Over 700 Women Reveal Where They Go to Meet Men–Can You Guess the Best Place to Meet Women?
A lot of guys assume that the only places you can effectively meet women are in places like bars…
Clubs…
Or other high-end evening “hangouts.”
Well, what if I were to tell you that this couldn’t be further from the truth?
A recent survey conducted right here at Gotham Club asked over 1,400 men and women where they go to find romantic partners… and the results were pretty shocking.
So today, I’m going to use the results from our exclusive survey to reveal 5 little-known “hot spots” where you’re most likely to meet the next woman of your dreams… whether you’re interested in something casual or more long-term.
5 Little-Known “Hot Spots” Where Single Women Go to Meet Men
The survey asked the female respondents a whole host of questions. First, the women were asked to list where they currently go to meet guys.
Another interesting question the survey asked was where women would go to meet men in an “ideal world.” That is, where these women would like to meet men, even if they aren’t meeting them there now.
These are the two questions I kept in mind when making this list–I took the places where the most women are currently going and compared it to where women said they’d go in an ideal world, and analyzed the differences. Then, I looked at the numbers for men–more specifically, I tried to pinpoint the places where the most women and least men are going.
So with that in mind, here are the 5 best places for you to meet single women right now:
1) Events
Interestingly, 8% of women go to events to meet men. This may not sound like much, but on top of that, 23.7% of the women said they’d go to events to meet men in an “ideal world.”
But what exactly qualifies as an “event”?
Well, it depends on your environment. If you’re in a big city, for example, an event can be any number of things:
Lectures at colleges…
Meetups (for any kind of subject/interest)…
Festivals…
Art gallery openings…
And so on.
If you live in a smaller town, on the other hand, then try checking out shows at local bars and restaurants. Or if there’s a bustling art scene, then check out the galleries on the first Friday of every month (AKA “First Friday”).
Why would so many women want to meet men at events, though?
It all comes down to serendipity–at an event, the women there already know at least one thing about you. That is, that you share an interest in whatever the event is about.
Plus, meeting a guy at an event has that “It just happened” vibe that so many women seek in a partner.
2) Online
You may not consider online dating to be a “little-known” hot spot, but the numbers don’t lie — 40% of women currently use the internet to meet romantic partners.
And while 10.8% of women said they’d meet their partner online in an “ideal world,” the reality is that online dating cannot be ignored as a platform in today’s technologically-driven society.
Whether you opt for Tinder, OkCupid, or some other app, the key is to find one that’s both relevant and suits your personality.
For example, a lot of younger women are currently using Bumble, so if you’re interested in meeting a younger woman, then that’s probably worth signing up for.
3) Volunteering
Only 2.3% of women currently seek romantic partners while volunteering; however, an impressive 7.2% of women said they’d meet their partner while volunteering in an “ideal world.”
What does this mean for you?
Well, it means that even if most volunteering events aren’t chock-full of women looking to meet men…
The women who are at these volunteering events are likely much more open to meeting a guy than the women in, say, some random bar.
Your best bet would be to volunteer at women’s rights & animal-related events, where many women go to have fun while they support a great cause.
4) Airports & Abroad
At one point or another, every woman has walked into an airport wondering, “Is today the day I meet a handsome stranger?”
Sure, it might sound cheesy–but according to the survey, 9.4% of women would like to meet their next partner while traveling and abroad.
However, only 1.8% of women say they currently seek romantic partners while abroad… and there’s one big reason for this disparity:
Most women don’t travel for the sole sake of meeting men. Instead, they secretly hope and wish to meet a man the little time they do get to spend traveling.
How can you take advantage of this?
The best thing you can do is to just keep your eyes open–hang out in airport bars…
Start conversations with your seatmate on flights…
And when you get to your destination, don’t forget to try and meet new women there! Whether you’re most interested in a casual fling or a long-term relationship, you never know what you may find.
5) Work
Finally, the last little-known “hot spot” where single women go looking to meet men is at work.
I know it might sound crazy, but at the end of the day, it makes sense.
Not only do you spend a lot of time with your co-workers, and you likely share several interests… but you also probably live in the same area. These are all factors that contribute to how women seek out and select their sexual partners.
The survey numbers support this, too–9.4% of women currently look for romantic partners at work, and 6.5% said they’d like to meet a partner at work in an “ideal world.”
Personally, I’ve fantasized about having a fling with a cute co-worker before too… so if you have a cute female co-worker you’ve been crushing on, then it probably wouldn’t hurt to ask her out for coffee sometime. 🙂
Here’s why:
The Time My MUCH Older Co-Worker Got Me to Ask Him Out…
So I’m at work one Monday morning, getting my second cup of coffee… minding my own business… when my co-worker, Dan, walks up to me.
I expected the usual: A few minutes of boring friendly chit-chat, followed by some gossip about our boss… though the strangest thing happened:
When Dan reached for the creamer, his hand grazed this spot on my shoulder… and I felt this kind of “spark.”
To be honest, it stopped me dead in my tracks… because even though I’ll admit I’ve always kinda wanted to have a fling with a cute co-worker… Dan was not my type physically… plus, he was at least a decade older than me…
Why in the world did I suddenly feel these *tingles* for him???
Anyway, we continued to talk for a few more minutes… until I just couldn’t help myself, and did something I’ve NEVER done before (lol):
“Hey, you know there’s a really cute coffee shop around the corner… maybe we could go there for lunch tomorrow?”
When I got home from work that night, I kept thinking about our conversation… why was I suddenly so attracted to him?
What did he do to make me feel those “tingles”?
And why, oh why, had I asked HIM out (and in the middle of a work day)???
I hopped online to do some research… and then I found the answer:
