Your Conversations With Women Can Be Smooth and Stress-Free…
She’s the first thing you notice when you walk into the cafe. You just have to talk to her…
But what can you say? Think! Think!
I’m Aslen Claymore — I run a coaching company and I just released a new book. You can check it out here.
And in my experience, even the smoothest of talkers sometimes run out of things to say — it’s perfectly normal and happens to all of us.
But the real question isn’t why you sometimes run out of things to say around women…
It’s how to get around it. And today, I’m going to show you the answer.
The Single Biggest Mistake Guys Make When Talking to Beautiful Women
The biggest mistake guys make when talking to women is trying to think of a good question to ask when they don’t have anything else to say.
This creates a problem, because questions don’t lead a conversation — statements do.
So when the smoothest talkers fall into that “void” of having nothing else to say…
They embrace it! That “void” is actually your friend.
Why?
Because conversation doesn’t come from your head (where the “void” is) — it comes from the woman you’re talking to and your surroundings.
And the reason conversations with women sometimes feel “strained” is because you’re focusing on a specific outcome — getting her number, or getting a date, or whatever…
Instead of being in the moment and showing your genuine interest in her (the true purpose of conversation).
Now, I’m not saying you should forget about why you started that conversation with her — but you also have to show your active interest.
And I have 3 tools to help you accomplish exactly that:
1) Conversation Hotwiring
The best way to forge a conversation out of nothing is to use something I call “Conversation Hotwiring.”
To “hotwire” a conversation is to start it in a way that leads into a natural flow. And there are 2 ways to accomplish this:
a) Guess something about her, or…
b) Make an assumption.
Both of these get her attention and prompt her to respond to you. And neither involves asking her a question.
So you could guess where she’s from if she has an accent or “exotic” look…
You could guess what kind of job she does if her clothes give anything away…
Or you could even guess one of her hobbies if she’s carrying any books or bags.
And if nothing else comes to mind, it could be as simple as guessing what kind of mood she’s in (if she looks smiley and happy).
As a general rule, I like to keep things really simple and try not to go too overboard. The goal is to make a quick statement that brings the attention back to her.
If nothing stands out at all in any way, so no assumption would make any sense, then make a statement about the way she looks in a pleasant, positive way.
But be careful: You don’t want to “compliment” her, necessarily, because that would give away too much…
But commenting on an item of jewelry, clothing, or her hair are all possible directions you can take.
Here are some examples:
- “You know, you’re probably the happiest looking person I’ve seen today. Either you’re always like this or you just had some great news today”…
- “You look Swedish. Swedish girls always wear all black with white converse”…
- “You look like a girl who always tells the truth. Tell me…is the coffee here any good?”…
These are just examples, but the best “lines” are always taken directly from the environment you are in and the girl you’re talking to. So it’s always best to come up with your own guesses and assumptions.
And it’s easier than you think, too — when you’re observant and focus on the girl you’re talking to (rather than falling into the mental trap of conversation doom), then these little statements will naturally come to you.
That brings me to the second tool you can use to have phenomenal conversations with beautiful women…
2) The Conversation Safety Net
Once she responds to your initial assumption or statement, the trick is to just make another statement about whatever she says.
It could be a related story…
Or a continuation of the thought thread…
Or even another related assumption…
Whatever it is, once you have that down, all you have to do is repeat it over and over…
And bam — you’re in an actual conversation.
I call this the “Conversation Safety Net.”
When in doubt, make a statement about the last thing that she said. Then, and only then, can you ask her a question.
And that’s because when you make statements, you add value to your conversations.
So the more statements you can make, the more value you convey…
And the easier it is for her to respond.
That brings me to the final building block you can store in your conversation wheelhouse:
3) Get Into the “Physicality Fastlane”…
Imagine this…
She’s leaning into you & twirling her hair. She can’t take her eyes off you. There hasn’t been a dull moment.
The waitress even remarked on what a cute couple you made…
All you can think about is driving her home, carrying her up the stairs and tearing off her dress.
But… how? The bar will close in 30 minutes. Then every single one of those 1800 seconds ticks by.
And then she gives you a kiss on the cheek and thanks you for the wonderful evening.
What went wrong? What did you miss? Did you forget something?
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