Sexy Cam Girl Kelley Cabbana Reveals All–Plus How to Get Any Woman to Try Kinkier Things With You…
If you've never heard of “cam sites” or “cam girls,” well… then I've got a few surprises for you today. 🙂
Hi, I'm webcam model Kelley Cabbana, and I have a lot of experience stripping down & baring it all on camera.
I've been a cam girl since 2011 and was nominated for AVN's Favorite Cam Girl in both 2015 and 2016.
So today, I want to talk to you about what it's like to be a cam girl…
How you can make the most of your camming experience…
And what you can do to get a shy or “vanilla” girl to open up to you in bed.
Let’s get started!
Why I LOVE Camming (And Why Every Guy Should Try It)
If you aren't familiar with cam sites, they're basically sites you can go to where you can watch models and pornstars live on their webcam.
They're super popular because you don't really need much to feel like you're part of the “experience.” All you need are a webcam and an internet connection, and the possibilities are pretty much endless.
But why go to a cam site in the first place? And what made me decide to be a cam girl?
Personally, I love doing cam shows because I know I'm being watched. I know that might sound a little kinky (lol), but it's true!
I'm a bit of an exhibitionist, and knowing I'm turning guys on from the safety of my own screen is insanely hot.
Seriously, I love interacting with my fans–you guys are great!
I especially love when I'm directly connected to one or more guys so I can see how they're responding to me.
I love watching them stroke themselves too–not only is it a huge compliment, but it's a big turn-on as well. 😉
Who’s Really in Control on Cam Sites?
It might seem like a dumb question–you would think that since I'm the one in front of the camera, I'm always the one in control…
Well, this is sometimes true–it's my show and I can ultimately do what I want.
However, I also love to make my fans happy and give them an experience they'll never forget. So when you're watching me, a lot of the time, you're the one who's really in control.
Another thing is that I like to be both dominant and submissive, so taking orders and giving up control can be just as hot for me as being in control on screen.
What's amazing about being on camera is that everything is 100% live, so I can truly interact with my fans. This is much different from porn, where you're simply watching something that was previously recorded.
This means that I can take your requests…
Do whatever you desire…
And give you exactly what you want.
It drives my fans crazy in the best way, and it's also a lot of fun for me!
My Secret Turn-Ons That Drive Me Wild In Bed…
You might be curious to know what turns me on–not just on the screen, but off of it as well.
Well, the truth is, I really love trying out new things.
Mixing it up in bed is definitely my biggest turn-on. I love being in control… but like I mentioned earlier, I like to be submissive sometimes too!
(Especially if I can tell it's turning my partner on, lol.)
I also really enjoy role-playing and acting out fantasies.
And let's not forget a biggie–a guy who knows what he's doing with his tongue *down there* is also a huge turn-on for me.
Ultimately, I get bored pretty easily, so I need things to be interesting in bed.
However, a lot of girls may seem more on the “vanilla” side… so if that's the case with the girl you're with, then I've got a few tips up my sleeve to get her to open up to you.
3 Ways to Get a “Vanilla” Girl to Try More Adventurous Things With You
In my experience, a lot of girls who seem very “vanilla” or shy in bed… well, they simply lack confidence and self-esteem.
So if you want to spice things up in the bedroom, then there is a little work involved.
However, it's definitely worth it.
With that in mind, here are my top 3 tips to get a shy girl to open up to you in bed:
1) Experiment With Sexting
This is a great tip if you're in a long-distance relationship, but it also works even if you live together.
Getting a hot text from your partner is exciting and tempting–especially if you send it when she least expects it (like on her way to work).
However, you have to be a little careful with this one.
You don't want your girl getting a naked picture of you in the middle of an important meeting or lunch with her mom.
Try to time it so she's alone in the car (or anywhere alone) to get the best reaction.
It'll have her thinking naughty thoughts about you all day, and it can be an easy way to get her to open up to you in the bedroom.
2) Stroke Her Ego
Like I mentioned above, many women who seem shy in bed simply don't feel confident about themselves.
And that's because it's really easy for women to feel insecure about their bodies. Even if she's the hottest woman you've ever dated, don't ever assume she's confident about how she looks.
In order to get a girl like this to experiment in bed, she needs to feel confident and unstoppable.
You can help her by letting her know how hot you find her and how perfect you think her body is.
(Another really easy way to get a hot girl to try new things with you? Give her an amazing orgasm, of course! Click here to see an easy one-handed foreplay move that's proven to get hot girls off FAST.)
If she feels safe and beautiful in front of you, she'll be much more willing to try out whatever fantasies you have in mind. Trust me. 😉
3) Ask About Her Fantasies
Finally, figuring out what really turns a woman on is an awesome way to open her up to new sexual possibilities.
So try asking her if there's anything she wishes you would do to her in bed.
If you don't go down on her that often, then start with that.
Pay attention to how she responds to the way you touch and kiss her, and learn what really drives her wild.
Because if you can really blow her mind in bed, then she'll be much more willing to experiment with the things that drive you wild.
And of course, you want to give her a mindblowing orgasm… right?!
Well, I've got one last trick up my sleeve to help you do that:
This “Pornstar Secret” Can Give Her Multiple Mindblowing Orgasms…
If you’re like most guys, then you’ve probably seen some porn with crazy s**t in it… stuff like squirting… fisting… double-sided dildos (?!)…
And the truth is, some of us girls in the industry are totally into that… but most of us aren’t.
Honestly, when I’m in bed with a real man… without any cameras… I just want to have a real, genuine orgasm… without using any weird “c**k rings” or bizarre “maneuvers”…
…which is why I’m SUPER freaking excited to share something with you:
It’s a technique that male pornstars have recently been using to give girls multiple orgasms… like real multiple orgasms(!)… using only their 5 fingers and a little motivation. 😉
Us girls in the industry have been calling it the “5 Finger Tantra Technique” lol… not because it’s super kinky or whatever… but because it was developed by tantric sex expert and ex-porn director, Lawrence Lanoff (Hey Lawrence!).
Well, I guess Lawrence heard enough of us girls raving about his technique… because he recently made this video that shows how any guy can do it.
Seriously, the next girl you sleep with will thank you for doing this to her (I’m legit getting turned on just thinking about it *mmm*):
[Note: This post was updated by Gotham Club on November 24, 2019.]