’s not about the move, either.

What’s it’s really about is feeling your honest feelings, and communicating them in a way that isn’t going to freak her out.

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You’ll be surprised by how quickly you can escalate when you do this.

I’ve been on first dates, and before the food even came we were like, “Yes, let’s go back to your place.”

And then we would just go straight to having sex

Why? 

Because I I knew what I felt. I communicated in a way that didn’t freak her out.

And very often you’ll be surprised by how far this can get you.

This is true for all guys, by the way.

I’ve coached a lot of guys through this exact scenario.

You’ll be surprised by how often the woman wants to do exactly what you want to do.

So it’s important to understand your own intention and be honest with yourself. 

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This is where a lot of guys cut themselves off from their own sexual intuition.

They try to hide waht they want and hide it from themselves, to the point that they’re like, “Well, I just didn’t know what to do.”

And the whole date goes on, and nothing sexual happens.

So she’s like, “Yeah, OK… talk to you later. I guess we’ll just be friends.”

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That’s essentially the entire principle of sexual escalation.

The big piece is to put yourself out there.

So if you’re still like, “OK, Ruwan, I get the principle… but what the hell do I do?”

Here’s something that should help:

3) Respect Yourself Enough to Put Your Desires Out There

I’ll just give you some examples of things that I’ve done, when I just had a sexual impulse.

So holding her hand is great, but here’s an important principle:

If you’re not sure if she giving you positive feedback (like she squeezes your hand back), then maybe it’s too soon.

It’s possible she doesn’t like you.

And that’s something you just have to be OK with. 

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Because what’s way worse then being rejected is not knowing where she stands.

So that could end up being a waste of your time.

I’d rather you put yourself out there and get rejected sooner than spend four hours on a date and realize weeks later that she was never into you.

Respect yourself enough to pur your desires out there and get a “yes” or a “no” way sooner.

That said, you know, sometimes a woman isn’t sure. And that can take time.

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So if you’re not getting clear positive feedback, I always like to let go and give her space until she comes at me.

I’m not just going to stay there, because I want to give her space to feel her desire.

But also, I don’t want to reinforce her pulling away.

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This is kind of what they used to call “Kino” escalation. Like you don’t want to stay too long so that she’s the one who pulls away.

When you pull away first, it allows her to feel safe.

And then she wants you to touch her, so the next time you do, she’ll give you that positive feedback. 

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This is kind of a technique, but it’s something I do and I think it’s not bad or lame.

Sometimes I’ll make a stupid excuse to touch her body and get some feedback.

Like I might ask about her necklace. It’s old pickup stuff, sure, but it does work.

So I’ll touch her necklace, and the back of my hand touches her chest.

The incidental touch will give me the feedback to let me know if she likes me.

If she pulls away, OK, I should not touch her.

If she leans in, OK, she wanted me to touch her.

And if it’s something inbetween, then I know I need more information.

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But in general, I always go for the ballsy stuff.

I think it’s just a way better payoff.

Also, it never hurts to talk about stuff.

You know, 10 or 20 years ago, a woman might look at you funny if you just looked at her and said, “I want to kiss you right now.”

Now, I think most people would understand and appreciate it.

Sometimes, it’s even more ballsy to say what you want rather than do it. And you can say it in a way that isn’t needy.

Over time, when you do this, you’ll get sharper and sharper at reading women’s feedback.

And this will really help a lot with escalation.

Pay attention to what you want, and you’ll be surprised by how quickly you can escalate.

Here’s what I mean:

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Once the date progresses use this move to make things sexual fast…

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Making an excuse to touch her jewelry… responding to her body language… visualizing what you want…

… all these things are great low-risk ways to make a woman feel closer to you…

Though if you want to sleep with her, there’s one more thing you have to do… You have to turn her on.

And while most experts would tell you this is the “riskiest” part of escalating with a girl… in my experience, that’s not the case at all.

This is especially true if you escalate using these 3 seemingly “shocking” touches.

I say “shocking” because they come off as TOTALLY friendly…

YET are proven by science to turn hot girls on a hell of a lot faster than you might expect.

I can personally vouch for this too…

As a matter of fact several weeks ago I scheduled four Tinder dates in the same week… with the purpose of seeing whether these touches make a big difference or not.

(Kind of like a little “sexperiment” I guess you could call it… hah)

So I made sure to casually touch two of them… and avoided physical contact with the other two.

I ended up taking BOTH of the women I touched back to my place for “more drinks”… and slept with both of them.

However… it wasn’t the same with the other two.

One just stopped replying to my texts, even though we had great conversations…

… while the other straight up told me that she wasn’t attracted to me… (gotta love it when women are straightforward instead of just ghosting on you).

So from my experience touch is essential to turn hot women on and get them into bed…

… but there are right ways to do it, and wrong ways to do it:

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