Today I’m going to show you 3 proven strategies that will get beautiful women in bed with you, using a whole lot less effort.
As a dating coach, I’m tired of seeing a guy in conversation with a girl and when I say, “It seems like you could have been touching her”… he responds:
If you open a woman that you find interesting or you’re curious about, but she doesn’t want something with you–and is willing to say so–she’ll say something like, “I have a boyfriend,” or “I’m married.” or “I’m flattered but…”
She won’t say, ” I’m busy,” “I’m a loner,” “I don’t like to talk,” or “I don’t eat.”
The Bizarre Reason Why Being Aware of Your Intentions Like THIS Makes Getting Laid So Much Easier…
What a lot of guys don’t respect is that although there is a pretense on BOTH sides of relationship that a guy is interested in a woman for her personality, she knows it’s really sex.
So when you pour attention on a woman who’s clearly not showing reciprocal interest, what you are saying is that you are ok with not having sex
Is that true?
Probably not.
But that’s what you are telling her–and yourself–when you are willing to give her “boyfriend behavior” without getting any “girlfriend behavior” (i.e. sex).
She’ll do what YOU consider relationship activities all day long–conversations, dinner, “socializing” . . . because what she’s really doing is talking, having dinner purchased for her, and showing up to places not alone.
What I’m saying is that given the same looks–which is a findable thing because you are not blind–this girl can be replaced to your satisfaction.
If you could find another girl that looked the same and was more sexual and/or more interested in you, you would be pleased with the change.
I’m not saying that the fact that she plays chess, speaks three languages or has an amazing singing voice is not a factor. It’s a bonus and of tremendous value!
I’m just saying that you, me and most guys can sacrifice that tremendous value for a woman who looks the way we want and gives it–or takes it–the way we like.
This is NOT true about men.
My “Stepford Wives” Secret That Explains This Male-Female Dynamic In Real Life…
The same exact looks is not enough reason to replace a guy.
The personality of a guy–an ephemeral thing at best–is not only his most important asset, it is his most attractive quality.
Have you heard of the “Stepford Wives”?
This story by Ira Levin became a film about a fictitious town where the women are too nice, too beautiful, too pleasing.
Then we discover the dark hidden secret: They are artificial; built to satisfy the men of the neighborhood.
This story works–and is interesting AND thought-provoking–because it makes sense.
It’s not hard to imagine a town made of fake women, who are pleasing to men, and it’s ALSO not difficult to imagine–for a woman–that a woman that cares too much about pleasing a man is not real.
There is no comparable cross-gender version.
There is NO version of men that women want duplicated for their satisfaction–outside of a little sexual fantasy here and there.
Women specifically want a unique specimen.
They WANT a particular man, not a perfect one.
“But What About Boring Rich Guys Who Get Major Hotties?”
“Yes, David, but I’ve seen wealthy guys with crap personalities with some major hotties!”
This may be true.
You don’t KNOW their personalities or what might be attractive about them. Remember that a lot of behavior we wouldn’t like is attractive to women.
You don’t know whether she wants to be there.
Often a woman is with a man because she feels she doesn’t have any choice–afraid, for example of pain or poverty or loss or loneliness–but not for any pleasure or desire.
While that may be a sufficient attachment for you, I certainly don’t write these articles so I can help you bully some girl into your bed or get a woman chained to you in desperation.
On the contrary, I coach not so that a guy can get one girl for one night, but so that you can get any girl for many nights.
For example, if a woman smiles at you she might just be friendly, or in a good mood.
However… if a woman lightly touches your arm… subtly bites her lip… and looks you right in the eye when she slowly says ” hello handsome” in a seductive tone…
And that’s why a lot of experts like to say “your target is more important than the tactics.”
Because when you know how to spot these interested women, with pinpoint accuracy… your odds of rejection go WAY down, and your odds of getting laid go WAY up… regardless of what “opener” you use… or what you say to her at all really.
In my experience, knowing this is the key to sleeping with the women you want… when you want to…
… and without jumping through any of the hoops most men have to to get laid:
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