Does She Like You? The #1 Sign Most Guys Think Means “Yes” But Really Means “NO”

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How To Avoid Rejection & Find Out for Sure if She Likes You Sexually (Without Asking Her)…

Click here to discover 3 little-known “sex signs” she secretly wants you (that most men miss)…

If you read my column every week, then you know I write a LOT about having conversations with women.

In fact, you might say that I write about it too often.

But you know what?

There’s a reason why I write about it so much:

In my experience, the better you are at talking to women–and the more you know about why women act the way they do–the easier it is to get really hot girls to sleep with you.

But today, I’m not here to give you a pickup line, or some witty verbal routine to seduce a woman.

I want to talk about a problem that many guys experience over the course of their lifetime (myself included):

Not being able to figure out if a girl likes you.

And in fact, when it comes to having conversations with women, this problem gets worse. Because there’s one thing women do that causes guys to think, “Wow, she really likes me!”

When in reality, she doesn’t.

The Bizarre Reason Why Women Send Mixed Signals During Conversations…

If you’ve ever had trouble reading a woman’s signals, let me just say that it is NOT your fault.

Men simply aren’t hardwired to read women’s subtle cues–and this is especially true during conversations, when you have to focus on what you’re saying.

And as a result, a lot of guys end up trying to escalate sexually with women who aren’t interested in them. Either they get rejected, or they waste hours of their time talking to a woman who’s never going to give out her number or agree to a date.

Have you ever heard the saying, “Questions are the most powerful part of communication”?

It’s been said hundreds of times, and in hundreds of ways…

But the point is, a lot of guys think that asking a girl questions is the best way to escalate in a conversation.

Here’s something few men will tell you though:

When a guy is talking to a girl, and he’s interested in her… the tendency is to abuse and overuse questions.

Maybe he does it because he’s been told that’s the “right” way to do things.

Or maybe it’s because he ran out of other things to say…

But whatever the case, when men are talking to women they’re interested in, they ask WAY too many questions.

And that’s one huge reason women send mixed signals.

Think about it from the girl’s perspective:

When she’s talking to a guy, and he’s asking her a lot of questions, her natural tendency is going to be to answer them.

This is true whether she likes him or not.

Unfortunately, this causes a lot of guys to think that she likes him, simply because she’s staying there and talking to him.

Who Says You HAVE to Answer A Question?

I won’t deny that asking a woman questions works to a certain extent.

Especially when you don’t know what you’re doing, or what your conversational goal is, questions can be “great.”

Have you had questions “work” for you in the past?

My bet is that you have.

If your goal is to have that hot girl stay in conversation with you longer, then questions will almost always get you some fleeting success.

Here’s a story to illustrate the point I’m making, though–that questions don’t work to get girls in bed:

A few months back, my niece asked my brother something unimportant, like “Why does mommy want to go to the mall tomorrow?”

She asked him this while he was telling her that she was supposed to be in bed half an hour ago.

He replied, “It is bedtime. You get to sleep.”

“But…” She began, “… you have to answer my question.”

As he agreed and began answering the question, I shook my head an walked away.

Who says you have to answer a question??

If there’s anyone who obeys an abundance of not-necessarily-accurate social rules–like the fact that you “have” to answer questions–it’s attractive women.

(For example, most attractive women like to “code” their sexual interest because they feel it’s too “aggressive” to show a man they like him. Click here to see 3 of the most common examples.)

You see, attractive women started out as pretty girls, and pretty girls stay pretty because they want to be liked.

This desire to be liked comes out in many ways, and one of them is being concerned about what other people think of you.

If she can be judged–and everyone can–feeling as though she “looks good” or “did the right thing” may be very important to her if she cares about what other people think.

So what?

So, this means that while I might disagree with the concept of asking a hot woman questions to escalate with her…  the truth is, questions are likely to hold her attention, or at least her time.

5 Examples of What This Looks Like in Real Life…

Basically, questions allow you to control the conversation.

But they don’t get a woman to like you.

And if a woman is staying there talking to you, answering your questions… it does NOT mean she wants to jump into bed with you (but more on that in a second).

Let me explain with another story one of my female clients recently told me:

She said, “Well, I was talking to this guy I sort of know… he’s hit on me before and he knows that I wouldn’t go out with him.”

And she went on, “He was leading the conversation and kept asking me questions, but I really wanted to talk to his friend.”

I pictured that guy pestering her with questions, and I cringed. Ultimately, questions keep the conversation alive–but it’s totally artificial.

Here are some more examples you may be able to relate to:

1) A salesperson who won’t let you leave a store…

2) A beggar on the street, asking for a nickel, a dime or a quarter…

3) An animal rights activist or Greenpeace representative…

4) A self-proclaimed musician trying to sell you his CD in the subway…

5) One of those Jehovah’s Witnesses at your door, trying to keep the conversation going…

Do you notice that in most situations when someone you don’t want to listen to is annoying you… they’ll ask you a lot of questions to keep you there?

Of course, I’m not saying that you should never ask questions when you’re talking to attractive women. I’m just saying that asking her questions is not a reliable way to figure out if she likes you.

So how DO you figure it out, then?

I’ll show you:

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3 TRUE Signs She Likes You (That Most Guys Miss Entirely)…

So if a woman is sticking around, answering your questions, and you suspect she might like you… how the hell do you figure it out for sure?

Because the truth is, she’s probably NOT going to lean in and kiss you… or just ask you out on a date right then & there… most women just don’t do that.

(They think it makes them seem “easy.”)

So instead, here are 3 little-known signs to look for that tell you, with nearly 100% certainty, that she’s into you.

These are signs that most men miss, because they SEEM totally “friendly”… though deep down, this is her way of telling you she’s secretly dying to go home with you.

And seriously, I can’t tell you how many guys I’ve personally watched miss an opportunity to have sex with a super hot, “out of your league” girl… simply because they missed these signs.

So if you want to figure out for sure if a girl is interested in you sexually, without asking her… and eliminate almost any chance of getting rejected…

Then here are the 3 signs to look for, so you know for sure she wants you:

Click Here Now to Discover 3 TRUE Signs She Likes You (That Most Guys Miss Entirely)…

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