Easily Prevent Rejection: Avoid These 5 Dangerous Phrases

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Rejection Sucks, Here’s How to Prevent It

I want to start this week by talking about…being horny.

Is there anything wrong with being horny? Of course not. It’s natural, it means your testosterone level is strong, and if you ha “the urge,” it means that you’re healthy, in most cases.

But, as a woman, it has always amazed me (and made me laugh) as to how many men feel they need to express how “horny” they are (directly) to women, in some form or another.

And, typically, it’s to women who they haven’t built proper rapport with, or the attraction died a long time ago, or the woman just isn’t there emotionally (or sexually) yet with the man.

But he’ll insist on making a crude, mystery-killing, and therefore attraction-killing, comment such as:

“That makes me so hard…”

“Your outfit makes me horny…”

“I was thinking about [insert sex act]…”

“You always make me horny…”

For the majority of women, these types of comments are disgusting, creepy, gross, weird…and certainly nothing positive. They almost certainly lead to rejection–“next!”

They definitely make your intentions known…but in the worst possible way. Like I said, these types of comments:

1) Kill the mystery for her,

2) Don’t take into account whether or not she’s “ready” to hear/read them, and

3) Show that you’re more than a bit “over-eager.”

In addition, the man automatically admits that she’s in control of him, and she has power over whether or not he’s fulfilled and happy. Not sexy.

It goes back to the same psychology of a man sending a photo of his manhood to a woman.

Because the man would love it if she sent a naked photo of herself to him, he projects that and sends one to her.

But, women typically don’t find naked junk pics appealing, but they do get a good laugh from them as they show them to their girlfriends and make jokes about the man who sent it…right before they reject him.

The same goes with the type of comments above. Men typically like to hear a woman say the crudest things imaginable, even if they recently met and they aren’t fully attracted to each other.

But just because you find it hot doesn’t mean that she does too!

I’ll let you in on a little secret…

I’m friends with a number of men who would admit that they’re generally very good with women. Some even get paid for their advice (though I’m not talking about any of the thought leaders on this site)!

Some of these men have matured nicely overall, can hold enjoyable conversations, can discuss interesting things, are well traveled, and so forth…

But, a percentage of them still (some after years of teaching guys about how to get better with women) will suddenly drop a crude, inappropriate bomb in the middle of an otherwise pleasant conversation!

And, I’ve even experienced them going as far as telling me “I’m unzipping” and “my hand’s going ‘down there'” during an average (and what should have been normal) phone conversation. Uck! Really?

Really.

Even with everything they know (and despite the fact that deep down they know this kills any mystery and attraction that might exist), they allow their little brain to take control and project, and they spout off with immature remarks and actions.

The Difference Between Romance Novels and “Real Life”

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Now, as you well know, women do love romantic language & romance novels filled with erotic wording.

But, I guarantee that no popular romance character has ever floated around in the plot, dropping crude “me so horny” bombs to women.

No way. These characters are portrayed as being refined, having high sexual standards (therefore hard-to-get), and in control over their emotions (and hormones), even though they are absolutely sexual men.

Women do adore sexual & sexually confident men. Yes, we do. But a substantial element of being sexually confident, is being sexually refined.

Being mysterious. Being proud. Knowing he can get what he wants through his calm demeanor and witty comments, not having to try and force it through obvious, in-your-face, remarks before she’s attracted to you.

It also goes back to evolution: When she isn’t properly attracted to you, and the woman receives a comment of this insensitive & direct nature, she feels that it’s disgusting, creepy, gross & weird, because (deep down) she feels danger is lurking and she needs to be careful.

She puts up her defenses because there is nothing to tell her this is a safe man to procreate with, who is in control of his environment. What he just said told her the opposite.

So while there is nothing wrong with a man being horny, and women even expect men to be (and want them to be), there is no need to be over-the-top crude with women you barely know unless you want to guarantee your ongoing sexual frustration and rejection.

Here’s What to Do Next

I know it can be confusing for you sometimes: “Just talk to her…”

“But don’t say that!

That’s why there’s only one sure way to get a woman primed and ready to talk so that she’ll be into all of the shocking, “dirty” things you want to tell her…

…but that will turn her off if she’s not attracted to you yet.

And it’s easier than you might think…

So here’s the next step: click here now to see how you can wordlessly start building uncontrollable attraction and desire in women who otherwise wouldn’t give you the time of day.

Just click here now and you’ll be well on your way to being able to say whatever you want to any woman and not having to worry about it.

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