The Easiest Way to Change Her Mind… (She Will Even Make the First Move!)
A woman is a complicated creature — it's nearly impossible to tell what's really going on in her mind.
Because of this, I've spent a lot of time studying how women perceive men… and finding ways to change a woman's perceptions.
According to experts, a woman's perception of you is about 50% based on your body language…
40% based on your “vocal tonality”…
And just about 10% based on the actual words you say.
Pretty crazy, right?
So if a woman has blown you off in the past…
Or told you she “just isn't interested right now”…
Is there a way to change that?
Yes — and today I'm going to show you how.
What the World’s Most Successful Brand Can Teach You About Women…
If you don't own an iPhone, you most likely know somebody who has one — and you know that Apple is the company responsible for making them.
The iPhone is a very complicated device — probably the most complicated electronic item in mass production.
Yet, even your older relatives or co-workers get the gist of the iPhone (and probably have one of their own).
What am I getting at?
When you meet a woman, you have to market yourself like Apple markets the iPhone: In small, simple ideas she can understand.
(I'm not calling women “stupid,” but the less complicated you present yourself, the easier it'll be for her to remember you.)
For example, think back to when Apple introduced the iPod:
While other companies marketed their similar products using terms like “GB's,” “Upload,” and “File formats”…
Apple simplified their pitch by making a super short slogan: “1,000 Songs in Your Pocket.”
Now there's something anyone can remember and understand.
Today, Apple is one of the world's most successful companies — do you think this is a coincidence?
(Spoiler alert: It isn't.)
So with women, it's best to take the “Apple approach.”
Who You Want To Be Vs. Who She Wants You To Be
I've gotten a little ahead of myself here. Because before you can think about the best way to show women who you are, you have to understand who you are first.
Ask yourself this question:
“When people meet me, how would they describe me?”
This will give you some insight into how other people see you.
Another way to approach this is to think about the last time you were in a room with other people.
What did you notice about the people you don't know? Could you guess anything about them?
Try playing Sherlock Holmes for a second:
- What did their clothes say about them?
- What could you tell from listening to their voice?
- How about from the words they said?
There's a lot you can tell just from being around another person…even if you aren't interacting with them.
For example, are they a student? A lawyer? Blue collar or Ivy League?
A film buff, maybe? A jock? Vegan?
You might be surprised to discover how many things you can easily surmise about a person on first view.
So when it comes to the nuts and bolts of who you are, your mannerisms, clothes, and vocabulary are all great ways to communicate that.
Who Should You Be, Anyway?
The next step is to connect the tools you use to communicate who you are, and make sure they're congruent with how you see yourself.
Of course, you're a multi-layered person — so you have to pick and choose which parts of you to communicate.
This might be a tough pill to swallow, but the two qualities women are looking for most in a mate are a man who's “high-value,” and confident.
So if your goal is to change her perception of you, it's important to find a way to show her these two qualities.
You can do this, even if you don't feel you are “high-value” or confident. The key is to use your own qualities to make you feel that way…
Because if you feel high-value and confident, then she's going to see you that way, too. Trust me.
How to Craft Your Perfect Identity to Make Her Yours
If you're feeling overwhelmed by all this, that's perfectly normal. Just try this:
Grab a piece of paper and a pencil, and write down the identity you want to show her.
Begin with “I am a _______….” And go from there.
Do you want her to see you as a writer?
As a bad-ass? An artist? An adventurer?
Take 5 minutes and write down a few ideas.
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Now examine your list, and decide which of these identities will be the most attractive to her.
How can you tell?
Just pick the one that you feel conveys the most “value” and confidence!
For example, identities that are more creative tend to convey a lot of value to a woman.
Another tip is to choose an identity that makes you look like a decision-maker or leader (rather than a man who takes orders from someone else).
You don't have to lie or be dishonest to change her mind about you — all you have to do is show her another side of your personality and identity.
It Doesn’t End There…
Another way to show her your value and confidence is to “dress the part.”
For example, think about the characters in your favorite TV show — they all have a very specific wardrobe, right?
This is no accident. And that's because your style choices are a huge factor in influencing how women see you.
For example, the “bad boy” in television often wears a snug leather jacket.
A TV doctor will usually be wearing scrubs or a lab coat — but what about when he's not in uniform?
He's probably well-dressed and composed, right? These are two indicators of a “high-value” guy.
Notice how some outfits blend in and others stand out. Which do you think is better?
Figure out who you are, and represent that to a T.
At the end of the day, your goal is to attract her, right?
Here's the easiest way I know how to do that:
How to Spark Her Sexual Desire for You (Even If She's Already Friendzoned You)…
If you want a woman to see you as more than a friend…
Without bending over backwards… or using any complicated techniques… or changing who you are as a man…
Then it’s essential she feels a “spark” with you.
She probably has a lot of different names for this “spark”… like “butterflies”… or “tingles”… or “natural chemistry”…
And if she’s like most women, she thinks this “spark” is something that just “happens” with certain guys… the guys she “happens” to be sexually compatible with.
Though after years of experience, I’ve discovered something that most women don’t know:
And once those sparks are triggered…she can't help but be powerfully attracted to you… even if she's already friendzoned you…or said she doesn't “see you in that way.”
and hell, sometimes she’ll even invite you over to her place for “another drink” right then and there.
You can see exactly how to do it right here step-by-step–you’re gonna love this: